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hey, can my cat stay on your blog for a little while?

i'm going out of town for the night and could use someone to watch her

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something my therapist told me that personally has been rather helpful is that coping skills are not to make us feel better. they are to create space between u and ur feelings. they r to help u cope and do what u need to do. they are not meant to resolve ur negative feelings. if they do, that's a bonus. but if they don't, that's ok. learning that honestly helped so much. i'm such a perfectionist that i can't even cope if it's not gonna be perfect and this like took a weight off my shoulders. if i use a coping skill and don't feel better, that's ok. i am simply trying to distance myself from my emotion. i felt like i wasn't coping correctly before i learned this. like maybe i was doing something wrong or there was just something wrong with me.

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reblog if your name isn't Amanda.

2,121,566 people are not Amanda and counting!

We’ll find you Amanda.

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ferrofluid on a microscope slide (source)

this gifset was made for @washerdryer to support a palestinian family. commission me for a gifset to support mohammed by checking out this post!

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hades explaining that he’s the god of the dead, not the god of death

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"Honestly, these days I'm mostly an e-reader, and if I want a book I buy it. I only get nice hardcovers of books I really like. Plus, it seems like to find anything I'd have to dig and search, which I don't care enough to do anymore. I'm mostly going to this bookstore for the vibes. My budget is safe because I doubt I'll even buy anything." - me, full of hubris, about to enter John King Used & Rare Books

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i’m so fucking happy for you and your northern lights no i’m being serious congratulations man that’s awesome you really (clenching my fist so hard my bones creak) deserve it

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intimacy should be a porn category

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the assurance "nobody is judging you" is straight up false... people ARE judging you and you have to find a way to be ok w it

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The bar was so low it was practically a tripping hazard in Hell, yet here you are, limbo dancing with the devil

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A porcupine’s Halloween present (+ original sound effects)

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A porcupine’s Halloween present (+ original sound effects)

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ohhh having a job is actually ruining my life.  ok