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how im tryna be in 2025

gromit gets it

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been loving the state of tumblrs 'trending now' page lately. I don't know what's changed but i swear it used to be a lot of the same things everyday, or at least something that's had a big moment in culture that you'd expect to get a spot there. now dungeon meshi will be at number 4 at its just cause its tuesday.

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was having a minor crisis but this appeared in my head and it was so stupid it just snapped me right out of it

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Max dropping a pregnancy announcement in the middle of the George publicity wars

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"What would you tell small Max?"

"I wouldn't tell small Max anything because small Max was not worried about anything. Small Max was just loving life: driving quadbikes, go-karts, motocross bikes, having fun with his friends, not enjoying school. Honestly? That's the beautiful part of it. You shouldn't tell him anything and just let him live his life. I wish I could see myself with small Max. It was a good time."

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maxy!!!

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for those looking to participate in their local communities but unsure how or where to start, I highly recommend starting with your local library. yes I am a certified library stan and library lover but your local library likely has a lot of programming and events that are a good opportunity to meet other people! my small town library has crafting events, teen book clubs, author visits, workshops, birdwatching workshops, gardening workshops, foraging workshops, and more! many of them are even virtual! it's a great reason to get out of the house, too. i guarantee people will be glad you're there. go to local school events, a lot of them have fundraising events and function as a sort of community center. find your closest food not bombs chapter, go to local music events (yes- even your small town has a diy scene!), follow businesses in your community on instagram (especially book stores or cafes), find local artists/makers and follow them (go to events they post about!), pick a few spots to be a "regular" at and start a good rapport with the employees and other regulars! download bumble friends and start meeting people who value what you value and form genuine relationships with them. be open to people outside of your age demographic! there ARE in fact older people who you have a lot in common with, younger people too. you're not alone!! try not to be too judgmental. we are all just people looking for connections.

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Making > Consuming

The solution for the eternal child’s desperation is simply to do. Make art, write, clean without thinking, get off the phone [in a word create things and learn to sit with the mistakes, by doing this you accept death by dwelling in the world instead of dwelling in the postponement of fantasy (“i’ll do that when i grow up”)]. Consumption harkens back to life in the womb when everything was provided. We must assert to the subconscious that we are capable of existing in the world by doing things. It’s incredibly difficult, painful, and circuitous but I’m realizing that it’s the only way, because there is no parent who’s going to take care of me anymore.

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IVE - OFF THE RECORD

Restaurant, café, movies

I want our relationship to be more than that

Something more secretive and thrilling

So this is my time, it's my time

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TWICE-TRATEGY STEP 1

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Clarice Lispector, The Passion According to G.H.

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"because i'm dutch" (brazil, 2016)

inspired by @alexanderalbons's amazing ayrton post

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BACK WHERE HE FUCKING BELONGS