#Amelia is bi

[mmso-notlikethat]

HAPPY BI VISIBILITY DAY 🩷💜💙

some of my favorite canon bisexual characters

[imtheiliad]

i made a short post here referring to my own experiences and wanted to expand on it, you can reblog both of these posts btw. I am only writing this all down because the way some of you have spoken about chris and his decision very much bothers me. trust when i tell you i do not want to completely lay out my trauma on the internet for all of you to read, but if it makes one of you understand why this works, why it is important, then it will have been worth it to me.

When I was 12 my father was diagnosed with frontal temporal dementia. the adults in my family and his doctors decided that it was best for him to be moved to a a full time care facility. The next year, and after hearing, seeing, and understanding my father's condition and where it would go, I, at thirteen years old, made the decision to say goodbye to him, that I did not want to hear about what levels of deterioration he had reached. I wanted to remember him as he was when he remembered me, and all the adventures and fun things we did together.

I made that decision. I made it because it was easier than watching him deteriorate, forget who his sister, his brother, my brother, my mother, and me. And I knew that at twelve and thirteen. It was never a decision I ever thought I would have to make, it wasn't a decision I should've had to make.

Now, the important part, over the next few years my decision was questioned and ignored by the adults in my life and even my brother, some of the questioning I can understand now that I am older, but it should have never reached the level it did. My aunt and uncle would openly discuss his condition over dinner when he came to visit, and I would run away to the restaurant bathroom and cry my eyes out until my mom came to get me. I was forced into visiting him in his care home, which ended with it causing far more harm than good. Only then was my decision somewhat respected, it took me being retraumatized for it to be taken seriously.

Despite all of that, I do not regret that decision.

I can't know how I would be different if none of that happened. But at this point in my live, eleven years and some therapy later, I am fairly certain I would be less traumatized, carry less resentment and anger, if maybe my mom had spoken up at those dinners and made arrangements to get updates without me next to her trying to enjoy my pizza. Had I not had to see my own father forget my name and then have some sort of mini medical emergency. Had my brother heard me in a way only a sibling could.

So, yes, Christopher at thirteen made a indefinite and truly most likely temporary decision to remove himself from an environment where he doesn't fully trust his sole and primary caregiver. He knows his dad loves him, Eddie made that so clear. And it could really be 5 minutes, 5 days, 5 weeks, and so on and so forth until Christopher is ready to come home. And him knowing that Eddie respected his decision and loves him no matter what is what is going to make that time shorter. If he had walked out with his father begging him to stay, to forgive him before he was ready, the chances of him coming back would in my opinion would be far slimmer than the circumstances under which he did leave.

with that i leave you this, "yeah people go away. and it's sad. and it hurts. but you know, not everyone goes away forever. sometimes they come back. and as much as we miss them, that's how happy we are to see them again."

[bookdragonquotes]

[multifandominfj]

Your Honor, I love them. ❤️🥹

[hedonistbyheart]

Romance in Red.

Thanks to Mr. And Mrs. Dechart and Neil Newbon for an impeccable reference.

[silent-idea]

Favorite Characters (no particular order) ↴ Amelia Shepherd ⇢ Grey's Anatomy/Private Practice

[mylittlenookcorner]

“Who’s your favourite character?”

The traumatised scary badass bisexual with daddy/mommy issues

[sunliights]

open to anyone. test muse: amelia herrera. 23 years old. bisexual. she/her. professional dancer. plot: ‘we’ve been fucking with no strings attached but i just saw you go upstairs with another guy and im drunk and following you both upstairs to punch the shit out of him’

"what the fuck is wrong with you?" after she'd relied on other people to split up the brawling pair, amelia cornered the more familiar of the two in the bathroom. "what the fuck was that?"

[slytherintothedms]

i cannot and will not get over the parallels between sam and amelia and dean and benny. like charlie literally asked dean if he’d gone through a breakup (which let’s be real he had)

[singlethread]

This found me on PINTEREST ??? ALDHKZHD

No escape from the gay firefighters everrrrrrr

[sanctamater]

MOTHER OF SORROWS / LADY OF MERCY. web weaving and parallels for @doloridis <3

[spideyhina236]

Happy Pride Month to some of my favourite queer characters 😊💕🩵🏳️‍🌈

[imtheiliad]

THE WAY APRIL IS SHAPING UP TO BE THE BEST FUCKING MONTH OF MY ENTIRE LIFE ACTUALLY

[webanglikethat]

🩹 — visiting Carter at rehab with different LIs┆𖤐

Grant:

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Tristan

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Chloe:

Lilian to be added later cause I messed up my slot -- also I recommend to everyone not to ask Tristan for help cause that will result into Carter going to the 'normal rehab' meanwhile asking Grant gets him to the luxury one

[nuclearplutonium]

lil hfjone ship info dump (you don’t gotta agree with me this just works well in my autistic brain)

Oh hey, I forgot to add but in this headcanon I also assumed that Liam just killed himself, made it back to the waiting room where Airy is probably, Liam then got Airy to tell him how to get back to San Francisco, and Liam is just there now. A lot ikr-

Airy is just stuck in the waiting room, he has no where to go. He just helps people with codes probably, or he eventually made it back to the place he originally was at.

[i-am-the-unicorn-triumphant]

fiscally conservative people are so fucking weird because what do you mean you’re okay with voting you and your friends rights away just so you get to pay less taxes