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I'm strict about my boundaries, because every time I wasn't, i paid the price. That's a lesson i'm not willing to take twice,....

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Allah's mercy is boundless, but His justice demands accountability. Let's strive to treat others with fairness and respect. If we've wronged someone, regardless of their age or gender, let's take the initiative to make amends and seek forgiveness. Humility and accountability are essential on our journey to righteousness.

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If you want to be rich, get a job, work very hard, get married and have children. You will be like 95% of people.

But if you want to be wealthy, successful and have purpose in life. Then study wealth, study success, study greatness, study religion, study everything that they will never teach you in university.

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Gossip, rumours, ill speech, you think you won't be accountable? Imma come and take your good deeds and give you my sins if don't behave yourself. 🥱

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Criticism works very well on women because they don't ever want to feel that feeling again. appreciation and praise works very well on men because men aren't emotional. They are logical.

If you genuine care, criticise women even if they say you're mean or rude. There is reason why they are like a rib bone. If you genuine care, praise men and appreciate.

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The role model for men is the prophet of Allah. Yes, he is the example that was sent to the entire mankind. Yes, you can follow his way. Yes, he is human just like you.

Half the skill of being a man, is how do you handle women and children. How do you love them, how do you teach them, how do provide for them financially, emotionally and physically. How do you listen? How do you address their problems? How do you communicate? How do you explain things? How do you lower your gaze?

This is your character as man and most men have terrible character. Even animals have better character than some of the men ive met. How can you expect women to respect you, when you don't respect the responsibility given to you by Allah?

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The wives of the prophet are the examples that women need to follow. Khatijah r.a would donate her wealth to the prophet. She would go out of her way to comfort Him. She didn't marry him for protection or for wealth or for status or luxury, she married him because of His outstanding character.

She was the first to believe in Him. She didn't leave Him when people mocked Him or when he would go there tough situations.

She remained loyal until the end. She ignored the dunya in order to serve a man who was committed to Allah. How many of us would approach a man and marry him because of his Deen and character?

I think many of us are lying to ourselves.

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A narration has been attributed to At-Tirmidhi in his collection stating that the Prophet said:

“Indeed, Allah affords the worldly life to those whom He loves and those whom He does not love. But He only bestows faith to the one He loves.”

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Fatimah (رضى الله عنه), daughter of RasoolAllah (صَلَّى اللّٰهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ) said;

"The best women are those who do not see the men and who are not seen by the men."

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Make your character so beautiful that it makes tears flow uncontrollably. Make your character feel like a light of happiness for others. Serve your family, serve people, don't be so selfish. Smile and earn charity. Have mercy on children. Love your women with kindness. Be firm and angry when you need to be. Live like a slave of Allah but die as a king of hearts.

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Do not try to show others your sincerity, purity, and the good deeds you do. Strive with sincerity, and Allah will take care of everything. What harm is there if all the people on earth are unaware of you while you are known in heavens?

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وكُلَّما كَبُرَ همُّ الحياة في قلوبنا هَوَّنهُ القُرآن.

And whenever the burdens of life grow heavier in our hearts, the Quran eases them.

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"When Allah's help and victory have arrived and you have seen the people entering Allah's religion in droves, then glorify your Lord's praises and ask His forgiveness, He is the Ever-Returning."

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Someone once said:

"You know you have a big heart when you feel bad for doing what is best for you"

And i felt that.

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Ignorance comes from arrogance. It is a disease in the heart of every muslim who does not study the lifestyle of the prophets and their companions.

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When I look at the muslims, I see many issues such as financial, education and relationships.

90% of these problems can be solved by men following the instructions of Allah and women only supporting and choosing men who are slaves of Allah.

But neither do the men want to listen and change their stubborn ways nor do the women want to get out of their comfort zone and leave the men who disobey Allah.

Men compliment women and women compliment men. When we work together, we can achieve great things but I still get women who get upset over the damn truth. And then have the audacity to say men are liars.

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Peace comes from sitting alone and talking to Allah!!!