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spillyourheartouut-blog · 12 years ago
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ur literally the biggest fakest lying cunt ever. i hope you kill yourself.
The best advice for you right now is to SHUT THE FUCK UP! (:
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spillyourheartouut-blog · 12 years ago
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I dated this guy at the beginning of the year, it didnt last long but he also said it was stupid to break up with me and stuff. I dont get hurt or anything when he dates other girls because we've stayed civil with each other, we hung out a few times and talked a few times but it never turned into us being together again. Lately we've been "fuck buddies" and im okay with it at first but after I always feel like i want more from him but it goes away within a week or so. What do i do?
Stop fooling around with him.
All guys ever want now a days is SEX, SEX, SEX.
You can find another guy, way better than him.
Just start talking to more guys, Trust me, it'll get better
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spillyourheartouut-blog · 12 years ago
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When I was with my ex boyfriend, after we broke up he told me that he cheated on me. I was pretty mad at him but left it alone because I didn't care. Now, I've been talking to this guy who I really like and his best friend is dating the girl my ex cheated on me with. She messaged me on facebook saying she'd be happy to take me with her to her boyfriends so i could spend time with the guy i like. I still hold some resentment towards her, though ive never talked to her. I dont know what to do..
I suggest you go get the guy you like, and make him yours, And enjoy for how ever long it lasts. 
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spillyourheartouut-blog · 12 years ago
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I had this best friend who I used to make the same birthday cake for every year and this year we turned into something more and we got into a huge fight and don't talk anymore. I'm still really good friends with his sister, though and her birthday is coming up. On a scale of 1-10 how bitchy would it be to make her the same cake, knowing that he would see it?
On a scale of 1 to 10 it would probably be a 4. It would irritate him for sure.
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spillyourheartouut-blog · 12 years ago
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i have a problem. i have this "friend" who is being a bitch and telling me that im a copier and i ave no life and i just dont know what to do. she treats me like i have no friends and i just really need advice. thanks
She isn't a true friend. Someone who actually cares about you would never say that! Stop talking to her!
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spillyourheartouut-blog · 12 years ago
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I'm stuck in a shitty situation. I'm inlove with a boy joining the military. He's nice to me 5/7 days of the week (on average, just a guess) and I'm hopeless to be honest head over heels for him. However, my best friend (who is a boy) has been in love with me since the day I met him and I just, I'm often wondering these days what I should do or who to choose?
If you TRULY loved him would you really be asking me this question? I think you need to take some time for yourself. Stay single and see where your heart and head go.
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spillyourheartouut-blog · 12 years ago
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im just worried ill never find that girl who will treat me right
You will. You just need to be patient. You guys will find each other.
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spillyourheartouut-blog · 12 years ago
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Im not exactly sure what im asking, im just really tired of relationships, the only thing ive ever wanted in a relationship was to be loved back, ive never had a relationship where my girlfriend hasnt cheated on me, ive always been dumped. corny as it sounds i just wanted to be prince charming, now im starting to not care anymore, im kinda giving up on the idea love and i dont want to. but its like every girl ive wanted to be there for and care about has made me into a worse person
This hits fucking home with me. I am going to explain to you a little bit of my life and when I say what I say I really want you to pay attention.
I was in a relationship with someone who within four days cheated on me. He cheated on me with over 10 girls. He lied to me about his family dying, about him trying to commit suicide, everything. He told me he loved me and I wanted so bad to believe him. I stayed with him even though I saw naked picture from other girls in his email. I stayed with him even though he would yell at me all the time and constantly hurt me. I loved the fuck out of him and I never got any love back. 
Do you know how bad I would kill to have a someone like you? To have a person who treated me well and who would love me to pieces? Everyone goes through at least one tough relationship in their life and it's because it's a lesson. We need to learn how to love and no be loved back. We need to learn how to leave when we aren't happy or know how to act when we get left.
I know what it's like to want to give up. I know what it's like to say fuck this and act like every other person in the world. But I also know that I am a good person and there is someone out there who is actually going to love me and never hurt me. 
There is someone like that waiting for you. You just need to be patient. She will find you. Fuck the girls who hurt you and wait for the girl who is going to love you as much as you love her.
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spillyourheartouut-blog · 12 years ago
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i'm so sorry about giving up your daughter for adoption, but may i ask, why did you? and by the way i love the advice you give!
I'm going to make a long story short, he father treated me awful which caused us to fight all the time. We found out I was pregnant and he wanted me to get an abortion or he would kill her. I didn't want her being around that at all. Neither one of us had a job, license, or car. I would of been kicked out of my house if I chose to keep her. I also didn't want to have to worry about how I would afford stuff for her and her going to college.
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spillyourheartouut-blog · 13 years ago
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i just had an abortion.. and ive became depressed and i dont wanna do anything or hangout with anyone.. do you have any ideas on stuff i can do to occupy my mind so i dont think about how depressed i am? im going to see a therapist soon but for the mean time i dont know what to do
Everyone grieves differently. I went through the same thing after giving my daughter up for adoption. The best thing to do is honestly spend time with your family and friends. It will take months for you to heal but when I was with people, I didn't think about how I was feeling as much as I did as when I was alone.
Also, don't be afraid to express your feelings. If you need to cry, go in your room and cry. If you're angry, write about it on tumblr and then erase it all. 
Things will get better, I promise. xo
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spillyourheartouut-blog · 13 years ago
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can we add you on facebook?
https://www.facebook.com/alwentworth94
Go ahead :-)
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spillyourheartouut-blog · 13 years ago
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So I went and hung out with this guy last night who seemed to of liked me. It felt like we totally connected. He even kissed me.. twice. He said he would text me but never did? So I texted him once and he didn't reply. What should I do?
You should ignore him until he talks to you first. Give him some space for now.
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spillyourheartouut-blog · 13 years ago
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I like this one guy but people say they don't think we will last long if we date and i think he likes me, what should i do?
I mean....if you're willing to take the chance of getting hurt after a little while, go for it. Never know what could happen if you don't try.
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spillyourheartouut-blog · 13 years ago
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So I think I might like this guy. He is so perfect for me in everyway except he's has a girlfriend of 3 years. I really don't want to get involved because I wouldn't want to be the reason they're relationship ends but I already fell for him and he flirts back to me all the time and I just don't know what to do.
If he will flirt with you while he has a girlfriend, he will do the same to you if you two were to date. Would you really want that? I suggest finding someone who is single.
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spillyourheartouut-blog · 13 years ago
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Well I just broke up with my boyfriend yesterday because he lies to me, has pics of girls on his phone , he yells at me, he brings up my bad memories, called my friends baby , touches my friends and stuff and all that stuff just added up and I just stopes liking him. So now this other guy likes me and I like him but idk if It would be bad to date him cuz I just broke up with the other guy and he cried over me braking up with him. So should I date him or wait?? -__-
You do you. He treated you like shit so if you feel like you're completely over him and are ready for a new relationship, go for it!
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spillyourheartouut-blog · 13 years ago
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I really don't know what to do.. A guy keeps telling me he loves me but I don't love him, I would tell him but he said if I told him that I dont like it he would be really upset, he keeps asking me out.. Thanks alexis :3
I really think you just need to be honest with him. Say you only look at him as a friend and you aren't interested in a relationship right now. He may get mad but it's better to be honest than string him along. He will appreciate your honesty eventually.
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spillyourheartouut-blog · 13 years ago
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It means a lot that you answered my question, I just moved to a new state and have no friends so it's nice to at least have someone to take time out of their day to answer me without just yes or no. Xoxo
Awe, I am so happy you sent me this! I'm happy to help xo
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