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Men kissing under tree, 1977-78, by  Kay Tobin Lahusen

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Douces fleurs | nadiamanzato

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Women Who Dare: St. Vincent

Photo credit: Ben Hassett

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The urge to self harm hasn’t been this strong in a looong time. lol college sucks and I’m going downhill, and addiction is a concept that’s fucked up. I can’t imagine a life where I’m gonna live without this need, even thought I’ve been clean for a year, it’s still as present as ever and it’s like what’s the point of fighting it may as well do it it’s easier

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Ahaha I was gonna do that whole thing that ppl do for New Years and ch age their outlooks or smth and I was gonna have a wholesome 2018 but truth be fucking told it’s a couple days in and I haven’t felt this depressed and stressed since years ago. I’ve spent most of the holiday ignoring every piece of responsibility I have to the point where I literally just don’t do things I say I’ll do immeditelly ‘have you called this person?’’no I’ll do it now’ and I just...don’t. Ever. The harsh realisation that I’m wasting my time and that life is full of struggle I don’t want to deal with hit me tonight and it makes me want to die. And the things is I can’t acc complain about this because I know it’s not that I’m not able to deal with things like some ppl who are really struggling physically or mentally, I’m just not willing to. I’m selfish and lazy and yet here I am still whining. Even though I fully recognise my privilege. Fuck someone take me out already so I can stop poisoning this Earth?

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Have any tips on how to keep a healthy romantic relationship when asexual potentially aromantic and handling a genuine fear of commitment / individuals getting too close ? Meh, Sending this to as many queer+ identifying people as possible, someone must know or have some experience.

as an asexual person with fear of commitment, id say give up the idea of a ‘normal’ relationship first. you don’t have to kiss hold hands have sex or be intimate to have a trusting loving relationship. but i think more importantly approach each person with absolute honesty. if you can see something romantic panning out, be upfront and say what you’re comfortable with how you’re able to compromise( able=/= willing. just coz you’re willing to be intimate in order to save a relationship doesn’t mean you should. you’re equally deserving to be respected) give the other person(s) time to figure out how well the understand what you mean and how well they can adapt. you will eventually find someone who has needs that compliment yours and don’t press too hard if you’re not opening up. most importantly take your time. take as much time as you need to figure out if you could eventually trust someone. ( also staying single is a completely viable option. sometimes the best one. if you like being alone then go for it!!)

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Be there. (my) Intuition is killing me.

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There’s a hole in my chest, again.

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okay i know im late but oh well its here 

day 2 inktober

prompt- pumpkin/hurt (by @cryptidsp00n and @mehringguie)((sorry to keep tagging yall ill stop))

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sure ill pretend i can stick with anything and try to do inktober once again,,

day 1 inktober 

prompt- autumn/plants (by @cryptidsp00n and @mehringguie)

this was inspired so much LanaJayArt it looks exactly like one of her prints whoops sorry 

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made w @cryptidsp00n !! 

since inktober is coming around, me and scribs tried to make a prompt list for it! be as creative and free as you want with it, choose from the 2 prompts or even combine them if you want !!! have fun this inktober my dudes!!

transcript under the cut!

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 the process! (song)

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→ Sergey Anuchin

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My friend Connor has spastic cerebral palsy and is trying to raise money for a new wheelchair. One which will allow him to live more independently, which is more than important as he’s getting ready to go to university. In this page, he details exactly how much this means and how much a new wheelchair would increase his freedom.

‘It’s difficult to convey the struggles of life with a disability, and whilst my story isn’t unique or deserving of pity, I simply can’t raise the funds on my own to buy one of these, and all government run services have simply turned me away.’

Please consider taking some time and reading his page, share or even donate! if you’re unable to donate, please do reblog this post! It would mean a lot to Connor if this could help him achieve the goal for the new wheelchair!

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My friend Connor has spastic cerebral palsy and is trying to raise money for a new wheelchair. One which will allow him to live more independently, which is more than important as he’s getting ready to go to university. In this page, he details exactly how much this means and how much a new wheelchair would increase his freedom.

‘It’s difficult to convey the struggles of life with a disability, and whilst my story isn’t unique or deserving of pity, I simply can’t raise the funds on my own to buy one of these, and all government run services have simply turned me away.’

Please consider taking some time and reading his page, share or even donate! if you’re unable to donate, please do reblog this post! It would mean a lot to Connor if this could help him achieve the goal for the new wheelchair!