#// tl;dr: stop using slurs and stop blindly defending someone just because you're friends with him

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tricotheguardian replied to your post: @tricotheguardian the fact that you feel that "[X]...

As an ADHD person with an AUTISTIC SISTER you can STFU and just keep your hate to yourself. You don’t like something… block the person and move on. Alright kitten? Byeeeeeee

so im going to dismantle this in like, 4 notes

1: As you are not autistic in of yourself, you can not use or reclaim a slur directed at a marginalized group. My sister is dating a black guy. That does not mean I can just go up to him and call him the n-slur. I am gay. This does not mean my sister can go up to my boyfriend and call him the f-slur. 

2: You can not tell me to ‘keep my hate to myself’ when you started using slurs. Also, the post that I made was a basic summary of the entire situation currently going on without my opinion projected onto it. It’s less hate and more ‘hey this is exactly what’s going on right now using common sense and what’s happening on the dash. (Although that being said, yes, based on the evidence presented before me, Iam is a pedo based on an actual US law meant to keep minors safe.) You keep your hate to yourself and stop calling people slurs. 

3: The ‘you don’t like something so you should block’ can not be used against a situation where people are directly at harm. ‘I don’t like the color yellow’, is not a situation that directly harms people, and thus, is something that can easily be blocked away. ‘This person has admitted numerous times that he enjoys fictional pedophilic content and has an overall combative, unpleasant personality where he insists he’s right no matter what’ is something that needs to be brought to people’s attention. Sweeping things under the rug always makes things worse If there’s an issue that needs to be brought to attention, it needs to be brought to attention. You don’t let a gas line leak until it catches fire.

4: You literally didn’t counteract any of my points. Your entire reply comes off as completely patronizing, especially with how you call me ‘kitten’ like I myself am a child, and a case of ‘I’m smarter than you sO SHUT THE FUCK UP.” rather than making any meaningful attempt at countering what I had to say. Deflection in a speech is a sign that you have no counter argument and that your point is flawed, which is also especially evident given that you, for some reason, think that sending people fucked up porn is a good idea rather than trying to come up with an actual defensive argument.