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Your F/O cradling you on their lap when you feel a little too out of it. They run their hands through your hair and up and down your back. When your frown gets a little too deep and sad, they’ll whisper “You’re okay.” until you’re smiling again

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Imagine resting your head across your F/O's thighs, curled up next to them as they sit beside you half occupied as they pet your hair.

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If your F/O has significant body hair-- imagine playing with it, gently or teasingly. Running your fingers over the hair on their arms, chest, stomach etc. Feeling the texture of it, whether thick or fine, under your fingers. Maybe even pinching or tugging at it, and making them blush.

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Don’t let anti’s tell you your f/o wouldn’t love you because you’re a proshipper

Your f/o does love you, they’re madly in love and obsessed with you, you’re the light of their life

I know cause they told me, they would not shut up about you, you’re their everything

Don’t let some miserable person on the internet speak for them

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well, the darkness came to take my faith it tried to steal my words to pray my love came down like holy rain and she became my god that day. ♪ ー 🌸🔭

Spring is here and I'm thinking of her.

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imagine your f/os being there for you when u can't talk well (or at all). theyre patient with u and dont rush it.

can't talk but can type? they text u. can't even type? they get other communication methods. or give u all the time u need.

if u can't string words together, they dont mind the noises u make either.

they don't need words to know u love them

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Your f/o wouldn't be scared off by your meltdowns or your bad mental health episodes or anything else of that nature. I promise. None of that could ever make them love you any less. No matter how "ugly" or "messy" or "childish" or "irrational", no matter if it's their first time seeing you go through it or the hundredth. Even if they don't always know exactly how to help you, they always try because they love you more than anything and they just want you to be okay. They'd never give up on you. They wouldn't see you any differently or think less of you. They love you, and you'll get through everything together. Always.

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> antis please dni <

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Well, alright...just one.

NVM EVERBODY LOOK AT MY WIFE!!!

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For my autistic self shippers: your f/o feels so special when you stim around them or involve them.

Maybe you repeat random words they say, or you like to play with their hands, anything really! And they’re thinking “omg i’m part of something that makes you happy/comfortable”

After the way the world has treated you for being different, they know how much trust it takes for you to unmask and be yourself around someone. They’re honored that they’re one of those trusted people, and your F/O being around you while you’re just being yourself makes both of you so happy and at peace.

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imagine your f/o helping take care of you when you need it. maybe you need them to brush your hair, or help you shower, or cook for you or clean for you. maybe you need them to help dress you, or assist with getting you your meds everyday, or help you brush your teeth. maybe your f/o is helping you understand a text you're reading, or is helping you with adult things™ like managing your money or paying bills.

and you know what? they love helping you. they know you need it, and it is in NO way a hindrance to them. they care about you, and they love you, and they will never see you differently for needing assistance.

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therians and/or otherkins with f/os! your partner loves you very very much and is supportive of your identity and hobbies.

they love to watch you at your happiest, and whether or not you decide to outwardly identify as your kin, you’re valid and they believe that as well. <3

and if they don’t know what therians are, they will show immense interest in learning, because they want to know everything about you! ( ๑ ˃̵ᴗ˂̵)و ♡

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Imagine your f/o comforting you after you had a nightmare about losing them in some way or another. They hold you tightly, reassuring you that they're still here, that it was all just a bad dream. They kiss your forehead and rub your back soothingly as they promise you that there's nothing that could ever take them from you. And that even if there were, they would always find a way to come back home to you. No matter the circumstances. They'd never leave the beautiful life you share together for anything - not even death could part the two of you. Once you're calm enough, they lay down again and snuggle you against their chest, so you can hear their heartbeat, and they hold you as you drift back to sleep together.

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> antis please dni <

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Whatever you do, do NOT imagine getting married to your f/o. DON'T imagine the stunning suit/pretty dress they'd wear. DO NOT DARE imagine watching them walk down the aisle or see them standing in awe as you walk down the aisle. DON'T whatsoever imagine reading your vows and placing the rings on each other's fingers. DO NOT imagine saying 'I do' and sealing your marriage in a kiss. Don't AT ALL imagine everyone invited celebrating and enjoying the party afterwards. If you have a f/o from a culture that does marriage differently, WHATEVER YOU DO don't imagine them offering to do a wedding in the style of their own culture. Or else you'll be a mess and even more in love with them.

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How could I not do this with her?

I found this picrew, it is adorable, so have some picrews of me (self inserts (and I guess short haired ic‍hika with glasses)) and gany‍u, kaed‍e and honam‍i

link to picrew

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Doing this made me absurdly happy.

found the cutest picrew ever

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disabled selfshippers who struggle with showering like me:

your f/o showers with you and helps you. they assist you in standing up and washing you off, letting you rest against them when you become too fatigued. they allow you to set the temperature to whatever you need and give you plenty of time to rest and recharge afterwards.