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bunnyboy-juice · 15 hours ago

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i have had such an urge to pamper a girl for a full day - not just waiting on her hand and foot but like. actually pamper her. plan an entire day just for her with activities i know she'd love. a special breakfast just for her. picking her clothes. stops for treats and drinks and meals she loves. new clothes if she wants, new toys if she wants. going with her to new places she wouldnt wanna go alone, forming new experiences. - whatever she wants! just make her smile and feel like the center of the universe

#bunny rambles #feel mushy #this can extend to sex too but like idk i just love doing this with people #i love planning days around my friends & lovers so much #honestly i actually really love wooing people but i dont usually do it cause this is NOT romantic behavior for me!! i do this for my friends #as well as lovers!!! this is just what love is for me!!! i love making people happy and loved and cherished!!!#but i get really scared about doing these things at the same time cause even when ive talked ab it to ppl ab the fact that this behavior #isnt like. Me Pursuing Them I've had so many ppl feel bad/led on from me doing this so i really only do it if someone Agrees to it (like a #full day scene lol) but like. idk. i crave doing this. so much. i love making people feel special and loved #i wish there was less romantic pressure sometimes bc like. i just love?#(+ its SO hard to do this regularly cause ALL MY FRIENDS LIVE SO FAR AWAY 😭 i miss them all so bad even tho I havent met most of them irl)#anyway idk. this is really vulnerable in the tags. i just really love loving people and i wish i could do it more freely how i want w/o #the expectations of romance or sex (also this complex feeling is why I struggle calling myself aromantic Or polyamorous bc none of these #experiences capture how i engage w/ these things cause when i say aro ppl think “no romance ever” and when i say poly ppl think “wants lots #of partners/relationships“ when it's really just. relationship anarchy in action. and also i dont really care about Identifying with these #words i dont care about the Identity itself at all really - i just wish others didnt put so much weight into them either!!!! 😩)#< also. whining as if he doesn't literally have 4 virtual friend dates next week and one the following already 🤡

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