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rawr <3

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♡ Hungry caterpillar age regression board ♡

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There is no wrong way to play!♡

for all of our lives so many autistic people are told they don't play, or they play wrong, because they play differently. some regressors feel like they lost their ability to play, but when youre told since you were actually little that how you play "isnt play" that may not be the case. Play can be--

brushing a doll's hair or changing their clothes

sorting blocks or other toys into categories

touching a toy and taking in its sight, feel, sounds, smells

lining things up

taking things apart and putting them back together

moving toys around without a story involved

autistic play is still play, "abnormal" play is still play, as long as youre having safe fun, its play!!♡♡

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I love ❤️ you to the moon 🌙 and stars ⭐️

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Agere / Boyre Moodboard

꒰ based on my own regression !! ꒱

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Awruff!!! New icon :3!! (they/it)

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Caregiver Donald Duck Stimboard

Requested by: @babybirdthings

🍭 - 🫧🐤🫧 - 🫧🐤🫧 - 🫧🐤🫧 - 🍭

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Border Collie petre moodboard :0 teehee, for @barktholomoth :3 (hiii)

DNI BANNERミ★

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Giving forehead kisses to the littles who:

-struggle to express how the feel, deal with emotional dyregulation

-struggle to find comfort and safeness with being little

-have a hard time talking when little

-don’t have a cg

-try and be little but they cry

Miss. Sana is here for you sweeties ❤️

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Playing outside ^^

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30 days of agere moodboards !

day 26: beige colors 🤎🤍

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𝙱𝚎𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚊 𝚛𝚎𝚐𝚛𝚎𝚜𝚜𝚘𝚛 𝚠𝚒𝚝𝚑𝚘𝚞𝚝 𝚊 𝚌𝚊𝚛𝚎𝚐𝚒𝚟𝚎𝚛!

Making a bag full of stuff you use when small so it's ready for you.

Making your bed and cleaning your sheets because your stuffies need you to.

Eating small snacks when you feed your pets so they aren't eating alone.

Taking a bath/shower because being smelly isn't fun.

Using weighted stuffies and blankets so it feels like your being held.

Going to bed at a reasonable hour because you don't want to keep your stuffies awake all night.

Putting your drawings and colorings in your journal so you can look at them later.

Making your own drinks because you are the only one who can do it right anyway.

Finding agere content and living vicariously through others.

Constantly reassuring yourself with notes, voice memos, moodboards, vision boards, and Ted talks.

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tips to caring for littles who suffer from:

emotional dysregulation, hyper empathy,

and harsh moodswings !!

• develop grounding techniques to bring your little back to earth when they spiral. (breathing exercises, hand squeezing, observation games, etc.)

• remind them that what they're feeling is only big right now, and will pass.

• offer reassurance and spend time with them. Do not get angry if your little is easily upset or agitated.

• if the source of the moodswing or dysregulation is removable, try to get your little or the cause away from the other.

• find distractions to help your baby cope. (tv, games, toys, coloring, etc.)

• offer to talk with them about their big feelings and / or listen.

• if they're comfortable with it, take over bigger tasks and set down rules to prevent harm. (Ex: earlier bedtimes, no exceptions.)

• show love towards your little, and communicate your feelings aswell.

• encourage your little to be open about their moodswings the moment they have them. Preventing further damage or fear for both parties.

• if your little is experiencing hyper empathy towards another party, assure them they're a good person for feeling on the other's behalf, but remind them that they're their own person.

• if your little is neglecting themselves for others, step in and stop them from doing so if safe.

As someone who experiences big emotions very quickly, and has symptoms of hyper empathy as well as bpd. I have a hard time distinguishing my emotions, I hope this post helps others like me ^^ feel free to add your own tips on!

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Ruff around the edges 🪹🪡

Shoes belong to @napps-resting-forest/bag

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Bunny moodboard !!!

I love bunnies sooo much !!! :DDD

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Little warm up doodle i liked

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bugs under a rock

redraw of my art from 2016