#B) that logan is soooo important to her life bc he holds her accountable

[felixcatton]

Your point about Logan 'holding her responsible' doesn't make much sense though because Rory never blamed him in the first place, she just said she didn't want to spend her time partying and he took it too personally. I agree that she makes her own choices when it comes to fans blaming the boyfriends but you holding up Logan on this pedestal for 'calling her out' isn't any different from Jess fans saying Jess was the one that saved her, when neither did that

my point didn’t really have anything to do with her blaming him since, again, it was about how the people in her life talk about her choices, not really how she talks about her own. i didn’t say that as a “wow he calls her out 😍” because i don’t think she needs that, as i said in that post (and i also never used the words ‘calling out’ or ‘holding her responsible’ i’m quite sure, because i never would because a grown woman doesn’t need to be called out on her own basic life choices, which was my point from the start). i said it as a “wow he is the only one who ever said ‘that was your choice and nobody else is to blame for it’” lol. nothing to do with whether she actually does blame him or not, simply that in a sea full of people in her life saying “oh logan must have made her do this thing, jess must have made her do this thing,” logan said “you did it, not me.” maybe this is just a point that only makes sense in my head since it’s not seeming to translate well. but my tags did start off with me saying she saved herself or neither saved her or whatever it was i said, so of course i wasn’t trying to say “she’s so lucky that logan calls her out and makes her a better person” a mere few sentences later haha.