#Also it's fully possible you'll find yourself somewhere on the enby-spectrum!
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Do you think constant exposure to forcefem stuff can actually turn you into a girl? I’ve been really confused about my identity lately. But I’ve also dabbled with forcefem content for awhile and I’m scared my feelings are more correlated with exposure than with “real” identity. I know that the whole hypno category of stuff doesn’t work unless you already want it to, but I mean more like being influenced in the same way you would be influenced by ads (which people famously underestimate how much they are influenced by).
Whenever you make a post I keep thinking “god I wish that were me” and I’m not sure whether I need to go further and just let go of my nagging doubts, or if I should step back and just go full detox for awhile and let the feelings go away. I feel like at this point if somebody told me it was too late for me and I should just let myself be turned into a girl, I would believe them. But also if they told me that I’ll undo all of these feelings if I go zen for six months in a cave I’d believe them too.
Sorry for rambling. tldr AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
Cutie thinking "I wish I were turned into a girl" is a pretty big sign that maybe you're already a girl, you just lack the confidence to accept it!
Since let me be honest about the first part: If you fully removed any and all Gender and forcefem thoughts from your enviroment you might be able to lock this part of you away, and just life a live where you always have something nagging at the back of your mind, something slightly wrong whenever you see yourself in the mirror (if you don't subconsciously stop looking at yourself at all) And if you'd rather do that... That's okay (though you'd need to stay in that cave forever, and also there's no guarantee it'd work)
But I think that just maybe you'd be happier accepting that you're a girl! A cute one at that!
And also something: A big part of why a lot of trans cuties are intressted in Forcefem is because they're girls!!! At least it's that way for me! Forcefem is fun because I wanna be forcefemmed and since I'd like to be forcefemmed I'd also love to do it to others!!!
So yeah! If you're looking for permission to be a girl, here it is:
You already are a girl, you never needed permission dummy!
Now go out there and try on some skirts!
#Also it's fully possible you'll find yourself somewhere on the enby-spectrum!#And that's also fully alright!#Take your time!#Explore yourself!#See what works!#Talk to other queer folks!#I'm proud of you for building the courage to send this ask cutie!#And I wish you luck on your journey to discover yourself!#.#serious talks#not forcefem#i-like-talking#asks open!
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