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btw when a person tells you they usually don’t cum or have a hard time with it, pushing them to cum (“come on, baby, cum for me!” “are you close?” “i want to make you cum” etc) makes it less likely for them to cum and will in fact make them feel very pressured and have less fun because they now feel like you’re not going to have fun if they don’t cum.

the goal for sex isn’t to cum. the goal of sex is to enjoy yourselves. you can have fun without orgasms. orgasms are a bonus. stop treating sex like it’s not good enough if your partner doesn’t climax.

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tried to types “bestie”but accidentally typed “beastie”. And i feel like that’s more accurate. reblog if you’re a BEASTIE not a BESTIE

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Reblog if you 100% okay with a transgender person correcting you if you accidentally misgender them or use their dead name.

please do

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Wanting a romantic relationship as a (most likely) aroace not in a "If you want a girlfriend you can't be aroace, it doesn't work like that" kind of way but in a "I want someone to choose me. I want someone to choose me, day after day, for the rest of our lives, because they want to. I want to be someone's partner, I want to be someone's first pick, I want to be their favorite one. I don't want to be shunted aside in favor of husbands, wives, and kids, because our schedule changed, because we've moved on to different things. I want to be a priority. I want them to fight to keep me, I want to fight to keep them. I want to hold someone, I want to be held. I want to exist in their space, I want them in mine. I don't want to find out they mattered so much more to me than I did to them. I dream of a love so heavy it makes my spine throb." kind of way

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love is in the air? WRONG! dragons

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What's with your face? - Nothing

Recently I realised that when I'm more humanlike and have no face it is comfortable to me to wear a scull. Somehow I think that it is less scary than emtiness for others. Is it? xD

The scull of fox - in memory of my soul twin. Or maybe ram one - because of horns

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Reblog if you're not human

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My kinself

I want to try to describe myself despite I don't have enough words even in my native language

Usually I use "monster", "dragon", "shadow". Sometimes I want to use "demon" but absolutely without Christian contex

In a manner I shapeshift - I can change my size or become more humanlike (similar body but with fangs, feather and claws and without face at all). I can be smaller than my human body or bigger than the Earth...

So. I'm absolutely black, maybe with dark blue and dark purple shades. I have wings - with feather or leather one, it depends. I have no genitalia, sex or gender in my true form. Horns, claws, fangs. Different kind of moves definitely strange for humans.

Sometimes I see myself flying among the stars. Sometimes I see myself killing someone with calm. I feel strength and dark but I'm not evil I'm almost neutral. And I have some connection with Death, it's hard to explane

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Cupioromantic Hearts

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bring back tumblr ask culture let me. bother you with questions and statements

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I want to be visible to other trans and nonbinary folks in my town. But safely. Just to say: You are not alone. We'll be ok

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No dating for queers

My country sucks a lot

Today I discovered that almost all dating apps excluded options for same sex search. You can be only a man who seeks for women or a woman who wants to find men. No other options. Even friendship ones.

And I feel very bad about it because I'm bi nonbinary and want to find other queers. I feel hopeless

I wish to live in different place

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rb to make tea for the person u reblogged this from

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fellow cryptid/monster/etc kin along with like “creatures of the night” kin please reblog (/nf, you dont have to if you dont want to) i would like to find more of us .

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Quick reminder that you don't need a solid sexuality! You can just be in love! Or not be in love! Or have a gender! Labels are a choice, not a requirement. All you need to do is be someone you like being! If labels help with that, great! But they are not required. You don't owe it to anyone, so don't feel pressured to choose labels if they aren't your thing!

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