#//don't get it twisted tho. like? while tanba may personally doubt he can given his history with relationships. he's perf capable of | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

getsuruito · 3 years ago

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not rlly sunday related but unfun fact: being involved with tanba means eventually having to face the fact that he’s never going to marry you, and worse yet, that it will take him an incredibly long time to tell you he loves you, if he ever says it at all.

#//with marriage like fr he's done that shit soooo many times and has had it crash and burn so much that he's just #//sworn off it.#//its sad bc in the ideal circumstances with the right person it honestly could've worked but he's done with that shit now #//don't get it twisted tho. like? while tanba may personally doubt he can given his history with relationships. he's perf capable of #//having a long term or even permanent relationship with a potential partner under the right circumstances.#//and its def possible for him and a potential partner to get to a point where they are practically (but not literally) married.#//it's just the whole 'show' of 'marriage' that tanba's repulsed by now. the vows. the ceremonies. the expectations. tanba vc: gross #//and with him and saying those 3 magic words? theres a whole lot of internal emotional fuckery going on with tanba that #//contributes to his whole screwed up understanding of true love and what it means and if he can rlly feel it an all that #//but if someone is with him long enough they'll be able to tell that he truly cares abt them thru his actions & gifts & mannerisms & all #//like in the event tanba catches feels? even if he doesn't understand them himself. the feels are there. and he can;t help but show it #//and maybe he will eventually say those words to someone. but he's just as likely not to. ever...#//but both of these things? can be real hard for a partner to deal with if they're the true romantic type. or if they place #//any amount of weight on marriage or tanba confessing his love. would be straight up deal breakers for a lot of pple i imagine #// so that def sucks for them 😔#//and for tanba too if he gets attached to some1 but ultimately drives them away bc he wont marry them or say he loves em 😔#//like i said!! unfun fact!!#//unless ofc he ends up with someone who doesnt give a shit abt any of that. then its probably the reverse.#//but then there would be a whole other host of issues for tanba sdfhjgsGHJSDF the man's a fckin mess rlly thats #//thats the tea #//SDFHJKSDFGHJDSFGHJ #//anyway uhhhhhhhhhhhhh hello work has been murder and i am currently ded #//but i do have most of my drafts somewhat done. hoping to get those all kicked out after tuesday when im FREE #//in the meantime ill continue to be a lurking cryptid #//also sorry for this fucking wall of tags. you can send me a bill for your eyesores later #;the marks of a lost war (HEADCANON);

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