(ok first I want to apologice for my English, I hope you can undesrtand it) It might not be the right time, but let me tell you this: there are bad shippers in every fandom, of every shipp. Stop and think about this: have you ever attacked other people for what they shipp?? Have you ever tried to devaluate a friendship just because you don't shipp it or because it's your NOTP?? If the answers are no, then please don't feel bad, you're not doing anything wrong.
I wish every ARMY who think badly of us thinks the same way as you.