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Let me discuss my personal theory on secondary gender and primary gender…

I will start by saying that I am an omega who was born a perisex female. I feel I am very in tune with my cycle and have been since I began menstruation. I would have heats around 3-4 days long with varying intensity and need. Whenever I would not partake in these heats I would cramp during ovulation. These events directly coincided with my fertility window, with the second day of my heats being the most strong. Mapping out these events for the past year I’ve noticed that whenever I am ovulating is when the heat symptoms are strongest!

I follow cycles present in anyone who menstruates. My theory is that even if you do not believe in omegaverse you are experiencing a cycle!

Here is roughly where my cycle stands^^

I fully believe that omegas who menstruate follow a similar pattern. Quick sidebar: not everyone who menstruates is an omega and not all omegas menstruate. Genitalia ≠ Secondary gender.

I have come to the conclusion that cis women online who discuss their feelings during their cycle are essentially experiencing the same thing as a preheat, heat, etc. this graph represents my personal experience with the Menstrual, Follicular, Ovulation, and Luteal phase! Which does somewhat align with what I see in cis women using these terms! However, I would like to argue that using omegaverse terms alongside could be considered.

To me this is why I feel the omegaverse is partially real…

Now to discuss something I have labeled as a mini heat which can signal an oncoming period in myself. I do not know if anyone else experiences something similar but I blame this phenomenon on a hormonal spike pre period. This is an episode I classify by a rampant need or desire that does not go away for a few hours. Something I refer to as a bout! Normally in a regular heat I will experience 3-5 bouts per day…in a mini heat I will experience 1-2 of these bouts. Mostly the mini heat spans across two days or often only is one day.

This is my personal experience with my cycle. I would love input from other omegas, specifically omegas or who don’t menstruate. I would also like to hear from Alphas who menstruate if you’re willing to anonymously share your experience in my ask box! Also I’m under the impression that betas can lean alpha or omega meaning there is a possibility of them having weaker heats/ruts! Please reach out!

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Hi everyone!

I’m starting a prayer thread for BamBam here. Pls drop your prayers and I’ll bring them to other Christians and hopefully to other fans.

I don’t mean to scare anyone, but I think we can all agree that we can’t lose another. The Kpop community has already lost enough. We need to come together for this. Prayer is all I have but darn it I’m gonna do it!

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“So…did ya’ hear the one about Alfred?”

I think this is gunna be a series and I’m not mad about it

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This was inevitable, but Bob and Larry!

Bob and Larry from VeggieTales are Christian!

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“Don’t worry. A little fib couldn’t hurt anybody…”

Yall he is that hero 🗣️

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Pink Kitchen 🌸🎀

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wiltshirewonderland

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thiscolourfulnest

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It’s okay if you need to scale back your goals. It’s okay if you need to break them up into smaller steps. It’s okay if you need to change your goals. You aren’t a failure.

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disney songs on repeat.

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Post for miscecanids with skin sensitive to synthetic fragrances: some essential oil blends

Note: I haven't tried these myself. Always do your research on how much to dilute certain essential oils.

Cotton candy EO blends: cotton candy, simple cotton candy, classic cotton candy, candy floss, simple candy floss, fairy floss, pink cotton candy, blue cotton candy, cotton candy sugar, sweet candy floss, and cotton candy cupcake

Bubblegum EO blends: bubblegum, pink bubblegum, simple bubblegum, gumball, sweet bubblegum, and easy bubblegum

Caramel EO blends: caramel, vanilla caramel, brown sugar, caramel candy, butterscotch, salted caramel, caramel cookie, caramel chocolate truffle, salted caramel truffle, caramel apple, sweet caramel apple, caramel apple pie, and candy apple

Gumdrop EO blends: gumdrop, goody goody gumdrops, tropical gumdrop, pink gumdrop, bubblegum gumdrop, orange gumdrop, grape gumdrop, cinnamon gumdrop, lemon gumdrop, spearmint gumdrop, lime gumdrop, liquorice gumdrop, and gumdrop cookie

Sugar plum EO blends: sugar plum and sugar plum fairy

Sugar cookie EO blends: sugar cookie, buttery sugar cookie, Christmas cookie, vanilla cookie, shortbread cookie, and oatmeal cookie

Cola EO blends: cola, vanilla cola, and cherry cola

To turn into a perfume oil: dilute essential oil blend into jojoba or fractioned coconut blend

To turn into a perfume spray: dilute essential oil blend into Everclear or high-proof vodka

To turn into body spray: dilute essential oil blend into Everclear/vodka and vegetable glycerin

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me @ God:

here is the thing

*sits on the floor*

*cries*

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I pray that soon the man I'm supposed to marry, have children with, and submit to and love wholeheartedly will find me.

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I crave traditionalism like other people crave coffee. I want dresses and skirts to be 98% of my wardrobe. I want to ask my husband permission for purchases. I want good china and to throw dinner parties. I want to make my house into a home for us. I want to make dinner every night and serve him first. I want him to open doors, to order dinner for me. I want him to know when I need to kneel for him. I want him to know how devoted I am and how happy I need to make him. I want to decorate for every holiday. I want him to give me an allowance. I want to be a “kept woman”. I want to put in just as much work at home as he does at his job. I want to be a team. I want him to know when I need a spanking just because. I want schedules and a routine and traditions. I want bruises on top of bruises under my pretty dress and cane marks on my ass.

I want this life with him more than I’ve ever wanted it with anyone.

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hey if it works, it works