#And tho it may well have been an intended thing it just doesn't serve the theme very well

[frigid666]

op's gf sounds like a typical self-righteous radblrite who doesn't know how to act around normie women. even a normie woman she supposedly loves. who tf purposefully embarrasses her s.o. like this ?? as ppl in the comments have been pointing out, if op's s.o. was male and purposefully embarrassing her in an attempt to control how she dresses/presents herself, we would all rightfully call that out as shitty behavior.

the part where she accuses her of trying to look "pretty for men" lowkey sounds like she's accusing her of intending to cheat on her even tho theres likely no proof of this being the case outside of her j wearing makeup...as if women wear makeup SOLELY for men's approval. yes that is a part of it for many women, but women's influence on one another to engage in beauty rituals is huge. most women who dress up femininely will tell u that they receive positive feedback from women for doing so just as often as from men. women are treated better by everyone in general for wearing makeup. being treated well in daily interactions is often motivation enough for women to wear makeup. sounds to me that op's gf is insecure about their relationship bc she's only open to dating women while her gf is open to dating both sexes. i would bet anything that op's gf harbors insecurity bc of this tbh! she needs to get over this insecurity or cut op loose so she can find someone who won't project her internalized biphobia onto her.

i understand the difficulty of having ideological differences with ppl u care about. for example im a vegetarian but everyone i care about (family, friends, etc) is not. they talk about meat in front of me, bring food that has meat in it around me, go to restaurants that serve meat, buy meat at the grocery store etc. ideally i would love to change their minds about the morality of eating animals + have them go vegetarian, but im not going to accomplish that by pulling idiotic stunts like op's gf did. part of being an adult is learning to cope with the fact that u may end up caring about someone deeply who engages in behaviors u don't agree with! and at that point, u have to decide if being right or the relationship means more to u.

im not surprised to see so many radblrites applauding op's gf for being a total brat about a disagreement, seeing as how most of the women on here are only interested in being correct about things and have no clue on how they come across to non-feminist women. nor do they have the desire to adjust their behaviors, even when theyre self-sabotaging. if i were op i would have broken up w her; i dont tolerate anyone who tries to control me via public humiliation, and neither should any other woman.

OP’s girlfriend is incredibly based and is actually hilarious, in the comments OP said they’re both bi but her girlfriend doesn’t date men only women.