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blujayonthewing · 6 months ago

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it IS nice, as someone who's a lot more used to 'what if I meet my internet friends irl and they don't like me' type anxiety, to have 'what if I meet my friend's internet friend and I don't like him' anxiety once in awhile instead

#aside from the couple of close friends she brought with her initially when she started dating her now husband #every time she's ever been like 'ohh I want to bring [new friend] into this friend group you guys will LOVE them'#they've been AT BEST just such a wildly different flavor of person from the rest of us that the vibes are almost entirely incompatible #and at worst they are that *and also* actually insufferable #'[friend from work] is a weird dork EXACTLY the same as the rest of us and will fit in SO WELL at board game night'#<- my beloved friend being so wildly incorrect it's actually a little astonishing #I have to assume she's falling into a transitive property fallacy #you vibe with work friend and you vibe with us so naturally those vibes must be exactly the same and inherently compatible #oh babe. that is not true :')#ANYWAY she's got a friend staying this weekend who she met through art streaming on twitch #so like-- I do actually know this one already a little bit #but I'd put it at mmm.... 50/50 that I wanna hang out with him in real life lol. which is great odds considering the track record!#but on the other hand more of a bummer if it does end up being '...ah. no thanks.' aaah #I like him fine right now! it would be a shame if he turns out to be insufferable :')#about me #irl frens

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