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not a lot, just forever

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@lovesdaya

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one thing i need to start living by is “become the thing that you want” if i want friends who throw themed parties maybe i should start throwing those parties. if i want someone who writes me love letters maybe i should start writing letters for the people i love. if i want to hang out at museums and pretty cafes maybe i should invite my friends to these places. and maybe even then i won’t find the kind of people i want to be around. but then i would have become the exact person i want to be around. and maybe that’s good enough.

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necklaces/chokers + art

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Dark academia aesthetic inspo (x)

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Soft and easy September days had arrived. Evening came early, but the air remained warm and calm.

- Arthur Schnitzler

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I wouldn’t marry me either

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LOVE AS VIOLENCE VS LOVE AS SOFTNESS

Ada Limon, The Good Fight // Mary Oliver, West Wind // Danez Smith, Bare // Sappho, Fragment 58.25-26 // Mitski, I Don’t Smoke // Ashe Vernon // Hozier, Cherry Wine // Shauna Barbosa, GPS // Richard Siken, Little Beast // Chen Chen, Summer [The sunflowers fall…] // Warsan Shire // Ocean Vuong, On Earth We’re Briefly Gorgeous

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why does what happens in a moment take years to forget?

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“The gods envy us. They envy us because we are mortal, because any moment may be our last. Everything is more beautiful because we are doomed.”

- Homer, The Iliad

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Let’s hope she walks away uninjured and unchanged.

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My mother’s love, the absence of my mother’s love, meant the world to me—this world, in which I wasted my life on the ecstasy of craving.

— Sharon Olds, from "That Goddess," Balladz

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