starsnstyrofoam

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A redraw of this post since my S/I was redone! :D

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Ayo!

Reblog and tell me an interesting inside joke or headcanon with/about your f/o or f/o's!

I'll start: i call my f/o (adam) 'Sabes' short for lightsaber. It's based on a funny lil inside joke i came up with at some point and in return he calls me pidge, or pidgeon.

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Lil thing for enby self shippers

Your f/o loves and respects you and your identity.

Your f/o uses your chosen pronouns. And changes them when needed / asked to.

Your f/o doesn't doubt your identity once. And refers to you as their partner, (or bf/gf if you prefer gendered terms)

If you present more masc, your f/o doesn't assume that means you're a man.

They know you're enby.

If you present more fem, your f/o doesn't assume that means you're a woman.

They know you're enby.

If you present as your agab your f/o still uses your chosen pronouns, calls you your preferred terminology, and knows you're still enby.

They know that it is your identity, and they will never doubt that. Until you yourself tell them you identify differently, they will believe that you are who you are. And respect you. Because it's human decency.

On days you feel dysphoric, your f/o will sit with, you hold you, reassure you. They will cook for you and kiss your forehead no matter how ooc that is. Because they love you, and if it means letting down their walls they will.

Because you deserve to be loved and respected.

[Because enbies deserve all theloved ever. And because im enby, and use she/her for myself on c.ai even though i use they/them irl. You are loved, you are valid, and your f/o believes the same]

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Casual little reminder about your self inserts

Be as OP as you fucking want.

Make yourself a god

give yourself superpowers

give yourself a tail and horns or wings or anything you want!

Let your s/i change the entire plot to be how you like.

Make your s/i a shapeshifter or a vampire or an elf.

Even if it doesn't fit in Canon. I don't care. Your s/i is completely indulgent to you. What matters is that you enjoy yourself.

I make the rules. Im not sorry about it. That's how it is.

Your f/o loves you so so much. Doesn't care if you're human or an alien or whatever. They love you for you.

Coming from someone who literally made a goddess s/i at one point. Just have fun with it

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Your f/o respects and loves you btw.

You're trans? Awesome, cool, sick. It doesn't change much but they take it into consideration and her you on bad days, make sure to use your preferred pronouns (and beat up a bitch if they're an asshole)

You're lgbt in some way? Sick! Your f/o supports it, duh. Human rights. They will very gladly support you and go woth you to pride. (Again, they'll beat up an asshole if need be)

Oh? What's that? The fandom decided your f/o isn't attracted to your gender? Oh well, lemme fix that for you. *crumples that titbit up and throws it away* perfect. Your f/o loves you despite gender, gay or not gay or whatever. I make the rules, I do not apologise.

Your f/o loves you damnit.

They respect you, and love you even on the bad days. Always. They use your chosen name and pronouns. They just love you for who you are

[I'm not projecting. ok maybe a little. I'm just, need f/o hugs. And gender affirmation. Shoutout to all the enbies btw, your f/o is in love with you.]

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you deserve your f/o's love. right now. as is. you do not have to change for it and you do not have to suffer for it, you do not have to do anything to earn it. not now. not later. not ever. there are no tricks and there is not a catch. it's not too good to be true. your f/o loves you. you deserve it, you will always deserve it. and you can just enjoy it.

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Do not imagine you and your f/o doing these:

[But not really. Go ahead and imagine it]

In the rain

You and your f/o on the way home, getting caught in the rain.

They try their hardest to cover you as you both run to find somewhere dry. Both of you laughing as you try to shake the cold off of you, maybe they pull you in closer, or give you their coat, or wipe off their own damp hands on you.

Or they grab your wrist and swirl you around, tell you you look even better when your hair is soaked and your clothes are stuck to you. Laugh as you try to push away from them and pull you closer, kissing your forehead and telling you the body heat is important. Definitely not an excuse to hold you in the rain, not at all. Why would they ever do that-

Or they offer you a hand, give a sweet smile and ask you to dance, and the two of you recreate the most romantic waltzes in the rain together, not a care for the people watching, or the cold. You both keep eachother warm anyway.

Long distance, on the phone

You and your f/o are apart, whether temporary or long distance.

They text you goodmorning and goodnight, send you stupid memes that remind them of you and they laugh at the stupid things you say at ungodly hour of the night.

You find out they made your ringtone the intro song to some TV show you like. They say one of the characters in it remind them of you. They probaly never would have watched that show if you hadn't started ranting about it at 3 am during a voice call.

The both of you playing videogames. No matter the type, you both play, and they tease you. Or you tease them. They can hear when you smile. They can tell when you're holding in a laugh, and that only makes them want to hear it more. Your laugh is angelic, after all.

Shopping with you

Even if it's not a date, it's domestic, and sweet.

And in the end one of you end up standing on the edge of the shopping cart while the other pushes and laughs.

They try to take you down aisles you both know you don't have to go down. But your favourite stuff is down this aisle and if you go down it they can ask that one question that starts the tirade of ranting about that thing you're obsessed with at the moment and they can watch you ramble on about it. They've heard it a billion times, but they will never get tired of your voice.

You end up going clothes shopping and finding different clothes and accessories for eachother:

- "This one suits you!"

"you think that suits me?..."

- "yea!"

"... fine. I'll try it on, let's go to the changing room."

- "Yes!" *fist pump*

Is this all self indulgent, yes. But that's the whole point, isn't it fellas? God, if only I could laugh in the rain with my f/o. That's the dream.

Anyway love y'all

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Your f/o sneaks glances at you btw. You sit side by side to watch a movie or just enjoy eachothers company and your f/o will take glances to you when you're distracted. Maybe they're open about it when you catch their gaze and smirk at you, maybe they get shy and look away immediately, giving a small apology.

Your f/o can't help it though. When your focused in the tv, or your phone, or your book. Just, distracted and relaxed. They can't help but give even a small smile, their heart melts. Maybe they'd never admit that though.

(Also they love you and are obsessed with you duh)

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Star / Styro 🍋 21 / It.They

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Fandoms:

Hazbin (fixated)

Stardew