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cultivating-wildflowers · 7 months ago

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today a friend at church asked if I or my brother was older and I said my brother, and then my mom threw in “but she’s the oldest”, to which I further clarified that our middle sister is actually the big sister of the sibling group

the youngest maintains her title of “baby of the family”

#if anyone wants to know what our family dynamic is 😂#on the one hand I don’t really know why my mom meant but on the other…yeah it makes perfect sense #I don’t have eldest daughter syndrome but I DO have bossy older sister issues #(several friends have assigned me big sister vibes so it works y’know?)#(I do try to work on the bossiness but it’s kind of my…what’s the word? fatal flaw? that’s not right…)#meanwhile our middle sister gets along best with everyone and keeps the peace and is also the most intimidating #(none of this was helped by people continually assuming the middle sister is the oldest. and sometimes that I’m the YOUNGEST)#(more so when I was a teen admittedly)#our brother is just kind of…there? firstborn and only son but those titles carry next to no weight #mine

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