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hiii i just wanted to let u know that some of your flags and terms have been posted/archived on the Miraheze LGBTA wiki (I found out thru looking for the Mono-spec page), i think they will take down the links to you/your info if you personally ask them too in the wiki Discord (ik they have a blacklist) but I just wanted to let you know. i'm not sure if they were all put up on wayback machine but i do know wayback will remove ur stuff if you email them abt it. sorry 4 bothering you!

Hi, thank you so much for letting me know! I genuinely really appreciate when others understand and respect my boundaries. If you found my terms on the LGBTQIA+ Wiki, it's okay. This is the only wiki that was given permission to host my terms. It was originally on Fandom but was transferred to Miraheze. Most pages should not use archives of my blog though. The few that can will say "Added archive with permission" in the history. If my terms were on a different wiki and you happen to see this post, please let me know! And thanks again!

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hi! ik the term for a spintellic crush is spinsh/spinch but what do u call someone who ur in a spintellic relationship with?

for context, im aplatonic. so i cant call someone a friend, pal, buddy, etcetc cos it makes me rlly uncomfortable.

I hadn’t really thought of a term for that. I think “tell-all” could work since it’s short and goes along the theme of them being a person you want to tell all about your special interest/hyperfixation; however, it’s an existing term meaning something else. Something like “spintellic partner” could be used in the same way that people say romantic/platonic partner, but of course, not everyone wants to use the word “partner.” Some other ideas I can think of are “spell” (takes SP from spin and ELL from tell), “spill” (uses letters from spintellic but also references ‘spilling’ information), and telspin (again uses letters but also sounds like tailspin which can reference chaos). Then there are also preexisting words like beholder, attender, and perceiver/percipient to say that it is an individual who is listening to what you have to share.

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hi! i'm creating a new xenogender archival wiki. can i put your terms on it if i don't link it back to you or mention you by name, just say it was coined by a user who wishes to remain anonymous? if not i completely understand, just wanted to ask!

Yes, I'm fine with that as long as my posts aren’t archived. Thanks so much for asking!

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uhm.. hey! we're making a carrd on the Phobia Gender System (including all the -phobian genders), so we need to ask...are you alright with us putting Entomophobian on it? (without linking it back to you, of course!! and saying that we didn't coin it ourselves! just including the term) but we understand if you don't want us to! /nf /g

I’m fine with that! /g

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Hi! I saw your pinned post and I would like to ask if it's possible to put your terms on Pinterest if I don't link to your account and I don't say who coined them? Context: I use Pinterest as a place to hold my hoard.

What I mean by this is I will say in the description that it wasn't coined by me and I won't link anything to here. I'll also say that the coiner requested to be anonymous.

Is that allowed? It's okay if its not tho/gen

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Hello, you can put them on Pinterest for the purpose of having all of your terms in one place. Just say they were coined by Tee (and without a link, as you mentioned).

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hello! i want to create gender terms that deal with different forms of the lydian scale (degrees of super lydian). would you prefer i make sublabels of lydiagender, or new separate gender terms? if a sublabel is best, would it be ok to make a flag for that? thank you!

I would prefer if it’s a sublabel, just because I think it could fall under the modegender umbrella. But of course, since you’re the coiner, the name and flag of your term are entirely up to you! Thank you for asking me!

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Gendercanon

when one allows others to “headcanon” oneself in terms of gender

Gendercanon flag:

Gendercanon (also called canongender, headcanongender, or HCgender) is a term for those who don’t subscribe to the concept of gender or otherwise feel a lack of gender and allow others to decide what gender to view them as. The term is not specific to any gender modality and can either be used on its own or alongside other labels.

Essentially, if a gendercanon individual is seen as a girl, they are a girl. If they are seen as non-binary, they are non-binary. If they are asked what their gender is, they might say they don’t know, use their AGAB, or say something along the lines of “whatever you see me as.”

Pronouncanon or canonpronominal can be used to describe those who allow others to "headcanon” them in terms of pronouns. In other words, they allow others to decide which pronouns to use for them and hold little to no preference.

This was a request.

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🌻mogai promo post!🌻

this post is a promo for smaller mogai blogs who are looking to gain a larger following! you can find this post linked in my pinned and will be routinely updated whenever i come across new smaller mogai blogs! it will be reblogged everytime i add new blogs so you can see the new blogs i’ve added! follow and support all these amazing mogai peeps! if you are inclus, against proshippers, and pro-endo and would like to be added, pls lmk!

@vulpinetradesman @bees–on–toast @magitoki @sloth-gender @mogai-place @plush-mogai @xenicterezi @lolliepeach-mogai @bunnybot-mogai @gender-fella @gender-funky @endermogai @gendercunt @cat-genders @bun-gender @noxwithoutstars @interstellarr-void @intergalactic-mogai @caninophobia @sweet-toothy-love @sweet-gendies @astrophellian @deer-antler-velvet @tobastreasury @mogai-germ @neopronoun-flags @the-cookie-jar-system @cryptic-mogai @the-gendermarket @candyshopcoining @gender-candy-bowl @blurgender @sleepypapillon @iceys-genders @flagmeanew @chxrrys-gxnder-kingdom @genders-and-dinos @a-funky-lizard @biperfixationaesthetic  @sydthegendervast @treading-through-tombstones @little-gender-trinkets @pink-x-scruff @chericolamogai @cha0s-c0ining @lovely-lucielle @ch3rryb10ss0ms @lilylesboy @diary-of-apathy @habitcoinsthings @gendermaking @elliott-mogai @synpa-tee @mogai-cavern @chewiesgenderblog @xenozandshite @xenogending @xenogenderbunnykid @obsceraspinnic @mxcinnamelo @hauntedhousesys @salgender @tangymogais @thatgenderinventor @charlieisdumby @moss-mogai-hell @meatcoiner @radiomogai @mogai-bows @just-another-mogai @dragon-mogai @mousesquared @squidthing @bombic-mogai @withers-coining @arcadequeerz @mogaicemetery @cottonflame @fazbears-horror-attraction @sporksxenos @notro-mogai @dreamin-xenos @mogaihospital @kingskubb @oxivine @live-laugh-lemon-demon @the-gendermarket @clovers-field @seamss-seap @death-mogai @soapgender @jupiters-mogai-stuff @foxye-the-gendergivers @spiral-gender @mogairoses @genderkennel @mewmewmogai @mogai-meow @cinnnamons-gender-cafe @beehive-mogai @cupids-genders @justanotherxenogenderblog @squirmgender @genderstitch @arfgender @genderfunnyguy @bored-coiner @gender-mailman @mogai-clouds @autumnal-space-cherry @sinewslumber @genderthaumiel @apocalypsegender @acoric @alcremie-mogai-n-kin @othergenic @m-grouped @dylan-the-gay @glorifiedrobot @xenogender-flags @mrpgender @mogai-lab 

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Here are some possible pefivegender/P5gender flags! There’s also a P5Rgender flag and two P5Sgender flags. The colours all come directly from official art.

To the anonymous user who asked about making a P5gender flag: feel free to make your own as well!

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hi!!! megamigender and a few of those terms rlly clicked w me, but I noticed you don’t have a p5gender flag and that it isn’t among the list of genders you’re allowing people to make flags for. i was wondering if I could either request you make a flag for it or if I could have permission to make my own (apologies for being anonymous on this part)?? flag would be up to your discretion if u were willing to make one…! thank you for coining these genders + have a nice day…!!

I'm happy you could relate to some of the terms! I either forgot to include P5gender on the list or I wasn't sure how I felt about it yet. I'm okay with you making one. Thank you so much for asking! I can make one as well if you'd like. I haven't gotten around to it yet since it's not one of my genders. I would probably just use the colour scheme from P5 (reds, black, and white) with the game logo or Phantom Thief symbol.

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All LGBTQI+ Wikis are being merged, without their consent. Except for the Ezgender Wiki.

I wish what I just said was an exaggeration. The LGBTA Wiki Staff wasn’t consulted at all about this, but was abruptly told today the following:

We are excited to introduce LGBTQIA+, a new wiki community that will serve as the home for all information about sexuality and gender identity. This will be a consolidated version of the former wiki pages and at launch will include just the main articles needed to help people who are searching for information. We worked closely with a number of LGBTQIA+ individuals and allies as we developed this wiki and to ensure the most accurate information continues to live on this wiki, there will be an emphasis on sourcing articles. For example: as content is added to this wiki, only official terms that are recognized by people working on LGBTQIA+ issues will be approved.

As we begin to consolidate our LGBTQIA-related wikis, we will redirect all users to our LGBTQIA+ wiki. To ensure our content is inclusive and provides a wide range of information, our admins (who are LGBTQIA+ community members) have thoughtfully been building out wiki pages that represent a wide range of topics covering all identities, sexualities, historic LGBTQIA+ events, activism and more.

One exception to the merge is the Ezgender wiki, which will host articles outlining specific genders, orientations and pronouns, including pages of xenogenders from other wikis. The main LGBTQIA+ Wiki will have a page on xenogenders (with examples), but not the thousands of pages as on other wikis.

We are giving you the upcoming few weeks to make sure that your content is migrated to EZGender as necessary or, if you so choose, exported to another host.

[Please click here to read the full announcement from Fandom Wiki Staff]

No one on Ezgender Wiki Staff was consulted about this at all, and now  from my understanding, we quite literally will become the ONLY Wiki able to host specific xenogender terms. Essentially fandom has made the decision our wiki will be the literal only place that continues to list xenogenders and microlabels, and the combined wiki they’re creating will only feature terms “official terms” “recognized by people working on LGBTQIA+ issues”. So, site wide transphobia and an encouragement to gatekeep xenogenders. This is a recipe for disaster in general - For example, there are plenty of prominent activists who claim pansexual, nonbinary, or bigender aren’t “officially recognized.” 

Everyone at Ezg feels this is a ridiculous decision that undermines the spirit of LGBTQI+ education and opens room to gatekeep “un-recognized” identities. I’ve been talking to Staff from LGBTA Wiki, and they feel the same way.

Here’s what you can do to help:

Please sign this petition letting Fandom know you disprove of this decision.

Comment on the announcement post linked above and let them know you don’t think this decision was fair and something else should be done. Don’t be insulting, but tell them this is a bad decision.

Signal boost this post. This decision was made weeks before it was to happen, and again without even letting any of the Staff of these Wikis know this was a possibility. People need to know about this. 

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It’s been a while since I’ve posted! Here are some alternate labelhoarder flags! They were specifically created with sensory issues in mind. The top two only use light values and colours with low saturation. The bottom two include a dark value (dark grey #292929).

Also, these flags might not help everyone with sensory issues. Personally, high saturation hurts my eyes, so I avoided that in the original flags. But others are bothered by high contrast, and since the original flags are dark values next to light values, I worried they might not be accessible to everyone. That’s why I made the top two, which don’t use dark values and have low contrast. The bottom two are meant to be easier on the eyes design-wise.

(Reminder that this term is exclusive to those with hoarding disorder/compulsive hoarding.)

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Of course! You can use as many labels alongside alexmosexual as you’d like! I’m demibiromantic and alexmoromantic. Honestly, I’m probably alexmoplatonic as well.

Alexmogender

when one’s gender is difficult to understand or describe due to alexithymic traits associated with neurodivergence

Alexmogender flag:

Alexmosexual

when one’s sexuality is difficult to understand or describe due to alexithymic traits associated with neurodivergence

Alexmosexual flag:

Alexmoromantic

when one’s romantic orientation is difficult to understand or describe due to alexithymic traits associated with neurodivergence

Alexmoromantic flag:

Alexithymia is the inability to identify, distinguish, interpret, or describe one’s emotions. It is often associated with neurodivergence, as a co-occurring condition. For example, a study in 2012 found that 70% of autistic participants showed borderline or high levels of alexithymia.

An alexmogender, alexmosexual, or alexmoromantic person may struggle to identify and express their gender/orientation because of this. Alternatively, they may struggle to feel their gender/orientation at all; however, this doesn’t mean that it isn’t there.

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I saw your regressfluid post and was like "that's it! That's me!" I'm like, super female, or at least paragirl when big, but as soon as I go little my gender goes all "Dinocoric! Demiboy! MASCULINE!" I thought I was just weird.

Wow, that's cool! I become girlflux when I'm regressed. I'm happy you were able to relate to the term! /pos

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Alternate insomniagender flag!

I decided to make a new flag, because even though I made the original one, I didn’t really like it. Sometimes I hyperfocus on symbolism and meaning, so my flags don’t look as aesthetically pleasing as I’d like them to be.

The blue stripes represent periods of tiredness, exhaustion, depression, etc. The yellow stripe represents periods of wakefulness, happiness, and being highly energised. The fact that there are fewer yellow stripes also represents that with insomnia, one typically experiences these periods less often. The green stripes represent the inbetween, with the darker green leaning more towards tiredness and the lighter green leaning more towards wakefulness. They represent contentedness, mild fatigue, lack of energy, etc. Just like in the original flag, the use of both yellow and blue represent changes in mood and/or mood swings.

The symbol in the centre represents nighttime, and the colour black represents a lack of gender.

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Exopowers

a term for powers belonging to a headmate and/or alterhuman that can be felt but aren’t really there, powers that came from another universe/life

Similar to the terms exomemories, exopain, exolimbs, etc, I thought there should be a term for one’s powers. It’s totally fine if this doesn’t “catch on.” I just needed a quick way to refer to my would-be powers without having to explain my whole “wrong reality” situation. Plus, this came up in a conversation the other day, and I thought it would be cool. 

Please let me know if there’s an existing term for this! I don’t want to overstep. I just haven’t been able to find anything. /gen

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Peforgender/P4gender

when one’s gender is connected to Persona 4/Persona 4 Golden

This was coined back in June, but I only made flags for megamigender and portgender at the time. Since I’ve been playing P4G, I thought I’d make a peforgender flag. Personally, playing P4/P4G doesn’t affect my gender though. Only P3P does.

The two yellow stripes represent the MC, Kanji, Rise, and Persona 4 in general. The two blue stripes represent Teddie, Naoto, the Velvet Room, and its residents. The orange stripe represents Yosuke. The red stripe represents Yukiko. And the green stripe represents Chie.

On another note, I named the MC Akihiko Matsuoka. I name all of my Persona MCs Matsuoka, and for their given name, I use the name of my favourite character from the previous game I played. I think the name suits him, but a character’s pet fish happened to have the same name and it confused me, haha.