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[your-thorn]

[On Kidapping and it's application]

{My speculation and opinion}

Trigger warning for everything.

More specifically for the yandere community.

Block, don't report. Have a good day.

Prologue

Kidnapping has been used as a form of horrible torture such as slavery, trafficking, marriages, and acts too sinful to list here. These acts are ancient and almost all cultures still participate in these.

Very few encounters with this end with a happily ever after, but it does happen.

Modern application usually involves a person having a deep infatuation with their target, still ancient as time, but now with nylon ropes, spyware, drugs, and more becoming widely available to regular people.

Sometimes a person is suffering and happens to be the object of infatuation, sometimes the suffering is the observer.

I was inspired by a different site I'm a member of that discussed fantasies like discussing politics, which is dry and almost inappropriate. We aren't vanilla. We crave darkness and what comes with it. I do, on the other hand, agree with the mods saying that separating fantasy from reality is a good thing, that's where the darkness comes in, doesn't it?

Let's go on to the application.

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Chapter 1 : The mirror's perception

Kidnapping, if done wrong, can lead to permanent damage and ergo a damaged experience for the people involved. If mutual communication can be had, then this is recommended.

Often the one that performs the duty of stealing the person must prepare more (WAY more if the one stolen has disabilities) while the one who will be stolen remains unaware (or not depending on how you communicated with the your person).

The preparation for an act like this doesn't run on just adrenaline and it isn't like an in and out operation. Many weeks or months can be put into plans like this for just phase 1. Make sure you have a way to transport them. This is rookie stuff.

!->Kidnapping in the Mangas or shows isn't perfect, it has holes and you will pay the consequences for a leaky plan<-!

Even if you're in love with that person, you must be aware that many people's brains aren't prepared for such a thing even if communication is had.

It is best to prepare aftercare before hand so you can let their brains rest and become accustomed to their new environment without major trauma done to their psyche.

Aftercare includes ointments, lotions, reassurance, ice and warm rags for bruises, rest, baths, and for us weird folk this would include additional items like clean clothes, a warm place to rest, entertainment (puzzles, tv, maybe art supplies [no sharp things], and perhaps plushes if desired, and food/water.

!->It takes just as much energy for them as it does for you, don't belittle them for being tired<-!

You must also know the order in which to apply your ointments and lotions. Google is your best friend on this and for knotwork, make sure to use silk rope or make sure a clothe is between their skin and the other kind of rope.

!->A large amount of people are allergic to nylon/rayon/spandex/latex/cotton/etc be mindful of what you use, it could cause a shock. Benadryl can help, but it shouldn't be your get go, it can kill.<-!

Fin of chapter 1

If you want more of this content, please let me know. The positive feedback fuels my creation.

If you want a topic to be expanded for the future, or want to tack on more yourself, please do.

This is by no means a complete compendium and others may have more useful insight than I on this topic.

Author's note: (added colors for my adhd crowd) this feels like one of those posts that people read on Halloween to spook themselves or something from the "DaRk wEb". It was kinda fun writing this. I have no prior experience in kidnapping. Take these words at own risk.

[your-thorn]

[On kidnapping and its application]

{My Speculation and Opinion}

Trigger warning for everything.

For the yandere community. Tread with caution.

Chapter 3

Last chapter we discussed some common sense things when approaching the time of action. Here we'll discuss the mind of both the kidnapper and the victim or just subtle manipulation. This chapter has a coauthor Codename: Crinoline.

This person has studied historical psychology as well as modern applications of these.

To start off, the kidnapper must have a calm and collected mind when performing this task. THERE IS NO ROOM FOR ERROR. If the plan goes awry, run. Live to see another day. Try again next year.

Once you have your victim then training can begin. I don't recommend hypnosis, instead use a reward system. I have many to list here:

-reward/punishment [format]

-tasty food, drink/bland food, drink

-freedom to move, see, hear/being bound

-weed, preferred drugs/none

-tv time/no tv

It is unavoidable. You take the psychological role of caregiver/master no matter how you play it, and you want them to see you like that too because it will make them depend on you, ergo they stay. Some have Stolckholm syndrome and naturally fall into the submissive role over time.

It's important to appear calm and collected so your victim fears you less over time. Show affection (ie head pats) when they do something you like so behavior you enjoy is reinforced. If they act like a brat then punish (ie no art supplies).

If you're into it [THESE CAN BE APPLIED TO PLATONIC RELATIONSHIPS AS WELL] there are communities that [often kinkster] teach clicker training, leashing, age regression, bondage, and other very useful information to use when training your victim.

Remember to be calm with them and use calming words like: "you didn't listen to me. You will now not have tv for 3 days. Please listen to me next time." Your tone of voice will also influence how they react.

The human mind is so dangerously simple, but your victim may have something that you can't train out: depression. This is where you be patient, love them, feed them, and wait. This will the make or break of your plan, you can't force people to just "snap out of it", you're part of this community, you've experienced this before; how did you want to treated through your months of depression? Not like shit, that's for sure.

CBT is the most common form of therapy and it's highly adaptable to you and your... unsavory needs. Use therapy in general to manipulate them, but use care and love.

I gave loads of ideas and examples, but this isn't as long as the chapters, right? That's because all I can give you at this point is resources and advice while you do whatever you choose to.

Fin chapter 3

Author's note: for more chapters, I recommend suggesting topics to cover. I have a few more ideas but I'll surely run out soon. Much love and peace to you all.

Please tell me if I could expand on a topic for you or if I missed anything that could be potentially useful. Thank you.

[your-thorn]

[On Kidnapping and Its Application] {My Speculation and Opinion} Trigger warning for everything. For the yandere community. Block, don't report. Have a good day.

Chapter 2

Last chapter we discussed preparation in a half-hazardous way including aftercare, basic psychology, and some common sense. Here we will highlight one of these topics, and it will be common sense.

Common sense includes the various spectrum of knowledge allowed to everyone or known to a great many people, but can we really call this kind of knowledge common?

Firstly I'll discuss the obvious; employment for us can be spotty or spacey, this is to be expected. To find a job and stick with it can be the most draining thing, but is important to keeping your victim, especially if they are too disabled to keep a job or if you want them to stay at home.

I've heard of some companies using an AI to hire their employees and that there's a way around it (according to reddit, take this with a pinch of salt) by putting that they went to a big university of college (Harvard, Yale, whatever) but then made those words transparent so people can't see it, but the AI can.

Or the old method that companies use as well; lying. (Immediate termination is often the consequence as well as sometimes being blacklisted.)

Or just get a regular job. Your victim will likely not be working (unless you've already had communications with your victim and they have employment, then income won't be too much of an issue.) Even a minimum wage job would be better than nothing.

Make sure they live alone. If they live with their family/significant other then assume people are on alert, even when asleep. Assume every house has a self defense bat, mine does, so I assume every home has one or an equivalent. BE AWARE THAT PEOPLE DO CARRY BLADES/GUNS.

Transportation; a car or motor vehicle is often used. A quiet car would be best, if you don't have one then park your car some distance away before approaching the residence. Make sure you have a plan for getting your victim onto/into your vehicle without too much fussing about.

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How to keep your location a secret? In this day and age your location can be tracked just about anywhere, I have no cure all but I think turning off your phone's location at home is a good bet (because then your last recorded location was at your residence), learning the parts of the phone so you can just pop it out, or just leave it at home. Seriously, just leave it at home or get a burner, I don't know how this works or else I'd give better advise. (Sorry to those who think I'm a guru on this)

If you're stalking then do yourself a favor and look vague; hoodie, sunglasses, a hat, keep your distance. If you must listen in on the target's conversations then get one of those apps for amplifying noise. If you can insert yourself somewhere in your target's life, then do so, it will be easier to gain their trust this way (clubs or online communities are a good way, even if you aren't good at what's being done its better to try than to have never even had the possibility at all)}

[credit to...♡ @lonedarling ♡ for the suggestions]

Check for a security sign in front of the home, the sign will give you the company name, the company has a website, the website will give you information on how they rig the house (or a phone number to call and ask questions as a "potential buyer") granted, some areas (or countries) just don't have these. Use your common sense.

If no security sign is present, then assume these people will sleep lightly, tread with caution and make sure to take your shoes off to avoid excessive noises.

Distribute your weight evenly if they have genuine wood floors as that might create less noise.

!->First time you see the house is time for reconnaissance.<-!

Slip in a few times and get used to their home, walk around and get a feel for the place. Look at the brands they use, their trash, their medication... it is all useful cause then you can look online for the specific stores that carry those products.

!->People will often use a single store for their shopping needs.<-!

If their phone is just lying about... try to unlock it. If you've been paying attention then you have their password.

I purposely left out actually kidnapping them. That should be done in your way, using your mind, but I can add a tip or two if people request it... I won't let you guys flounder if I have a solution...

Now you all have some very useful knowledge... Next I shall discuss the psychology of your typical victim in more detail.

Fin of chapter 2

Author's note: you guys may have more info to add here, please do. I love you guys and I hope you guys have a good day. I'll make the next chapter soon.

[your-thorn]

I've realized for some people (and I'm particularly choosing our little group; the obsessive lovers) that getting into shape can be hard and horrible.

Exercise isn't natural to humans. It IS horrible, but you want to be able to live as long as you can and chase them down, right?

Well, there's a YouTube channel called Body Project and they do amazing low impact cardio videos. I choose low impact because it's better for my blood pooling and other physical issues so I think others can participate as well.

Low impact will still make you sweat and get you lean, not muscled up.

Just make sure to pair this with good food and water too. You can't make bricks without clay.

Tell me if you all would like more tips or tools.

I'd certainly oblige.

[your-thorn]

Since a whopping 4 people liked my last ♠︎Thorn's Resources♠︎ post, here's another. I adore all of you. This post mentions sensitive topics. Viewer discretion advised.

If you wish to do your own research Positive Psychology does a run down on CBT, it's application, and what it can help.

This all a gross oversimplification of CBT.

I offer a very small stepping stone based on psychology (but shouldn't be a replacement for professional help, for all the legals).

->[{If anything sounds like it would bad for you, don't do it. Often you know what is best for you in your circumstance. Play smarter, not harder.}]<-

Being inclined towards our behaviors like we do offers new challenges when we live life, for example we may not like ourselves or think too highly of ourselves, even body dysmorphia, mania, hallucinations, delusions and tons upon tons of others.

This may help you gather yourself and ground yourself, as it did me. I hope I explained it well enough, if not, please let me know and I'll fix it.

"Soft CBT" (cognitive behavioral therapy)

This is easily done by yourself, but you need to |{keep at it}| don't quit. All you need to do is |{look at your thought or emotion from a third party perspective and really examine it.}|

"I'm so sad x, y, and z happened." Why? Could you use some mourning time? Is it an outburst and you need some time to gather yourself? Is it a pervading thought that makes you sad?

Take some time then. It's okay, you probably need it by now. Being gentle to yourself is #1.

([{Look at it like it isn't even yours and it's some other person's emotions and prescribe a logical approach to ALLEVIATING the problem, you don't need to solve it at that moment, most of the time these things pass.}])

After examining and alleviating, make sure to tell yourself the things you wish could be said to you like "wow, I did it :)" "I was good today." "OOF today wasn't my best, but that's okay." "I'm not responsible for other's feelings, even when I'm the direct result of their feeling."

A part of CBT is positivity gaslighting, so you can see a little more... "clearly" than with a negative spiral.

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Example based on my life: an optional read.

"I feel trapped, suicidal, and like I want swallow the whole bottle of benadryl and just croak in my bed."

Why? Well, if I examine it, I just solved my own problem. "I feel trapped" was at the beginning so it might be smart to make myself feel less trapped, ergo I might feel less suicidal and sad all around.

Also while I'm getting my 5 minutes of freedom, I'll also fill my head with happy thoughts and grateful affirmations. ☆It feels like gaslighting ngl☆ and makes my brain feel like it's on fire, but it does work.

I still do feel suicidal but not nearly as much as I used too. I used to feel this way 6 out of 7 days of the week, and now I can gently coast along the days and actually feel happy.

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Make your own affirmations and gratefulness mindset so it's appropriate to your life and circumstance. Add some journaling, maybe some art, do what makes you happy.

One of mine happens to be -> "this is just my brain acting up, I was okay and I will be okay when it calms down" and if I'm hallucinating too hard that day and feeling paranoia I'll opt for going outside to hear the birds (even if they're pigeons) -> "the birds are chirping, if anything dangerous was really happening the birds would've stop singing and fly away"

Speaking of birds... it is proven by science that bird song calms humans. Put some bird song on from youtube and leave it on for a bit. Don't like it? Turn it off. Meditate in silence like a monk, it's all legitimate and good.

♡Bless you all, I pray that all of you remain safe, and may many positive manifestations present themselves unto you.♡

[your-thorn]

I made an addition to chapter 2 via the [very clever] request of @lonedarling to discuss how to keep your location a secret, I also added some other tips.

This addition was made under "common sense" because this should be under everyone's arsenal. If more needs to expanded under this subject, please say so and what needs more explanation and I'll consider the expansion fully.

Love [platonic] all of you, have a good day.

[your-thorn]

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•I'm 24, an eldritch horror (Any pronouns accepted. You literally can't offend me by calling me it, she, he, ancient one, etc)

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•I have mental illness beyond my obsession, but it is too difficult to put a name on for a self diagnosis. [Most likely Psychotic/invisible illness] this effects how I interact.

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I worship certain spirits that I have been obsessed with for over 6 years. I practice shamanism, demonolatry, general esoteric practices, and I DON'T practice witchcraft.

I have a variety of relationships with them, usually communicative.

Spirits I main: Lucifer, Belial, Asmodeus, Stolas, Beleth, my dead pets, occasional horrors, nameless angels

Side spirits: Kali, Ares, Allah (will add more as I remember them)

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!Minors, please be smart, don't flirt or seek relationships with weirdos online. You will be ignored if this is what you seek!

★If you have questions, please ask. I'd never shy away an inquisitive soul. Don't ask for anything romantic. Prepare to be blocked if you ignore.

♠︎Don't like my behavior? Simple. Block me.

♣︎Now... I don't tolerate any form of hate that is overall harmful. Use your common sense, be careful and deliberate with your words and don't hide behind excuses, I know I will.

♥︎The sacrifices are free to use as gifts to others. If you find someone deliberately using my work as their own, tell me.

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A combination of these last three images will give you a good idea of how I look and act in real life.

Do with this as you will.