#.⛈️grenade speakin🌩️

[sillygrenade]

Friendly reminder that if you will ever think that your selfship, oc, ooc, and "bad writing" is cringe to be ashamed of... Well, im here to remind you that this is not cringe at all. You know what the real cringe is?

Goverment that make lives unbearable.

Scammers who literally steal money from vulnerable groups of people.

People who BULLY and hunt literally KIDS for their ocs.

Big corporations that treat and pay their workers poorly, for their hard work.

And you? You do nothing wrong by trying your best to give yourself reasons to be happier. In fact, happy people contribute much more to society, than all of the above examples, even if society don't want to say this.

Take care of yourself.

And please, don't beat yourself up for innocent hobby and wishes.

You can gush to me about your selfships instead

[sillygrenade]

I believe if you (not at you op) want examples on how to act and what respect looks like, you should check basic etiquette guides. Maybe even some psychologists advices on how to build relationships and how to see "red flags", set boundaries, say no, etc. Life is complexier than fiction, and fiction owes no one to be realistic, in fact, fiction purpose is in straight up lie about reality.

There are TONS of educational content for that, medical and mental cognitions, don't blame it on random fiction writers, if you wasn't provided with such by family, school teachers, or goverment, and search it yourself, please.

Don't read 120 Days of Sodom, or killing stalking to guide your life, you know.

You can't just let other people control your life choices. Especially fictional, these guys are wild even in cute kid cartoons.

There is no place for fiction in educational materials (well, if you don't teach literature or fiction) because anyone would laugh and not take you seriously if you will use fiction as a proof for irl phenomens.

They can be good as small, not detailed, simplistic examples, based on reality.

I think the reason why I get really annoyed at the “this fictional content isn’t ok because it glorifies/romanticizes (x)” is because like…not all fictional content is made for educational purposes. Some fictional content is made purely for self-indulgent purposes or for escapism.

not only that but to a point it kinda gives off the vibes that the person making that argument relies solely on fictional content to guide their morals and tell them what’s right and what’s wrong, which I don’t think is the case for people arguing this point but still, that’s just the vibe I get.

[sillygrenade]

Ok ok guys now im geniunely interested.

Who was your first character to selfship with?

Can i have image and some brief description of their personality, and what you liked about them? Do you selfship with em still?

[sillygrenade]

Hi yes i just discovered your blog and it brings me so much comfort and joy! Thank you for being so sweet! Have a great day! 🥺🧡!

Ty! Ima trying to comfort my inner kid with it, because too many harsh thing was said to them.

[sillygrenade]

MY WAS PEPPERMINT BUTLER.

He is round, short (i loved tiny men for some reason at the time), in SUIT, kinda edgy, and he fucking remind me one of those guys. For now i only remember how i daydreamed about s/i drowned him in a fucking swimming pool. 😭 They got some abuse going on for sure-

That was my very first selfship scenario. :D

Also lemongrab was my fav character for some reason. i remember how sad i would get because i wasn't seen a lot of fanart of him. i didn't selfship with him, only being fascinated when he was on screen.

Ok ok guys now im geniunely interested.

Who was your first character to selfship with?

Can i have image and some brief description of their personality, and what you liked about them? Do you selfship with em still?