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lobotomy-maybe-bestie · 4 days ago

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i have a dating app that i've ignored since november, and i so badly want to text people back on it but i have NO IDEA what to say. what do you even bring up?? what do you talk about?? please god help me

#i don't even care about dating i just want friends to do shit with #like how do you interact with no like. baseline you can fall back on like work or a shared hobby??#i'm so scared especially since i see people make fun of dating app interactions all the time and it's like.#WELL HOW DO YOU DO IT THEN IF EVERYTHING'S A BAD THING TO SAY #one person told me that they hate being asked generic questions. WELL HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO ASK YOU SPECIFIC QUESTIONS IF I DON'T KNOW YOU #do i just comment on the weather????#maybe i could ask if they've seen the movie i was at last week. but then again it's like. i need to have watched a movie for that #maybe i need to go to more local stuff for the sole reason #that i can then tell people about said stuff. and invite them to come with me if they're interested #people who just have a local friend group i envy you so much #only time i get to do literally anything is getting a pity invite from a work friend #(i'm being self-depricating i'm pretty sure he actually likes me but it does feel weird bc his friend group all know each other.#and then there's me)#anyway god please help me #whalesong

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