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crixaflamma-the-second · 3 months ago

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hang on.

youre telling me alloromantic people feel over the moon with joy when their crush likes them back, not an overwhelming sense of dread?

youre telling me alloromantic people regularly think about kissing the people they like?

youre telling me alloromantic people dont feel like they have to have a crush and spend the first month of school obsessively searching for someone they like?

youre telling me alloromantic people arent terrified of dating and commitment and all that?

youre telling me alloromantic people actually know what their "type" is?

youre telling me alloromantic people actually LOVE people romantically?

youre telling me alloromantic people dont have one vaguely romantic thought about a person and then force themselves into thinking they have a crush on said person?

youre telling me alloromantic people prioritize the people they have a crush on over their friends?

fuck.

#currently going through a major “fuck i think im aro and dont think i genuinely liked anyone”#bc thinking back my previous crushes were:#1: “everyone else is having a crush so i need one!”#2: “aw dangit my crush likes someone else i need to immediately find someone else to like!”#3: “wow you like all the same stuff as me and i wanna talk to you a ton so that must be a crush!!”#4: “well this person likes me and everyone thinks we'd be cute together so i have to like them back”#5: *has a single small and vaguely romantic thought about them* “oh i must have a crush!”#6: basically number three #7: basically number three plus a bit of number 1 #and based on my friends descriptions of this stuff my “crushes” sound a lot different #so any aromantic souls out there willing to help me out bc i'm kinda having a whole ass crisis #agafxafcdhg #aromantic

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