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𝐊𝐍𝐎𝐖𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐏𝐀𝐑𝐓𝐍𝐄𝐑 𝐖𝐄𝐋𝐋 𝐂𝐀𝐍 𝐏𝐎𝐓𝐄𝐍𝐓𝐈𝐀𝐋𝐋𝐘 𝐌𝐀𝐊𝐄 𝐖𝐑𝐈𝐓𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐓𝐎𝐆𝐄𝐓𝐇𝐄𝐑 𝐀 𝐋𝐎𝐓 𝐄𝐀𝐒𝐈𝐄𝐑. REPOST DO NOT REBLOG !!

NAME : Orion, like the constellation.

PRONOUNS : they / them

PREFERENCE OF COMMUNICATION : No preference between Tumblr and Discord — just be mindful it can take me some time to reply.

NAME OF MUSE(S) : Francis Devereaux, Westley Ransom, Marin Gunderson, Mariano Verratti, Lucienne Agosti.

BEST EXPERIENCE : I've had so many. :) I feel like labeling things 'best' is divisive and takes away joy from other happy things. I am, however, so grateful for the friends I've made here.

RP PET PEEVES / DEALBREAKERS : Entitlement in all of it's forms to be honest. It's okay to have limits and boundaries — but it is very much up to you to curate your own space. That's what boundaries are. They're not 'I don't like this so you can't do it and it's inherently wrong that you do'... it's 'hey, I don't like this for myself and I don't want to see it - I can ask if the person can accommodate or I can curate my space in other ways or choose to walk away'. Boundaries are placed for yourself, not imposed on other people to bully them into changing. You can explain and ask nicely, but the other person is allowed to say 'I get it but I'm not gonna do that'. Calling someone out for what they choose to write consensually in their space is wrong and cruel. Your blog should be your safe space (and you're allowed to have squicks and triggers!) and others' should be theirs. Curate accordingly. When I come back, I plan to reread everyone's rules and make sure they still align with mine! That's why they're there. There are 43296348 callouts over fictional content which super erases the gravity of real harm. Fiction is not real harm, and when you throw big words out and accusations out to something being consensually written by two adults, you severely erase the gravity of irl harm, like the boy who cried wolf. Likewise, re: entitlement... no one owes anyone more than they are happy/willing/able to give, writing or otherwise. If that doesn't meet another person's friendship/partnership requirements, it's up to that person to then choose whether to compromise/realign their expectations or walk away.

MUSE PREFERENCES : It really depends on my muse, they're all different and have different likes/dislikes/hopes/wants/etc.

PLOTS OR MEMES : I enjoy both, but I love when we're both getting excited about our dynamics, so I feel like at some point, if we mesh, vague plotting is good. :)

LONG OR SHORT REPLIES : Both? It's difficult for me to condense to 2 paragraphs or less though. 3-5 is my sweet spot, though it is nice to sometimes have shorter (2 paragraph) responses.

BEST TIME TO WRITE : ...listen. We're running on vibes... and also trying to find time where we can to play catch up.

ARE YOU LIKE YOUR MUSE(S) : I think so, yes. They are their own, but they each carry a part of me.

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