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We have GOT to stop pathologizing the joy out of life.

Saw someone claim that if you read a lot as a child, you were disassociating. No, you were reading. Because reading is fun.

"I have a problem with maladaptive daydreaming." It's only maladaptive if it negatively impacts your ability to function in the real world. Laughing at a joke you made in your head isn't doing that.

"You seem to do a lot if creative projects. What are you escaping?" I'm escaping this conversation.

Like what is the end goal? Because so far, all this has done has made it harder to enjoy my hobbies because you're turning a mindless process into something I gotta think about.

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IT’S A WONDERFUL LIFE (1946) • JIMMY STEWART as George Bailey and LIONEL BARRYMORE as Mr. Potter

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Chocolate, Dulce de Leche, and Vanilla Marble Cake

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We totally have corn that isn’t sweet. We have both sweet tasting corn and savory corn. We have sweet dishes that involve corn and savory dishes that involve corn. Why would we not have regular corn? We have fresh vegetables. Not everything comes in a can. My grand dad grows so many vegetables in his garden he has to give them away. We grew a small patch of corn one year. It just depends on where in the country you live and what types of foods people cook I guess.

It’s interesting when people from other countries are like “I bet Americans have never heard of this” but they talk so much about how we haven’t heard of it that yes I have in fact heard of it you won’t shut up about it and how much I haven’t heard about it actually

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I read an AITA post a few weeks back about a woman who liked having snacks in the bath when she's had a long day (a result of residual trauma iirc - the bath was her safe space). Her brand new husband of three weeks, a man twice her age who had no job, made her pay all of his bills and do all housework, and spent all day every day gaming because he wanted to make it as a Twitch streamer, had always been fine with this; but, on the day in question, had whisked her bath snacks out of her hands as she was on her way to the bathroom and tried to bin them, telling her it was time to 'break her of that filthy habit in his home'. She told him if he ever actually paid anything towards the house she owns outright he might get a say, took her snacks back, and had her lovely bath. He was since giving her the silent treatment.

(Obviously the judgement was an avalanche of 'NTA and also he's abusing you', which she agreed with, and decided to kick him out, so happy ending.)

Anyway I told my husband about this and he was outraged. "I would never do that!" he told me, furious. "I would find it adorable if you had bath snacks!"

Since then, every time I try to have a bath (which I only do as a rare treat) after about ten minutes there has been an anxious scrabbling at the bathroom door.

"Elanor!" he says. "Do you have bath snacks? Do you need anything?"

My answer is irrelevant. He brings me wine and poptarts. Now I have bath snacks. I'm a bath snacks person. Last time he was literally sleeping on the sofa when I went for the bath. Somehow this still happened. I now have an eager bathroom butler. How did this happen. I have never been so decadent yet bewildered.

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1-Bowl Pumpkin Coffee Cake (Vegan + GF)

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Chai tea bag + lil but of brown sugar + apple cider packet + 16 oz. mug of hot but not quite boiling water

it will not Fix You but like. maybe. maybe.

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#Oh she gagged them, thank you Saoirse <3

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ANNE HATHAWAY

for Vogue France

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first step to living a better life is believe you deserve it. you deserve good things. i promise.

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happy hallowing you can take TWO pieces

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I forgot to post these yesterday but…

A little while ago, Nomada studio asked me if I wanted to do a poster for their newest game Neva. I had seen Gris a few years ago and thought it was an absolutely gorgeous game. When they showed me the art and the trailer for Neva I was charmed. Unfortunately, for some reason I couldn’t do one poster. I kept having idea and ideas and then more ideas. That’s just how excited I was by the work they showed me. So, rather than doing one polished image I did a bunch of sketches. They picked one, I think mostly to make me happy, but here are some of the others I really liked.

It’s rare that I get excited about a game coming out. But I can’t wait to play this one.

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This is the best idea in the history of film.

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I am OBSESSED with people telling me how they met the love of their life. Just found out my director met his wife through a misdirected email - that’s fate right there.