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[mister13eyond]

tbh a large chunk of my affection for vin & my characterization for him comes from the overdone idea that a character who is morally grey/does not have a moral compass/has little empathy for humans and thinks of them as pretty much toys MUST be dark, troubled, threatening, or otherwise made scary- like. i see lots of "this immortal has lost touch with their humanity & it's made them distant, ethereal, stricken with ennui and dissatisfied" but like

dude there is SO much shit to do in the world. losing touch with your humanity blah blah, having no morals seeing humans as playthings whatever- can't someone be doing that and having a Fucking Blast? i just love an immortal, dream-eating demon who acts like he is at fucking disneyland every day, he's thrilled in equal part to experience the gruesome reality of a nightmare and also to pick up a new hobby- all stimuli is good stimuli, all experiences are good experiences, he loves feeling things! he loves feeling terror or sorrow or grief or loneliness by getting to join in on a nightmare or a dream of someone lost or a dream of isolation. It's so COOL and FUN, humans have such rich little lives, aww!

[cancerjupiter]

🍃 earth venus 🍃

venus in taurus

ex: paul mccartney, lana del rey, princess diana, ariana grande, prince, daniel day-lewis, grimes, baekhyun

material security is a major focus of their attention and desires, sometimes to the point of being noticeably greedy or cheap. they can be infinitely patient, kind, and sustaining for others, feeding them with food for body and soul; at their best, they’re pleasingly sociable, and quite artistic. if they don’t achieve satisfaction, they become very mean and irritable because they simply must have their pleasure or object of desire.

expresses affection physically, warmly, steadily, and possessively.

their reluctance to show feelings or lose control hampers intimate exchanges.

value material comfort and beautiful physical objects; deeply appreciates all physical senses.

taurus venus have a winning, considerate manner (at least in public and when in a good mood), and often have a pleasing voice, either talking or singing. taurus gives a need for continuity and comfort when dating. they easily settle into a quiet routine involving at least one other person - however, their partner might not be available at every moment taurus venus needs them. they enjoy “love” but prefer regularity rather than surprises and are often lazy and not very experimental. possessiveness is a dominant trait of theirs, and they stay for a long time, taking a while to get over relationships that didn’t work out.

their retentiveness about money and possessions extends to feelings; although they’re gently affectionate and attentive in a practical manner, they’re rarely emotionally demonstrative. they have a quality of patience and one-on-one communication, however, that smooths over even an aggressive personality. the simple pleasures of life slow them down, and more than any other sign, they love comforting routines they can savor. they’re attracted to earthy, solid, reliable types of people - someone they can depend on, for care and feeding in particular. they appreciate intelligence and personality, but basic qualities are higher priorities.

taurus venus understand love deeply; accept it with their whole being, and are confident to express it wordlessly, valuing love’s silences rather than its speeches. they cling to a mutual love with unbelievable tenacity, even if facing significant obstacles. all sense reactions (touch, sound, smell, sight) are enhanced by this placement. they’re very comfortable in their bodies and in tune with their surroundings. they know how to make others comfortable and enjoy nurturing. most tend to be involved with art.

unfortunately, they can be very laid-back about relationships, inwardly very involved, but reluctant to show their feelings. scared of being exposed. they pretend not to care and put up a wall. very security conscious, but stubbornly unable to express deeper feelings. but once they become attached, they’re not leaving unless it gets way too bad.

venus in virgo

ex: leonard cohen, gillian anderson, john lennon, mick jagger, robert de niro, kieran culkin, demi lovato, bella hadid, carrie fisher, sylvia plath, joni mitchell

virgo venus voracious love of analysis often leads to excessive criticism of both self and others and to a great deal of self-consciousness. although they want a healthy, faithful relationship, they also have a greater passion: work and duty. they have a tension between sensuality and puritanism; they never seem sure if things are morally, aesthetically, or sexually perfect enough. often needlessly creates tension within themselves through denial or repression of physical needs.

there is a tendency to underestimate the powers of attraction, and they will express their inherent modesty in a genuine shyness to developing relationships. communication and friendship need to be part of a good love story for them, and they must consciously relax into a relationship. my ultimate assessment is that they need a relationship to incorporate both mental and sensual communication.

expresses affection directly, modestly, helpfully, practically, and timidly.

petty criticisms and natural reserve can interfere with a healthy relationship.

a need to serve and be useful gives emotional satisfaction; find pleasure in attention to details and analytical mental activity.

once they’re fully committed, virgo venus can be the most honest and helpful partners in the world. if they have accepted the other person completely (faults and all!) and have relaxed their sharply critical attitudes, they can be a reliable partner without peer. they’re usually concerned about appearance and, like taurus venus, must learn their partner is not a possession. they’re methodical and cautious in their relationship approach, and slow to awaken to its possibilities. 

virgo venus mastered self-criticism! they’re constantly doubting their own attractiveness and value. however, they do appreciate affection from others since they do not have great confidence or experience in that area of life. they worry constantly about love and how they actually feel about someone, creating problems through excessive analysis. a mental connection must be established before entering any serious relationship. in fact, they talk about sex more than have it.

they’re usually attracted to someone “proper” - someone neat, intellectual, disciplined, and probably career oriented (someone they can look up to). however, by defining love and sex too narrowly and perfectly, they create a problem and a source of guilt and disappointment. getting realistic about their true needs, desires, and capacities is the only remedy

they love feeling helpful and able to give practical support to their lover’s needs, especially if they have been suffering. they feel like helping therapeutically. guilt or pity plays a role in motivating them to show affection to another. they’re emotionally practical and think they know what they need in a relationship, try to find it and stick with it. they’re somewhat shy and don’t reveal themselves too easily, with a tendency to be ‘picky'. they're hard to satisfy because they're perfectionists, and demand perfection in others and themselves.

venus in capricorn

ex: brad pitt, miley cyrus, bjork, james dean, the weeknd, sinatra, rupaul, david lynch, alex turner, elliot page, virginia woolf, megan thee stallion, sza

cap venus is serious about anything that affects their emotions, reputation, or material security. they have a great sense of humor, but they may express it with a certain restraint. there’s a great deal of self-control. the deeper the emotions, the harder they are to express them, and they would much rather express them by action than words. they strengthen others through their solid commitment and affection, and do a great deal to support their partners and make sure they’re successful. they’re proud of their reliability and old-fashioned loyalty - even if violating it now and then. 

their insecure, defensive nature uses formal manners as a means of protection. they’re very conscious of how their relationship looks, and many like to show off their loved one, almost as a status symbol. their natural attunement to authority manifests in how easily they fall for authority figures. they often have a particular fixation for the father - a common obsession for anyone with major capricorn placements.

expresses affection cautiously, seriously, and with perseverance.

they can inhibit relationship development because of their need for self-control and emotional reserve (that comes out as aloofness).

capricorn venus require some kind of commitment (at least a long time) before they feel comfortable getting involved in a relationship. they’re quite conscious of conventional behavior and public image and thus are rarely publicly demonstrative, though privately one shouldn’t doubt their capacity for deep passion and sincere, physically expressed feelings. this is the one venus placement that delivers far more than they promise, both sexually and emotionally.

they’re usually attracted to someone older, or in a position of authority. they’re not above marrying for security reasons - or at least postponing or denying themselves a relationship because of a lack of financial foundation. they view intimate relationships far too seriously sometimes. they can be very demanding of affection when deeply committed.  if acting too passively, they become insecure and uneasy about how emotionally vulnerable they seem, so they like taking control.

in order to feel attuned to a situation or another person, emotionally, they need a sense of structure. cautious about opening up to others, distant and detached with strangers; not talkative and involved, even superficially. as get to know people, they become more spontaneous, but still guarded and easily defensive. until a serious commitment, the capacity to express love doesn’t really open up.

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