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anyone else just starve to feel like they have their shit together

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13 points

going against stereotypes: ED edition

give yourself a point for each:

- you’re not a girl

- you’re over 18

- you don’t smoke

- you don’t like energy drinks

- you’re not white

- you’re neurodivergent

- you’re not upper-middle class

- you’ve never been hospitalised

- you’re queer

- your BMI is still considered in “the healthy range” or above

- you have a disability and/or chronic illness

- “the media” is not the reason you have an ED

- only a couple people (or nobody) you know in-person knows about your ED

- you hate attention

- you hate social media

- you have something other than “the two main ones”

let’s see how many of us are absolutely nothing like the way we’re depicted in a lot of media and online spaces

caveat: it’s okay if you do fit into the stereotype, that doesn’t make you any more or less valid. I just wanted to point out that many of us don’t fit into it!

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✨🌙Today was okay. I actually didn't do terrible today. Went to work, managed to fast 15 hours, ate under my maintenance calories, even exercised a little but since it was my walk to work not sure it counts. All in all though, a C- day. Could have done much better but then again could have done worse so I'm not going to beat myself up over it. Getting tired of always hating myself so decided to listen to good music instead of listening to subs like usual. So tired of hate. I started nicking myself periodically with a razor and it is taking the edge off the screaming self hatred enough that I can actually function. Not sure if it's better self destructive behavior than bingeing all the time but at least it doesn't end in weight gain.✨🌙

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8 for me

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No shoes only burning my feet 🔥

a childhood friend of mine once ate a sandwich with cheese, nutella, ketchup and smth else. it was very cursed but apparently didn't taste that bad. i will not defend that.

i don't think anyone would defend that. also your childhood friend seems like the type of person that unironically wears crocs

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I WANT SKINNY ARMS AND I WOULD GIVE MY LEFT EYE FOR THEM

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If you like Hawai'i because it's fucking beautiful and the waters are perfectly clear.

Then you should support the decolonization of Hawai'i and give it back to the indigenous peoples there because they are why it's so beautiful and the waters are perfectly clear.

And while we're at it support #Land Back because if we give authority to care for the indigenous people here on the main land, we can probably have a place that's that beautiful as well (assuming it's not too far gone yet).

-fae

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My horoscope just called me fat

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Lolipop or proana bracelet tbh

Eating disorder tumblr tag yourself

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Thinspo I found while browsing Pinterest for style ideas

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This icon got recovered and they're glowing <3

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Reblogging for all of you masc or enbies with big titties/chest that can't bind with regular binders. Happy binding kings/icons!

Hey. Large chest people that want it to be smaller and flatter. I have a tip for you.

I am a trans man. I have an h cup chest. That is not a typo, not a brag, and not an invitation to sexually harass me. This means I have about 4 pounds of breast. This means that binders do not work for me. There’s not enough structure in the compression to keep that much weight in place.

I wore a sports bra under my binder, for a time- it kept things in place, and the binder flattened. This isn’t really safe and I recommend against it. It also never actually got me looking masc- I tended to look like I had between a c or b cup. TransTape I discarded too- it’s just not sturdy enough.

Enter Enell. Specifically, the Enell Sport High Impact Bra.

I want you to look at the construction of that sports bra. It clasps in the front. This flattens the chest. And since it’s a sports bra designed for busty people, it LOCKS everything in place. When I wear my Enell sports bra, I do not bounce. It also gets me looking like I have an a cup at worst- and at best, when I layer, I actually look masc.

Admittedly, they’re not cheap. That one’s 66$. But I’ve tried even custom binders, and they don’t work as well as Enell. I was actually contemplating a custom built corset before I found Enell. Enell is also much, much safer than layering compression, since it is being used as intended (sort of). As a bonus, you can actually exercise in it- it’s a sports bra!

I will note that they use their own sizing system, so you will have to measure yourself.

Happy binding!

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🌙 Vegan chicken wings and nuggets are the exact same thing but one is already sauced and you have to use a fork because of that, I never had boneless chicken wings so I can't provide a good answer to this.

✨ Sparkling water is basically my jam and I will fight everyone over it. So versatile and no cal. 👑 Icon 👑

🌙 Just for drinking, Oat and almond are my fave, coconut milk or almond is best for lattes, soy or oat is best for tea, I haven't tried all of the fancier non dairy milks because I am poor and there isn't much variety here. Hemp and Rice milk are good for cooking but are too watery for regular drinking. I don't drink dairy and before going vegan I literally hated all milk. Flavors on the other hand, Taro, Strawberry, Chocolate in that order.

✨ Eggs are bullshit. Fight me

🌙 I'm making homemade cranberry cream chocolates and boxing them with pre-rolls for Halloween to share with my group but I am not anticipating getting much chocolate because I am not trick or treating.

i'm trying to think of food debates to start lol

>are boneless wings just chicken nuggets

>is sparkling water good or nah

>what kind of milk is best (regular, oat, chocolate, vanilla, strawberry, pea, cashew, almond, etc)

>what kind of eggs is best (hardboiled, softboiled, poached, frittata, ŗ̶̢͕̰̙̪̅̑̏͛͑͋̈̎á̷̟͓͕̏̓̒̎́͘͜w̶̢̛̪̭̤̜͔̩̲̣̭̰͖̘̋̏̃́̔̅̂̈́̎̅̌̒̔͗͘, omelette, scrambled, deviled, benedict, sunny sideup...)

most importantly WHICH CANDIES R U HOPING FOR ON HALLOWEEN (if you're going trick or treating/to a party/whatever)

idk give me your opinions it's interesting

inspired by @peachjambobatea 's food wars lawl