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BJs IG stories! Two pics of Mindy in a row 🤪

Groundbreaking in the year 2024 haha! It’s very cute. His #1 gal.

Or, maybe #3? After Kit and Annie…

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Mindy and BJ and John Mayer’s back lol ❤️❤️❤️

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Okay, this is kind of romantic. I wish I had a screenshot but Mindy posted on her stories 2 days ago about “where can I find a Dubai chocolate bar in the states?!?!”

What Mindy wants, Mindy gets.

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My “out there” theory for your angry anon is it’s one of BJ’s girls of the week who’s still bitter

I mean.. it doesn’t exactly seem like an out there theory considering everything lol

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Omg im yelling this anon person is lowkey highkey obsessed like if they really don’t like the idea of Mindy and BJ being together or whatever then just move on from this blog that clearly does 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 like it’s so embarrassing to see them be active on ur asks for like months now like why are they obsessed lmao don’t they have a life beyond checking your blog in order to send negative retorts on anon????? lol?? how odd!

anyway your responses are always gold I hope you’re having a good day and are not too bothered by that anon

I’m a little entertained at this point, can you tell?? I feel like this is if Michael Scott turned evil and was manically messaging someone about Ryan.

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Also gonna say he goes around nyc telling young girls that mindy loves him but he was never able to make it work with her because he's not physically attracted to her. He also is really judgmental about plastic surgery, which he says she's had a lot of. He's not a good guy lol. He's in love with himself and in love with how much she's still in love with him. He literally brags about it.

This is completely unhinged. Are you aware of how you sound? All I see here is total desperation. Why are you trying so hard to convince me of this? You’re just proving the other anon who talked about you yesterday right. They said you were obsessed with BJ not being with Mindy and you are. Why???

I said yesterday that you seem extremely bitchy towards Mindy and I see that here again except now you’re trying to pin all of the disparaging remarks about Mindy onto BJ. I’m supposed to believe that he’s talking about the mother of the kids he loves to death (Godkids or Bio whatever you want to think) this way? And to randos to boot? I even said yesterday that I think BJ is stupid at least half the time but you still REALLY really want me to think he’s terrible. I didn’t even say anything nice about him!

Trying to convince anyone that BJ isn’t attracted to Mindy is frankly bizarre… Do you think he’s like Daniel Day Lewis? Should BJ have won an Emmy and been lauded as The Great Actor of Our Time for the dozens of tongue make out scenes he did with Mindy? Do you think he went back to his trailer and threw up afterwards? When people comment on seeing them holding hands in broad daylight do you think that’s BJ doing performance art?

You’re clearly the same person who was extremely bothered by BJ being with Mindy and the kids in NYC last Thanksgiving so much so that you didn’t even believe it and argued with me that he was there. The same person that last week immediately asked what BJ did for his birthday because you had to know. So Mindy’s post yesterday all about BJ’s birthday celebration with her and their family unit seems to have really bothered you again.

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Post the other one!!

Lol ok but get ready.

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Tbh I know the truth (he's not the father lol) but just because I like to check in with this page now and then... Mindy's daughter knows how to read and write now. You think she calls him "dad" but can clearly see this cake says Uncle B? You don't think that would be confusing to the point of abusive to her own child?

I thought my post was pretty clear. I pointed out all of the old sightings from various people and made sure to specify that at this point in time, those are pretty old from 2 years ago. I said there hasn’t been any new sightings where anyone has overheard them. And then I also pointed out that Mindy’s referred to him as uncle in the past. Where in all of that did I say that I currently think Kit currently calls him dad? I listed everything about this subject and left it for everyone to come up with their own conclusion. So it seems like your conclusion not mine, is that Kit is calling him dad. That’s backed up by the fact that even though you’re telling me you know he isn’t, here you are arguing with me and loudly showing your insecurity on this subject.

I think you’re the anon I was talking about being obsessed with BJ and now you’re mad at how I described you.

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just wanted to say how well you’ve articulated in your past several asks what mindy & bj’s most probably situation looks like 😭 i agree with the other anon that as long as they (and the kids of course) are healthy and happy, they can have whatever arrangement works for them but sometimes i can’t help but let out the biggest sigh whenever a weird update comes out about them (particularly bj!!)

thank you so much for keeping us updated on these two!

Very kind thanks 💞💞

(I’m only always rolling my eyes or sighing about things with them so I get it!)

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Do you think Mindy ever casually dates as it seems like BJ does?

Purely a guess, but I feel like her group of school mom friends have probably tried to set her up on dates before and she’s maybe done that a few times. I don’t think her closer friends like Lang and Tracey who understand her and BJ’s relationship would bother with it. I don’t really get the impression that Mindy seems very interested in dating.

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I mean if they’re happy and healthy I guess good for them. But I think I always gonna be a bit sad to never see them publicly claiming their relationship and seeing bj out with other girls

They seemed especially happy together in 2022. We don’t see much of them now so it’s hard to say, but I agree.

For what it’s worth though I firmly believe BJ doesn’t particularly like his ~girl of the week~ deal either. He absolutely doesn’t need anyone’s pity he’s a pretty stupid man half the time but I’ve always always thought that Mindy wears the pants when it comes to them being together currently or not.

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Maybe there’s a legal aspect to it too. Mindy does seem very independent and maybe she doesn’t want to share custody with anybody. He gets to be a father in a non-traditional way and Mindy doesn’t have to worry about custody issues if things ever get too bleak. I get it

I wouldn’t be surprised. When the last blind item about them came out last fall (when Mindy was secretly pregnant again but we didn’t know) it was everyone’s first assumption that the fighting was custody related. Which is fascinating that we all thought that when it wasn’t specific about what the fight was. Taking into account now that another baby was on the way it definitely seems possible.

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So I take that to mean they look like him? I wonder why they’re so secretive then. It sounds exhausting to keep up the pretence of uncle or whatever

I think it’s primarily because they have a very untraditional/modern family unit and they don’t want people in their business more than they already are. If they said yes, BJ is their father, people would endlessly ask and judge about why Mindy and BJ aren’t married or even just formally a couple… From observations it seems like they’ve found a way to be a family that seemingly works best for them…

If you go back and read all of their old interviews and comments about each other and their relationship dynamic and then compare it to how they are now it’s actually pretty clear I think. They always used to comment on how they didn’t think they could ever get married because of their fighting (so they aren’t married) they talked about how they would need breaks from each other for a few days and then they’d always go back to each other and make up (they still formally have different houses even though BJ essentially lives at Mindy’s when they’re together) they BOTH have talked about and shown how independent they are. Mindy has always been so much more independent than the internet credits her for. (So they aren’t a formal couple with those responsibilities but are still visibly tied to each other)

As strange of an enigma as they continue to seem to be— and I don’t ever think they make that much sense and are lowkey crazy a lot of the time— I actually think it’s pretty obvious what they’ve created. They didn’t want to end their relationship so they didn’t. They created their own thing and their own version of a family and life.

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Has anyone actually seen pictures of the kids faces? BJ and his brother both have very strong features and I think that would be reflected in the kids and very hard to hide

I’m not sure on anyone else following, but I have seen numerous yes. The family picture of them all in the White House last year— I didn’t find that picture with heart emoji’s covering the kids, I added them. Your thoughts on the Novak’s having strong features is correct.

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it‘s extremely funny to me that there seems to be someone out there who is so obsessed with the idea of BJ being with other people that they write you again and again…like, what exactly is that person‘s point? is „proving“ that he‘s not the father that important to them? i simply don‘t get it

Oh man… Anon, I don’t know who you are but I love you lol. I agree. There appears to be someone paying close attention in the last year (at least) who seems obsessed with BJ and is downright bitchy about Mindy (I haven’t posted everything) and seems very bothered by everything Mindy and BJ do together…

Fascinating to say the least! I have a few theories but I’m keeping them to myself.

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Thanks for always being there but I don’t get why the red dress is interesting ? 😭

❤️ interesting simply because Mindy looks absolutely gorgeous and much more glam/fancy than she does for dinners out with her friends… She went out with her friends to dinner in Malibu the day after BJ’s birthday and she was just in a white blouse.

She looks like she got dolled up for a special reason. Which is pretty interesting when the reason is BJ.