#...so when somebody reaffirms their boundaries they take it as 'you are such a SHITTY person and i'm going to attack you'... | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

uncanny-tranny · 1 year ago

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Being uncompromising on your boundaries doesn't make you the spawn of satan. It makes you a normal person, and anybody who makes you feel horrible about not compromising on your boundaries should perhaps be a yellow, if not red, flag, at least.

#boundaries #mental health #i think some people see other people's boundaries as an attack on their character...#...so when somebody reaffirms their boundaries they take it as 'you are such a SHITTY person and i'm going to attack you'...#...instead of as 'hey these are my boundaries and i just want to remind you of them'#it seems like many people themself use boundaries to attack people rather than to preserve their own safety/sanity so they assume...#...other people will be doing the same thing and when somebody affirms their boundaries it can only be because they're under attack...#...maybe call me sigmund frued because that could just be wildly inaccurate for people who see boundaries as attacking #but that's just something i've noticed before and it makes me wonder y'know?

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