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[ 💧 🧸 ] tips for helping an insecure regressor ! !

sometimes i get super duper worried that my caregiver is uncomfortable with my regression , so i thought it’d be useful to caregivers / sitters / flips to have some tips on helping manage a self—conscious regressor !

— instead of simply reassuring them , treat them like a little / however they would like to be treated ! while reassurance can be helpful , in my opinion , actions are much more comforting

— in worse situations ( breakdowns / tantrums / etc. ) give them activities to do ! coloring pages are very nice for me , but if it’s something you can do in person together , i would recommend text—based tasks like having them tell you about their day , about their interests , anything really ! this might not seem like much , but being given little commands can help us feel very connected to being a regressor !

— similar to the previous one , give them a checklist ( this can work in person or over phone / text ) . this is a more general piece of advice , but it will help take their mind off of the worry and will help them feel accepted & taken care of !

— the most obvious one : talk about it with them . this is an easier thing to do when they are big ( not regressed ) , but having them explain , or try to explain , why they feel insecure can be very very helpful in your methods of reassuring them as well as taking some heaviness off of them ( talking does help ! )

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« a very cinnamoroll christmas »

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blues clues kiddo moodboard !:･ﾟ✧:･ﾟ✧

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to the regressors who need to hear it:

you are so loved.

no matter how dark the tunnel may seem, you will find the light at the end of it.

you are not your truama.

what happened to you isn’t your fault.

even if you have no one to talk to, i’m always here for you.

even if you feel like you can’t do it, you can.

you can take breaks, it’s ok.

family is not by blood, it’s by the people you choose to be family.

it’s ok to be upset.

you have no reason to be ashamed of your regression.

if you need anything, i’m here for you.

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Angel Milk Recipe

Ingredients

🍼Milk (or Dairy Free Milk)

🍼Honey

🍼Sugar

🍼Vanilla Extract

Instructions

🍼Step One - Pour some milk into a microwave safe mug and microwave for 1 minute.

🍼Step Two - Add sugar and honey to liking (for example, I like to add half a tablespoon of each).

🍼Step Three - Add 1/4 teaspoon of vanilla extract.

🍼Step Four - Stir well

🍼Step Five - Pour in a sippy/bottle if you prefer, be careful it’s not too hot before touching.

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pretend milk and cookies !

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assorted teethers ♡

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Hi can you do a png of dog plushies?

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some blue puppy/petre pngs !!! pls feel free to save/use them :-))

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i wanna be talked to like most people talk to dogs and be puppy.

“oh my gosh, hi! hi doggy! what’s your name? it’s nice to meet you!”

“oh, you wanna go outside? yeah? yeah? (bends down, patting legs) let’s go outside, come on!”

“ay, stop digging in the garden, you’ll mess up the carrots! silly boy, get outta there!”

“who’s a good boy? you? are you a good boy? yeah, you are!”

“my pretty, pretty pup! what a cute puppy you are, my cute puppy! (head pats)���

“gimme that pen over there, please. wow, what a smart pup, thank you very much!”

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webkinz cotton candy puppy plush