#But Top was the only one who had made a commitment to monogomy so???
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okay I just need to get something off my chest. I'm a member of the lgbt+ community, and some of the discussions I've seen online about Boston have really rubbed me the wrong way tbh. like, countless people seem to imply that he's a terrible person because he's promiscuous?? there's nothing wrong with sleeping around! it's not inherently immoral! I know that in this circumstance a lot of people are saying it jokingly, but I've heard a lot of people irl - both outside of the community and within it - be really crappy and rude about m|m being promiscuous, like really looking down on them for it as if it's some sort of failing on their part. and it's not! again, in Only Friends I know there's more to it, and there's cheating and hurt feelings and whatnot involved, but Boston has not committed to a monogamous relationship with anyone and he is not morally in the wrong for simply sleeping with people. it's his body and that's his perogative! so, idk it'd just be nice if we could tone it down on the whole "Boston sleeping around makes him a terrible person" thing ig
#Boston#Bostonnick#bostontop#Only Friends#only friends the series#Ofts#Listen listen#Him sleeping with Top knowing he's in a relationship with Mew? Now that's morally dubious#But I'm barely seeing anyone complain about that they're really focused on purely his promiscuity it seems#And it's not everyone! And most people are being lighthearted and whatnot!#But it's just echoing a very hurtful trend I've seen a lot with my m|m friends irl so I just felt the need to highlight it#Also also I really haven't seen people crucifying Top for sleeping with Boston half as much as I've seen the reverse#But Top was the only one who had made a commitment to monogomy so???#Why is Boston getting the backlash so much more#Because Top made the ''commitment'' to being monogomous (the ''better'' choice even through he broke that commitment?) but Boston didn't??#Idk the General attitude just irks me but also it's probably like not even that deep
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