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[starrysib]

i got da pokmon scarlt gam on swich an iv ben playng it alot! iv cot ovr 20 pokmons alrdy!! my sis is guna get da vilet one an we wil get to play togthr :D

-🖥️🎨 (@turtletot)

hihi !! sorry i���m getting to this ask so late aaaa i’ve been so exams :,)) but i’m done for the year now so hopefully i can post more!!

that sounds so fun !! that’s a lot of pokemon to catch so quickly :0 do you have a favorite one? mine are probably ditto, sobble, and goodra ^^

[starrysib]

Become the person you wish you had in your life when you were young. Have the spirit of youth forever in you. Love and nurture your inner child, because they are a very important part of you that deserves to be treated with kindness. Enjoy the activities that brought you joy as a kid, or experience the things you never got an opportunity to. Never stop being an optimistic soul who sees the positivity in the world. Most importantly, learn to find a way to do this on a regular basis, even if it's only for a brief moment in time

[starrysib]

// cw blood draw (vague)

for sure bring a stuffed toy if it could help you feel more comfortable !! it’s totally normal to be anxious about having ur blood drawn, even for non-regressors. and if you think having a friend with you could make it a nicer experience, u should go for it i think !!

maybe a smaller stuffed toy could be better in case u change ur mind and want them to stay in ur bag ^^

Cw blood draw

I have to get my blood drawn tomorrow :( im nervous and not sure if I should bring a stuffed toy or not 🧸

[starrysib]

Reminder that your age regression is still valid if...

🧸 It doesn't fit the "aesthetic"

🍪 It isn't always happy/positive

🧸 You don't regress often

🍪 You're a masc regressor

🧸 You don't want a caregiver

🍪 You don't use little gear

🧸 It isn't voluntary

🍪 It is voluntary

🧸 You don't have trauma

🍪 You don't regress to a super younge age

🧸 You're a system

There's no criteria to being an age regressor. You are valid 🫶🏻

[starrysib]

i haven’t been posting as much lately :(( i’ve been doing sooooo many exams and it’s taking all my time but i only have 2 left and i’ll be done with my first year of uni !!

either way, my asks r still open and i’ll try to answer things as quickly as i can <3

[starrysib]

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Stuffie Art Prompts:

🖍 Draw or paint your stuffies with silly accessories on, like silly hats or big glasses

🎨 Draw or paint your stuffies in a magical land, it can look like however you want

🖍Draw or paint your stuffies as astronauts in space, bonus points if you design new planets

🎨 Draw or paint your stuffies as clowns putting on a circus

🖍 Draw or paint an outfit you design for your favorite stuffie

🎨 Draw or paint your stuffies with different facial expressions

🖍 Draw or paint your stuffies going on a road trip, or in a plane or on a boat

🎨 Draw or paint your stuffies visiting somewhere you've always wanted to go

🖍 Draw or paint your stuffies swimming! I bet they would love to see themselves swimming!

🎨 Draw or paint your stuffies as mythical creatures (or a different creature/hybrid if they already are a mythical creature)

🖍 Draw or paint your stuffie as a mad scientist in their own science lab

🎨 Draw or paint your stuffies in the style of your favorite storybook/cartoon

🖍 Draw or paint how your stuffies would look as humans

🎨 Draw or paint your stuffies as royalty, don't forget their crown and thrown

🖍 Draw or paint your stuffies at an amusement park

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[starrysib]

i love being a fat little! my curves and imperfections and yes, even my marks and scars, make me who i am and i wouldn't have it any other way. and i love all my other fellow fat littles (and fat caregivers!!) out there. keep being beautiful and only change when you want to.

thinspo and fatphobes keep your grubby paws off this post

[starrysib]

Remember even if you are an agere account you should address the palestine war!! Being a agere account isnt a excuse to stay silent

[starrysib]

hi friends !! check it out, my newest project is up and the first handful of posts are queued :D

hi !! welcome to agere-polls, an account dedicated to asking questions to the sfw agere community, partially for fun but also to try n normalise the less spoken about aspects of our community.

feel free to submit questions in the ask box !! i’ll try to answer as many as possible <3 but pls keep them sfw ofc and please only submit one question at a time ^^ all posts will be queued so i don’t accidentally spam everyone hehe

. :+* submission status :: open :)

if you’ve found this account through the polls tag or some other way and are very confused, here’s some info about agere: everything agere carrd

tl;dr it’s a sfw coping mechanism where you go into a childlike headspace so processing complex emotions is easier (and usually more fun) !!

this blog is run by @tiny-tk (little account) / @starrysib (caregiver account) so check those if you wanna know more about me :]

dividers by @saradika-graphics <3

[starrysib]

i feel like i dont see these said enough but heres a shoutout to...

the trans caregivers

the neurodivergent caregivers

the poc caregivers

the disabled caregivers

you all deserve more appreciation!! i feel like sometimes agere spaces can be dominated by a certain aesthetic that doesnt include those of minorities... and i see shoutout posts for littles/pets which is AMAZING!! we love to see it!! but i just wanted to put out some positivity for the caregivers < 33 yall deserve it

[starrysib]

"impure regression" it's therapy, impurity came free with your xbox

[starrysib]

hi lovey!!! i have a genuine question abt agere if that’s alright :3

are caregivers necessarily in a relationship ? i saw ur nate headcanons and i was wondering if reader & him are in a relationship when he’s not in little space & and then strictly cg and baby when he is. i hope that makes sense omg 😭

this is all /gen + /pos !! i’m just trying to learn more <33

Hihihi!! So it honestly depends on the people involved! I know people who's CG's are their best friends, romantic partners, etc.

As far as romantic partner CG's go though, those boundaries also depend on the people involved. As always, age regression is strictly SFW and both parties NEED to be aware of that.

Personally for me, my CG is someone I am romantically involved with and we both understand that while I'm regressed there is to be no NSFW touch/talk/etc. Now ofc that is going to look different for every couple so communication is ALWAYS key.

So basically, you don't stop being boyfriend(s)/girlfriend(s), your dynamic just changes a bit to ensure a safe and happy regression!

Personally for my writing, sometimes the dynamic (outside of regression) will be painted as romantic but usually it's up to interpretation!

Important things to remember that have helped me :

If your cg EVER intentionally crosses your boundaries, please drop them.

Communication both in and out of headspace is of up-most importance.

Everyone's boundaries are different, just make sure you and your caregiver (romantic or not) are on the same page.

[starrysib]

ooo i have a recommendation!! might not work, but it’s what i use if i need to stay in big space for a while.

essentially, music !! my music taste varies a lot when i’m small, and a littlespace playlist is the main thing i use to regress on purpose. having the same thing for music that you only like when you’re not regressed could help pull you out of small space, but without the stress that often accompanies that switch. (same goes for podcasts if you like those) i hope this can help someone !!

hi there im extremely new to this community. I find myself involuntarily slipping into younger headspace (I think.) while out in public and places where I DONT want it to happen. I think it’s happening cause of stress. I’m just worried because I’m not really sure how to leave said headspace?? How do I go back on purpose? I like regressed but, when I’m not at home it isn’t really safe, and I can’t get things done while in said headspace. Should I be able to go back to my age easily? :(

Hello! Welcome to the community! I'm not the best person to give advice on pulling out of involuntary regression, because my headspace is such that I can snap out of it when needed. I don't slip so deeply that I'm unable to return to my bodily age, so unfortunately I can't help you much there. I'd suggest you find some (positive) triggers that tether you to your big space, for me that tends to involve chores or homework, things that need to get done in my big space.

What I can say is that not everyone's regression is the same. Not everyone can pull out of headspace easily, especially when you fall into it involuntarily. It's okay, and understandable! I do hope you can manage to find a safe way to return to being big, because although age regression is a great coping mechanism, like any other coping mechanism you don't want it impeding your daily life negatively.

It can be daunting when you slip in public, it's hard to be safe out there when you're tiny and alone. Maybe you can find someone you trust who can help talk you up out of headspace so you can avoid slipping in places you want to stay big?

If you find anything that works, do let me know! I sometimes vent regress involuntarily and I worry that it'll happen around people I'm uncomfortable sharing my regression with.

[starrysib]

i really relate to a lot of this actually, like even though i’m a lot more of a regressor than a cg, i feel like the adult side of my brain never fully leaves me when i’m little, it just takes a back seat and is ready to grab the wheel if i ever need it. that’s why my little space feels so fragile a lot of the time, if the slightest thing happens i usually fall right out of it, but i can slip back in just as quickly sometimes !! but it does feel fuzzy and unclear a lot of the time too. im lucky that i have a pretty obvious tell, at least in my own mind - my comic changes and so does my internal monologue. (i don’t think i’m plural, but now that i’m typing this i uh . yeah let’s not think too hard about that)

imo that’s still regression, even if your non-regressed headspace never fully goes away. i don’t think mine ever will, but i’m kinda grateful for that. it means that little me can relax and get into wacky situations, knowing that they can go grown up mode again if they need to!! except for when that doesn’t work, in which case it’s usually really funny so i don’t mind :,)

// brief trauma mention in this paragraph

but yeah we collectively really need to do more to normalise questioning in agere spaces. expecting everyone to know their regression types, little age, and reasons for regression is so not cool, especially when so often it’s tied into trauma that they’re still processing. putting that kind of pressure on someone is never ok!!

This is a fandom blog for regression stuff first, but it's also a way for me to figure out my own experiences when it comes to regression. I've been questioning if I do regress for a while now, and as far as I know? I might, I might not.

I do know I feel younger and smaller when I engage with kid stuff like my plushies, sfw agere fanfics, moodboards, agree blogs, my favorite childhood movies, etc. Maybe I regress but only half in it because I don't feel like a total kid. It's more like this headspace that's slightly fuzzy but I still have some adult/older perspective. Not sure if it's involuntary or not; not sure what age I go to when it happens.

I may try age-dreaming down the road. I think it would be a good idea, especially with my day-to-day stressors.

Whether I regress or not, I don't mind being a sitter or caretaker-like figure. I like caring for other people. I like taking care of kids; tiny, small, older kiddos, etc. When I'm in what I call "Carer Mode", I feel less stressed. It's relaxing for me to take care of others. I like taking care of other people.

It's even to the point that my family members have pointed out how natural it seems for me to just. Take care of them. And how relaxed I am when I do.

I'm making this post to share my experiences because I know I'm not the only one questioning things in regards to regression. Could be pet regression, age regression, age dreaming, pet dreaming, etc. It's a healthy coping mechanism. It's okay to explore this more child-like, pet-like, and/or caretaker side of yourself.

I also want to say that this blog, though mostly a fandom blog, is a safe place for those who are questioning things. Just don't be a meanie to others about it.

Be kind to yourself, seedlings <3

[starrysib]

24 hour libraries are so cool :0 i was in one until 1:30am last night with a view of part of the city !! i normally get really nervous in places like that, but having some of my roommates with me made it totally ok!!

[starrysib]

oooo there’s a whole bunch of things you could do !! but the important part is that it’s whatever you want, and not just doing whatever you think people do (unless you’re just trying it out to see if you enjoy it ofc!!)

that being said, here’s some ideas you could try !!

. :+* your dolls are actors!! use them to act out scenes from your favorite media, or come up with your own!!

. :+* a lot of them are from different series right? how does that work, do they know each other? play it out n find out !!

. :+* if you don’t have props or furniture for them, it could be fun to try making those out of spare cardboard or plastic packaging !! there’s a lot of tutorials online, and you could get a new skill! plus, it’s bonus points for recycling stuff that’s get trashed otherwise :D

. :+* this one’s a lil strange, but i’ve used toys to act out conversations or events that could happen to me, so i’d be less nervous about them. last fall i was really worried about a uni trip i was going on, so i acted it out with my polly pockets first and it made me a lot less anxious !! (the trip ended up going horribly, but my sobble plush comforted me though it :,D)

. :+* if they’re dolls with roughly the same clothing size, let them try on each others outfits !! find new cute combos and maybe throw them a fashion show !!

. :+* neurodivergent playtime speed round !! sort them . color order? order you got them in? height order? sort them so much if you want !! make so many lists about them!! create fact files about their favorite things and personalities!! create a complex web of relationships between them and add to it as the lore continues to develop !! (ofc not limited to nd people but more common among them)

. :+* take them with you on adventures or if you feel nervous going to a place! imagine their voice from inside your backpack, guiding you through it and telling you it’s gonna be ok. or even just enjoying the sights with you !!

. :+* if you have a doll whose design you don’t like, or that you just don’t play with much, you could try customising them !! your dolls are yours to do whatever you want with, and one of a kind custom dolls are so so so so cool :0 obviously you won’t be a pro immediately, but if you like crafts them that’s a rly fun hobby you could get into, and at the end you get a brand new doll that’s completely unique !! (i rly recommend Dollightful on youtube, she makes rly gorgeous custom dolls and her filming/editing style is really fun and little-safe)

ok i hope some of these could help !! this advice is for anyone, it’s hard to remember how to play with toys when you’ve been told for so long that you’re not supposed to. but you’re absolutely supposed to, that’s why they’re there !! have soooo much fun !!!

Please read my dni in my bio before interacting

I have a question! How do you play with dolls? I have no idea how to play with dolls but I have quite a few, for reference the dolls I have are- rainbow high, magic pixlings, mlp equestria girls and I'm gonna buy decora girlz soon, I have no doll house or doll house furniture or doll clothes other than the ones they come with so what do I do 0.0

I would really appreciate any advice because I love my dolls but they just kinda sit there looking cute

[starrysib]

i don’t see enough representation for physically disabled littles or littles who require accessibility or mobility aids. littles who are chronically ill and constantly dealing with pain or dizziness. littles with autism who don’t have stereotypical cutesy autistic traits. littles who can’t use gear for very long or at all for whatever reason.

as a little who has chronic fatigue syndrome and uses noise cancelling headphones as an accessibility aid, i don’t feel as seen in the community as littles who are able bodied.

and i can’t do a lot of things other regressors do. playing takes energy and exacerbates my CFS. using pacis for too long is uncomfortable because of all the dental work in my mouth. i have a hard time keeping up with things like my journals and whatnot because of low energy and brainfog. my regression can be impure and i throw tantrums easily because of my autism.

littles who are “different” deserve to be seen too. we’re just as important as other littles.