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mahgck · 2 months ago

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you have to outlive donald trump

#you have to get ur own cat #you have to see one piece end #you have to laugh with your friends #you have to buy a stand mixer #you have to watch the sonic movie #you have to watch dunmeshi s2 #etc!!!! idc what gets you through it!!!!! fucking live!!!!!!!!

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lrndvs · 4 months ago

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compliments from girls go hard

#comic #the girly girls are girling girling #this one popped off on twitter and there are SOOOO many wonderful positive comments about shared experiences omg #anyway lmao this happened at a friends birthday and we spent so long trying to find out who this was #all i remembered was “petite/shorter than me / nice hair / one could define her style as ”pinterest coquette“ lmao

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1-jar-of-stars · 2 months ago

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On Friendship.

#webweaving #web weaving #on friendship #on love #on platonic relationships #on soulmates #on humanity #words #anyway i love my friends so much

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robyn-i-guess · 4 months ago

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liking someone platonically is so embarrassing like. yeah i admire you. yeah i think about you all the time. yeah i look forward to every time i see you even if it's only for a minute. yeah it's all platonic and yeah i couldn't explain this because it'd sound romantic. fucking hell

#this is secretly a positivity post #aromantic #aromantism #platonic crush #robyn-i-guess #adding onto these tags as i think some people might not understand #this is about platonic crushes #not just loving your friends but genuinely being obsessed with them in a way that's still platonic #i'm finally muting this post #sorry friends i hope you all have good luck with your feelings

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emilnikos · 3 months ago

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love it when my friends say "you would do numbers on Tumblr" buddy I am on Tumblr. and the number is 3

#shout out my mutuals who like my textposts even the bad ones #and shoutout my friends for thinking I'm funny. i think

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sepiamestus · 6 months ago

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You guys should read thepromised neverland

#This post is about them now #Pretending all of these notes are people reblogging because they love my friends ray and don <3 #Hall of fame

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chaotic-neutral-knitter · 7 months ago

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I think one of the kindest things you can do for people with various mental health struggles is just... let people back into your life after they've been absent for a while.

Making friends as an adult is so fucking hard already and isolating yourself from other people is a very common symptom of depression, anxiety, burnout, ocd, trauma, grief, etc. Which means that someone will do the hard work of recovery/healing and resurface back into a world where their previous friends have written them off because they stopped showing up.

So if you know someone where you're like "yeah we could have been better friends but they fell off the map a bit" and that person suddenly reaches out, or starts showing up to events even though you kind of forgot they were still in the group chat... well they may have been Going Through It and you don't actually have to punish them for their absence you can just be glad that they're back.

#forever grateful for friends that let me disappear for a bit because I was too sad for everything and just held space for me to come back #so I'm trying to pay it forward by holding that space for other people #my nonsense

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arcanegifs · 1 month ago

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ARCANE LEAGUE OF LESBIANS: 2x08 - “Killing is a Cycle”

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azvhaalk · 18 days ago

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glorious evolution

#arcane #jayvik #arcane s2 #jayce talis #viktor arcane #fanart #based on the vitruvian man #shout out to my friend for encouraging me to post this #you know who you are. love you #my favorite part in arcane was when viktor said its evolution time and then evolved all over the place #jayce fuck your hammer #not literally #unless #still dont know how to tag properly #hell yeah

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dredsina · 7 months ago

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Ive said this before but swear the biggest skill to learn as an adult is how to resist high-pressure sales tactics. You do NOT have to answer questions with anything other than "Sorry I'm not interested." No matter how nice they are or no matter how many follow up questions they ask or even how agitated they get when you stand your ground. Just keep saying I'm not interested. Don't answer their questions. Don't give them an opening to try to push back on your reasons. Be a fucking brick wall of I'm not interested.

#You're going to feel like you're being rude and that's okay #They're going to act like your best friend at first #And slowly get more agitated #the more you try #To stand your ground #But they're not your friend #They're trying to sell you something you don't want

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great-and-small · 8 months ago

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My grandfather and my godfather (a beloved neighbor and dear family friend) had a long standing bet- for one dollar- about who would die first. Both of them being slightly pessimistic (in the funny way), they both insisted that they themselves would be the first to die. Any time my grandfather had a health scare, he’d gleefully call up my godfather to boast that he’d be passing “any day now” and he was sure to win the bet. It was a big family joke and they were always amiably sparring and comparing notes about who was in worse shape, medically speaking.

When my grandfather was in hospice care dying of liver cancer, my godfather was quite ill also. It took him great effort to make the journey to see his dying friend. As he came into the room, supported by a family member, he shuffled to my grandpa’s bedside and silently handed him a dollar bill. He was ceding his loss of the bet, as they both knew who was going first. My grandpa had been in quite bad shape for a while and was no longer able to speak but let me tell you he snatched that dollar with unexpected strength and literally laughed aloud. He knew exactly what the gesture meant and he couldn’t help but find the humor within the grief. It was the last time any of us heard my grandpa laugh, as he passed shortly after.

When I talk about my appreciation for “dark humor” I’m not so much thinking about edgy jokes, but rather the human instinct to somehow, impossibly, both find and appreciate the absurdity that is so often folded into the profound grief of life and death. When I tell this story I think it kind of perturbs people sometimes, but it’s honestly one of my favorite memories about two men I really deeply admired. I could never hope for anything more than for my loved ones to remember me laughing until the very end, and taking joy in a little joke as one of my final acts.

#I think almost anyone in medicine will understand this #to absent friends!#gallows humor is a very human way to cope #death #grief #dark humor #illness

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paintedcrows · 1 month ago

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