#[nsft] private browsing

[touyatiredforthis]

{ touch } : how sensitive is your muse’s body after sex?

{ praise } : does your muse like being praised after sex? what praises especially help them through aftercare?

Aftercare Questions

{ touch } : how sensitive is your muse’s body after sex?

{ he's incredibly susceptible to neck and body kisses, even after finishing,, you might get a whine out of him here and there as he tries to maintain composure,, }

{ praise } : does your muse like being praised after sex? what praises especially help them through aftercare?

{ oh yes. tell him he's so good, even after the fact, and it'll help him internalize it. he'll be a little defensive at first, but he'll also be glued to his partner's side. }

[toukotiredforthis]

{ just so everyone knows, due to the nature of touko's FC...

she does have a strap. see below :) }

[touyatiredforthis]

His breath catches, stifled only by his move to close the distance to her skin.

He couldn't betray the fact that she was the first to touch him that way, could he...? Yet the contact is enough to send a hot jolt of pleasure up his spine.

Eyes peered down below, her bust in full view, decorated in that tantalizing lace... The bulge grows tighter against the fabric along the touch of her nails

"You... were planning for this? You're... going to drive me crazy..."

A hand traces up her spine, then to her neck, pulling Blue closer. Hungered, ravenous, a lick precedes a breathless press of his lips against her, dangerously close to leaving a mark...

His other hand, though shaking from the nerves, is eager to to savor her before returning the favor of her hand teasing his lust. It slides up her sides up to her breast, tentatively cupping it...

"...Well, now you've got me. What now...?"

His very fibre begged for the answer.

Inch by inch, the skin-tight layers of her top slide off to reveal sheer black lace clinging to her curves. From Touya's gut-punched reaction, it's obvious that he hadn't been expecting it. Her lips part in her signature coquettish smile. Heh.

That's the face of a man who suspects she'd been expecting this outcome all along, though that's not entirely true. It's not unusual for her to don lace, tulle, or even mesh beneath her outfits for a hot night out, and she's also not so presumptuous to assume that she always gets what (or whom) she wants... but maybe, just maybe... the style and choice of color had been deliberate.

He'll never know because she'll never tell.

"Like what you see~?" Her voice is filled with playful delight as she basks in a sight of her own, reveling in the toned physique that Touya has been hiding beneath his ill-fitted clothes. He's lean but strong, his smooth skin marked by an occasional laceration or scar that she's only briefly curious about before he takes her by surprise, turning the tables and pinning her against the wall.

Oh? She'd thought him shy but maybe she'd just read him wrong.

Blue breathes in sharply, this sudden streak of dominance paired with the graze of teeth against her neck sending arousal hot as flames swirling low in her abdomen. Her name spilling from his lips like this? Music to her ears.

"Hmm... yes, Touya?" She croons his name like a siren as her nails skim past the golden chain around his neck and down the quivering muscles of his abdomen until they reach the waistband of his jeans. Feeling his hot breath fanning over her neck, she smirks and ventures lower, ghosting over the very noticeable bulge in his pants before giving it a tentative squeeze.

[mrghostrat]

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[cazort]

So I support people's right to choose who they do and don't want to be with, but if I'm honest with myself, I'm more than a bit uncomfortable with the whole "t4t" thing and especially uncomfortable with how it often plays out in terms of this idea that people with the same identities as you necessarily understand you best.

I've dated cis people and dated one other nonbinary person, and the nonbinary person and I did not necessarily mesh better than I did with the cis people I dated. My partner now is a cis bi woman, and she seems to understand, validate, and support me in my experience of gender more than anyone else has in the past.

More broadly than just dating, among friends, I don't always think that nonbinary people, other transfem people, or anyone who shares any specific identities with me, "gets" me more than people of different identities. It's always an individual thing, there are trans people who get me and trans people who don't, cis people who get me and cis people who don't, and same for nonbinary people.

I also have seen a lot of people online post about how they were lulled into a false sense of security by rhetoric that said that t4t relationships were "safer" and how they ended up really hurt when they were dating another trans person who ended up acting abusive towards them.

There is also a degree to which the t4t thing feels really fetishizing to me, especially the way I often see it on Tumblr these days. Like the last time I went on a dating site, I was inundated with messages from older men whose profiles listed them as "straight" and were writing things to me like: "I want to suck cock" and "I love men who dress like women" and stuff like that. I hated it.

And like when I see some of the things some transfem people here on Tumblr are posting in some of the tags I browse, honestly it's a lot of the same crap. A lot of people are really into degradation/humiliation kinks, and push sexually-explicit fantasies involving these sorts of kinks into broad, general tags that I browse when I am not looking for sexual content, and of course they don't use the community labels, so I'm looking for content related to trans and nonbinary people, and transfem people specifically, and instead of finding supportive content, I find all this content fetishizing us. I hate it. It's disrespectful to put that sort of content in a place where people will see it without us consenting to it. If you have a kink involving being fetishized and/or fetishizing other trans people, great, I will respect that and defend you against anyone who tries to kinkshame you. But I don't want you to put your sexually-explicit, degrading, fetishizing content somewhere where it will be seen out-of-context by people who did not consent to participate in it.

So like if you're posting in tags like #t4t nsft then that's great, that's kinda what that tag is for, especially if you also use the community labels and/or also tag stuff with tags like degradation when your post includes it so people who don't want to see it can use an extension to block or filter the tag. But don't thrust explicit content, like raw sexual fantasies about your degradation kink and fetishization of transfem people into general tags like #transfem without using community labels, especially if you don't tag it in any way that makes it easy to avoid without blocking all transfem content.

So yeah, I think this about sums up my discomfort with the whole t4t trend:

(1) bad behavior depends on the behavior itself, not your identity

(2) t4t relationships are not necessarily "safer" than relationships with cis people, and pushing the idea that they are can leave trans people vulnerable to hurt

(3) if you are a trans person who fetishizes other trans people and/or wants to be fetishized, then great and i support you in your kink and will defend you against kinkshaming. but keep your fantasies and explicit content involving that fetish in relevant places, either in private DM's, or if you post it publicly, use the appropriate tags and do not put it in out of broader, general tags without using community labels, so that we trans people who may have trauma about fetishization aren't forced to wade through tons of it to use a tag that we've been using for years for support and positivity.

[itslilybat]

If you're new to tumblr for whatever reason it may be, here's some advice:

Put an age (pronouns good too but not necessary) in your bio. It helps 18+ blogs like myself filter out minors to keep them and us safe

Set a profile picture, try not to use a selfie just out of general internet safety (but do whatever you want I'm not your mom), bot accounts either have some stolen picture of a random woman from google images or have no pfp, so having something custom even if it's just some anime screenshot or a picture of a worm, it helps

Hide your Likes and Following. It's just best for people to not see your business; if you aren't a 18+ blog but you find yourself following and liking spicy stuff, or if you don't want people to crawl through your likes or following and decide to write you a callout post because they decided something in there was morally wrong, then I'd recommend keeping this stuff private.

Following is for posts in chronological order by the blogs you follow.

For You is an algorithm based on the kinds of posts, blogs, and tags you interact with. For You isn't as bad as Twitter's, but its still a weird algorithm.

If you want people outside of your following to see your posts, tag them accordingly. Instead of tagging NSFW, tag as NSFT as tumblr is still using its horribly inconsistent porn ban and tags like NSFW sometimes won't work.

Download xkit https://addons.mozilla.org/en-US/firefox/addon/xkit-rewritten/ as it gives a lot of features the site should already have (You can also use Xkit to create a blacklist that could potentially allow you to completely omit any posts that are tagged with certain things, such as #spoiler, #nsft, #tw [insert trigger here]. Also, try to be good with tagging things that could be potentially triggering by tagging as #[trigger] or #tw [trigger]. If you aren't sure what to tag, just try your best and if someone replies or DMs you asking you to tw tag it, please try your best to be nice and just tag it accordingly in the future. But again, I'm not your mom, so you can do whatever you want I guess)

And not necessarily exclusively for tumblr but some other good QOL stuff to do while you're doing all that:

https://www.mozilla.org/en-US/firefox/new/

Use FireFox. Please. I care about you. Chrome is a bloated browser that eats your RAM, and soon it seems like they're not going to play nice with adblockers or similar plugins to make your internet browsing as safe as it should be. Do yourself a favor and make the switch, you can import all your tabs and bookmarks and you'll thank me and yourself for it.

https://ublockorigin.com/ Download uBlock Origin for FireFox, it is the best adblocker+ currently available. Look into their website for more information on what it's capable of. none of this is hard required (but please actually for real put an age in your bio i'm not kidding) so don't take this as "we'll kill you if you don't do everything just like we do" but if you feel lost or confused, I hope this can help you just a little bit

[altamont498]

Also the new feature isn't an outright reversal of the ban.

It’s there to protect people, of course, but without all the added nuance and without all the hassle of having to block tags that might be specific to one set of a fandom/clique/whatever.

Like how some people tag their NSFW stuff as NSFW but some use NS//FW, Not Safe For Tumblr (NSFT), Minors DNI, TW thingy, thingy TW, etc.

It also brings Tumblr into being more in line with other websites and services which allow you to specifically flag content and choose what you do or don’t see; like Twitter or Reddit.

Plus it does allow for the warnings to be specific. For example: Instead of “contains something we think you might not like to see”, it can do away with shitty euphemisms and such and instead move towards actual warnings that allow people to make informed decisions about what they do or don’t want to see.

For example: Someone dealing with or recovering from issues with addiction can choose not to view an edit of a character going off with alcohol and cocaine.

Likewise, someone sitting and browsing Tumblr in work can now have less chance of opening Tumblr and overt NSFW art showing up in their face.

It’s a good first step, but the way to improve it is an easy one - make sure that people are using the feature and able to use it as much as humanly possible, and to make sure to remind people that if they see a warning for a thing they don’t like that they need to heed it and act on it.

Plus more specific warnings are often far more helpful than you may think. I’ve even seen some streaming services going beyond the usual required warnings of “Contains upsetting scenes that might make you feel sad 👉👈🥺” and going into “This episode contains references to the aftermath of an attempt at suicide by hanging” or “This episode contains scenes involving blood in the context of medical practices.”

So, conclusion;

Needs to be actually used by people—on either end of The Mutual Onus;

Needs more nuance where possible, and;

At the time of writing:

TUMBLR’S EXPLICIT CONTENT POLICY HASN’T CHANGED!!!

So you should keep your titty pics private or on another platform for now.

[touyatiredforthis]

{ please see below for a yet-incomplete F-list! be warned that the site includes descriptions of different kinks! if you're okay with possibly reading those descriptions, feel free to click! }

[touyatiredforthis]

{ confession time: i was looking for some fun spicy ask memes but like. i keep coming across starters that are definitely in the thick of it. }

{ not to say that i don't LIKE that, but i don't know if touya's got anyone that's THAT forward with him-- }

[touyatiredforthis]

I = Intimacy, K = Kink, V = Volume

Spicy Alphabet Meme || Always Accepting!

{ is that a pun on 'iku' i s2g LOL }

I = Intimacy (how are they during the moment? the romantic aspect)

{ it largely depends on the personality of whom he's with, and how they built up to that moment... but by the time they've worn him down, he craves soft affection. the sweet surrender of holding someone close while you're arguably at your most vulnerable... he'll want to caress his partner's face, whisper words of affection and adoration for all of them... }

K = Kink (one or more of their kinks)

{ body worship and praise is a massive plus. while he would default to taking the reins, femdom is definitely one. }

V = Volume (how loud they are, what sounds they make, etc.)

{ touya himself would be quite embarrassed at the prospect of making noise, but let's face it--he is sensitive. the occasional stifled 'a-ah--' or an exhale through grit teeth as he holds onto whomever it is... he might plead a lot if he's on the 'defensive,' so to speak. }

[touyatiredforthis]

femdom :)

Kink Ratings for Touya || Accepting

{ :) }

Definitely not | No | Not Really | Its Okay | Kinda | Yes | Fuck yes |There goes my pants

{ so... he's very used to taking charge in most things in his life. tiringly so. he'll initiate if the mood is right, of course. but the moment that his partner shows that they're not only receptive, but assertive, he is more than happy to let himself be ordered around... he may be grumpy or somewhat defiant, but... }

{ he will be so weak to it. 💗}

[touyatiredforthis]

{ bath } and { cuddle }! Definitely not because Serena wants both afterwards no man idk what you mean-

Aftercare Questions

{ bath } : does your muse prefer to shower or bathe after sex? do they want their partner in the bathroom with them/ bathing with them? do they use any special or scented soaps as part of their aftercare routine?

{ it largely depends on how much he's been worn out, but on a night where he has more time with his partner, he'll take a shower and then draw a bath. it's how he'd grown up doing it in Kanto. but if he's partnered with someone that he just slept with, he'll invite them to join him in the bath for some relaxation. }

{ cuddle } : does your muse crave physical affection after sex? how long of a cuddle does it take for them to start coming down? do they need gentler cuddles or tight, squishing snuggles?

{ yes, yes, yes. expect him to hold his partner tightly as he catches his breath, or if he's the one being held, he will try to signal his partner to hold him quite tightly before relaxing in their arms... }

[touyatiredforthis]

{ weep } : does your muse tend to get emotional after sex? 

{ smooch } : does your muse like being kissed after sex? Gentle kisses or quick playful pecks? 

Aftercare Questions

{ weep } : does your muse tend to get emotional after sex? 

{ not in a weepy way, but getting him to surrender touch is no small feat--it's incredibly easy for him to catch feelings for his partner if they weren't already there. there's an instinct to protect, monopolize, to take care of them... }

{ smooch } : does your muse like being kissed after sex? Gentle kisses or quick playful pecks? 

{ 100% both, depending on the emotions that came out during~ if they'd had a more more of a playful night of fun, he'd be counterattacking with lots of playful kisses. gentle ones come especially after a particularly... taxing session. 💙 }

[touyatiredforthis]

Bondage

Kink Ratings for Touya || Accepting

Definitely not | No | Not Really | Its Okay | Kinda | Yes | Fuck yes |There goes my pants

Bonus: Giving | Receiving | Both

{ being generally inexperienced, he won't really have a strong hold on how much he enjoys it starting out… ♥️light bondage (i.e. being tied up/pinned down) is a strong yes, though. }

{ bonus points for those who like men who can whimper. }

[touyatiredforthis]

Spicy Specifications

BOLDED is yes.⠀BOLD &&. ITALIC is a favorite.⠀ITALICS is conditional or partner - dependent.⠀STRUCK THROUGH is no.

INCLINATIONS / HABITS .

submissive / dominant / prefers to top / prefers to bottom / likes to switch / heterosexual / gay / lesbian / bisexual / pansexual / asexual / demisexual / enjoys sex with men / enjoys sex with women / enjoys sex with genderfluid , agender , demigender , or nonbinary individuals / enjoys sex with all genders regardless of identity / enjoys sex with multiple people at a time / enjoys intimacy with women / enjoys intimacy with men / enjoys intimacy with genderfluid, agender, demigender, or nonbinary individuals / enjoys intimacy with all genders regardless of identity / initiates / waits for partner to initiate / spits / swallows / morning sex / night sex / sex any time / no sex drive / low sex drive / average sex drive / high sex drive / hypersexual / fluctuating sex drive

BODY &&. APPEARANCE .

slender build / medium build / athletic build / muscular build / curvy build / voluptuous / chubby build / wears boxers / wears boxer briefs / wears lingerie / goes commando / shaves / trims / waxes / does not shave / cup size a-c / cup size d-f / 1-5” in length / 6-9” in length / 10” or over in length

SOUNDS .

silent / quiet / loud / grows in volume over time / bites hand / bites partner / bites pillow to muffle self / calls out partners name / curses / fakes / exaggerates / prefers a quiet partner / prefers a loud partner / prefers a partner who grows in volume over time / turned on by dirty talk / turned off by dirty talk

TURN - ONS / KINKS .

having their hands pinned / pinning partner’s hands / having own hair pulled / pulling partner’s hair / being watched ( by their partner ) / being watched ( by a third party ) / watching their partner / receiving oral / giving oral / giving praise / receiving praise / biting or marking / being bitten or marked / spanking / being spanked / teasing / being teased / having toys used on them / using toys on their partner / giving anal / receiving anal / choking / being choked / dirty talk / being tied up / tying partner up / being worshipped / worshipping partner / humiliating / being humiliated / degrading / being degraded / knife play / blood play / being pegged / pegging partner / partner wearing lingerie / wearing lingerie / whipping / being whipped

PLACES .

bedroom / shower / bath / pool / ocean / kitchen / home bathroom / public restroom / car / tent / alleyway / field / forest / school / empty or abandoned building / library / rooftop / terrace / dressing room / elevator / parking lot / museum / cemetery / beach / closet / hospital

[touyatiredforthis]

Is your muse satisfied with one orgasm, or do they like to go multiple rounds?

When your muse is horny, how do they go about communicating that to their partner(s)?

Spicy Prompts to Improve Your Life || Accepting!

Is your muse satisfied with one orgasm, or do they like to go multiple rounds?

{ even though it's tougher for people with his sex to go again immediately, he will want to take as much time as he can get with his partner. once he finishes once, it's back to pleasuring the partner until he can go again... he can be a little needy like that. ❤️ }

When your muse is horny, how do they go about communicating that to their partner(s)?

{ it depends on their dynamic, but... most of the time, it's by showing other forms of physical affection. lots of hugging, more passionate, repeated kisses, handsiness. by the time they've gone at it for a bit, it's pretty plain to see~ }