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you make me feel really stupid sometimes.

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When your dad tries to guilt trip you into visiting him: “well I guess I’ll just spend the weekend all by myself...”

You say “glad to know we’re on the same page.” Slowly, he will have to adapt to just outright telling you what he thinks instead of playing mind games.

When your friend tries to hint that they’re mad at you without saying anything: “Oh, I’m fine, clearly you don’t need to worry about me,”

You say: “I’m glad you’re doing well. Call me if you want to talk, though!” Soon enough, they will accept that they can’t be passive aggressive with you.

When your boyfriend says: “All your friends are great, I really love *insert male friend* especially.”

You say: “I’m so glad you like my friends! I should invite them back soon.” He needs to understand that if he has a problem with your friends, he needs to just voice his concerns instead of being sarcastic and accusatory.

As someone who has lived through several toxic relationships and has an abusive father, I think one of the most important manipulation tools a toxic person has is excessive subtext and hidden meanings in their conversation. It hides all of the actual fighting from the eyes of onlookers while still hurting you, which is scary and makes you feel like you’re making it all up. Don’t put up with this bs. Make them stop hiding.

Make. Them. Say. What. They. Mean.

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tearing bread apart and handing it to someone else is so… spiritual and intimate

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what do u look for in a boy

i look away

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“young adult dystopian novels are so unrealistic lmao like they always have some random teenage girl rising up to inspire the world to make change.”

a hero emerges 

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I’ve really been missing you so much more lately and I can’t even begins to describe how much it hurts.

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via weheartit

https://blue—rain.tumblr.com/

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AAAAAAAA PLAY WITH SOUND AGAIN OMG MY HEART

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“You’re not my Dad!”

Hahahahaha

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Being called baby or babe by the right person is like heaven tbh

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butches don’t dress like men. men dress like butches and they do it wrong. signed god herself

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job applications are like

Would you be willing to come in on weekends? Would you be willing to come in on holidays? Would you be willing to come in on the day of your mother’s death? How about your grandmother’s? and then on one of your days off, if we were to call you then, would you be willing to come in also on those days?

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It is so fucking exhausting fighting your brain every day dude

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I don’t want to love, and I don’t want to be loved. Never again.