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Letting go and what it actually is.

Everyone takes letting go too far. It is a simple thing. It does not require any effort. The purpose of letting go is not to make you forget about everything that you want or acting like you have it already even when you don't believe it.

It is a reminder. It is a reminder of your true self. That you will experience your desires because that's how reality works. That you can do whatever you want and not worry because reality passes through you and you experience it with what you choose. It's supposed to be a easy. Because it is easy. There is nothing you need to do to let go except the thing that you want to do.

Here's what it's not:

You're not supposed to forget about your desire.

You're not supposed to stop scripting for your DR (or anything dr related).

You're not supposed to stop and 'move on' from your desire.

You're not supposed to force the flow of your thoughts towards already having it.

You're not supposed to distract yourself whenever the thought of your desire arises.

You're not supposed to do a million methods and breathe thinking that 'I let it go now' only to spiral into 'no I didn't' again.

Here's what it is:

Whatever you want it to be.

Doing whatever the fuck you want to do and not judging yourself for it (Includes having doubts, spiralling, feeling whatever you want and any 'negative' thing you can think of).

That's it. That's what letting go actually is. It's just trusting yourself and if you think that it's not that then you don't know enough about how our realities work. How we work. This is why I keep on telling y'all to educate yourself properly regarding shifting and everything that it is. This is literally it. Your doubts, feelings and everything physical is unrelated to shifting. You will shift regardless.

"How do I trust myself then?" You ask me looking so stupid because how the fuck am I supposed to know that I'm not you. You know yourself best. Bloggers cannot help with everything, I'm just sitting behind a screen showing you the map, you have to walk it yourself. Only YOU can change yourself and only YOU know yourself enough to change.

If you want to think about your desire 24/7 do it. If you want to daydreaming thinking about your dr do it. Want to script for 10 hours? Go get some coffee. Want to rant how annoying everyone in your cr is while changing your assumptions about them? Go off slay or whatever. Spiraled again? Doesn't matter keep doing that until you stop naturally. Let yourself breathe and exist and feel.

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you can manifest anything in days, hours, even seconds.

you ever think about how you’re shifting realities right now? you just did it. again. and again. and. boom. there it goes. you’re not stuck in one solid, concrete world. you’re a flipbook of possibilities, and every second, a new page turns. the you reading this isn’t the you from five seconds ago. that version of you is gone. poof. never to return. god, i miss her.

so, why do people think manifestation takes time? time is just the illusion that makes reality feel digestible to our little human brains. but you don’t "wait" for things. you shift to them.

LOA isn’t about "forcing reality" like you’re wrestling fate to the ground. it’s about assuming you’re already in the reality where your desire exists. because the multiverse is infinite. every possibility is real somewhere. you’re not "creating" your dream life. you’re just moving to the timeline where it’s already true.

you can literally manifest in milli-seconds. the second you assume something is true, you land in the reality where it’s true. the only reason it sometimes feels "slow" is because you keep doubting it, wobbling between frequencies like a radio that’s not quite locked in.

for example, you want your dream body? kewl. shift to the parallel reality where you already have it. no, i don’t mean work out for six months and hope for the best. i mean assume, right now, that you have it, and live as though you do. time is fake, and you don't need it. your cells aren’t checking their watches. you can wake up in two hours with the body you’ve always wanted, because why not? that timeline exists. people have done it. the only thing between you and that reality is the idea that it’s "too unrealistic."

and what’s more unrealistic? the concept of shifting infinite times per second through an ever-expanding multiverse of possibility, or the idea that one of those infinite realities just so happens to contain the exact thing you want and all you have to do is land in it?

anyways. "shifting" and "manifesting" aren’t two different things. they’re just two perspectives on the same mechanism. you shift every second, every moment, all the time. and manifestation is just deliberate shifting. picking the station instead of letting the static choose for you.

so, no more "waiting." no more "how long will it take?" because it’s already happened. the moment you say this is my reality now. congrats. you just shifted.

　　　. . . you can read more about this here <3

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on the death of summer and baptismal promises.

“ HOUSE OF MAEGYR… FLAMES OF THE FIRST DAY. ”

MANY CENTURIES BEFORE . . . the house of maegyr were the greatest allies of the targaryens.

the people weren't surprised to see a maegyr with a targaryen, the nobles who ruled by their side from the start. every decision the targaryen made was known first at the maegyrs, their best friends, sometimes lovers, and all time councillors. after all: every dragon needs its creator.

the creation of the maegyr family was told as a lullaby to the kids, which went to sleep thinking of the miracles that came to earth, while century after century the adults came to the conclusion that the story was not real, used from the family to make their enemies afraid. directly created by the gods from the sand and ashes of the fourteen fires, in the old valyria, it was narrated that the maegyrs had the volcano fire instead of blood.

inside them, the women had eggs whom, hatched from their own volcano—blood, came dragons, their fire breath possible because of them. thankful to the family who helped them after their creation, the creatures were given to the targaryens, and since then the relationships of centuries was created.

everything changed with the dance of the dragons, a war that not only divided the targaryens, who fighted for the iron throne, but also the relationships that each targaryen had with each maegyr. betrayals and deaths happened so often that both families started to lose their sanity and, with the loss of so many dragons, the maegyrs felt like all their kids were given to the wrong people. when the maegyrs family made the drastic decision to end their lifetime alliance with the silver haired family, less and less dragons were seen to roam the skies.

LYSAENA MAEGYR’s father promised to AERYS TARGARYEN II that his first daughter would be given as bride to his second son, VISERYS. and so, before the rebellion, a path in order to try to reconcile the two families was done. years later the rebellion, lysaena maegyr was send to pentos in order to marry viserys targaryen — because even without a throne, a pact made with the blood of a maegyr couldn’t be broke. even if that resulted as making her a traitor in the eyes of robert baratheon.

THE TITLES.

i. LADY OF THE LAST DRAGON . . . her first title was given to her as soon as viserys targaryen, second son of the mad king, pronounced his vote. lysaena couldn't understand how viserys was awful to his younger sister, daenerys — same age as her, but at the same time seemed so sweet to her. at least, in private. many things happened after their marriage. three months later, daenerys married khal drogo, and lysaena had to say goodbye to the comfort of her bedroom, to follow the dothraki. all because her husband wanted an army. but at least — lysaena and daenerys became very close friends.

ii. BLACK WIDOW OF ESSOS . . . many things happened, after the marriage between daenerys and khal drogo. viserys could have been a sweet man in their chambers, but he went mad. it didn’t matter if she felt affection for him, she knew that daenerys make the right decision killing him. now, in essos there was a widow who mourned what her husband could have been, and the queen she could have been… one day. in black robes, and with her red hair, she became noticeable at a very first look.

iii. BLOOD OF FOURTEEN FIRES . . . when daenerys dreamt about hatching her dragon eggs, she also dreamt about lysaena. she was the key. her blood; daenerys of course knew about the long alliance between targaryens and maegyrs: she knew she had to keep lysaena close to her. after khal drogo's death, daenerys told lysaena about her dream, and lysaena knew she could trust her. so, with her volcano—blood, lysaena bleed on the dragons, and daenerys entered the fire. and the morning after, daenerys was holding three dragons.

iv. MISTRESS OF SHADOWS . . . after their dragons were born, lysaena started having weird things happening to her. her shadows under the sun seemed to moved by their own or maybe it was just the sun making her hallucinating and, after a while, she understood that using her volcano–fire to hatch dragons along daenerys, made her unlock an ancient magic that only some of her ancestors could use. she could control shadows and darkness.

v. THE VEILED HAND . . . lysaena knew that daenerys was the true queen. they promised to each other to protect, attack, and save the other in any occasion. they both promised to serve the other. lysaena, after unlocking her powers, could only touch daenerys: was because she was the unburnt? her volcano–blood seemed to hurt people. now, her hands were veiled… and that became her new title during daenerys’ campaign against slavery. helping her queen to liberate innocents.

vi. THE DRAGON’S HEART . . . conquest after conquest, city after city, and victory after victory; everyone around them had noticed the affection between the two ladies. daenerys valued lysaena as much as her dragons — who seemed to look at lysaena as a second mother. lysaena’s was daenerys’ sweetness, and if the queen was laughing, it was definitely because of lysaena. the two were in love; and, while reigning on meereen, queen daenerys announced her soon marriage with lady lysaena.

vii. RED DAWN . . . now queen consort, lysaena, with her bright hair, seemed to be a synonym for a new start. a new day. a new era. along side her wife, daenerys, lysaena targaryen was ready to inspire people, protect them, and take the iron throne for her wife. now, daenerys’ people were her people too. and her people treated her like a queen, loving her and looking at her for hopes, for a greater future.

ix. THE CONQUERORS . . . the silver lady and the fire, next to each other, with the three dragons above them, were capable to make the strongest man shake in their boots. every city they wanted was theirs, the strategies they made worked every time. in the end, the iron throne seemed to shine for lysaena’s wife, and the prince who was promised sat there, after the liberation of king’s landing by a tyrant — cersei lannister. next to her, the queen consort sat with her bright red hair, their three dragons roaring the sky.

it wasn’t a surprise to anyone when daenerys targaryen asked for a second throne next to hers, for her queen.

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things I've changed about the world in my dr

☆ tr*mp, el*n musk and the like don't exist

☆ jkr isn't famous and the Harry Potter books were written by the absolute legend David Attenborough

☆ Andrew doesn't get snubbed by the grammys every bloody time

☆ all my favourite books were published pre 2012 so I can have them all in my dr when I first shift

☆ minimum wage around the world is £15p/h (or the currency equivalent) for adults

☆ low unemployment levels in every country

☆ the right people have power

☆ all health care is free (including gender affirming care)

☆ abortions are legal everywhere

☆ coleen hoover has never picked up a pen and started writing

☆ freddie mercury is still alive

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1 thessalonians 5:17

“pray without ceasing”

-angel🩶

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mark 11:24

“therefore i say to you, whatever things you ask when you pray, believe that you receive them, and you will have them”

-angel🩶

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mark 11:24

“therefore i say to you, whatever things you ask when you pray, believe that you receive them, and you will have them”

-angel🩶

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james 1:3

“knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience”

-angel🩶

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isaiah 40:31

“but those who wait on the lord will renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles, they shall run and not be weary, they shall walk and not faint”

-angel🩶

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daily bible verses!

- 22/01/25

- 23/01/25

- 24/01/25

- 25/01/25

- 26/01/25

- 27/01/25

- 28/01/25

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romans 10:17

“so then faith comes by hearing, and hearing the word of god”

-angel🩶

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Me everyday ♡

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୨HOW TO FEEL CONNECTED TO YOUR DR୧

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❥make bingo cards of things you want to/need to do in your dr

❥go for a walk and take pictures of places/things that remind you of your dr

❥make playlists that remind you of your dr, make one for your s/o

❥write daily journal entries as your dr self

❥make yourself look like your dr self (hair, makeup, clothes)

❥make your dr selfs social media profiles (twinote)

❥imagine fake scenarios about your dr

❥design places that are in your dr (minecraft, rooms.xyz, sims)

❥watch storytimes of other people shifting to your drs

❥make your dr friends into a character.ai bot

❥make a pinterest board for your dr

❥answer questions about your dr self (you can find them on tiktok and pinterest)

❥draw/make picrews of your dr self and friends

❥make up a new holiday and script it into your dr (celebrate it in your cr)

❥walk in your dr city in google maps or watch youtube videos of people walking around your dr city

❥pretend to be your dr self while doing everyday things

❥write down what your dr self would do in a day and follow that schedule in your cr

❥watch videos of famous people getting interviewed and answer the same questions as your fame dr self

❥make a collage about your dr self (face claim, hair claim, body claim, hand claim, pets, room, house, style, general vibe)

❥make moodboards for your drs/people in your drs

❥write love letters to your s/o

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— 𝑴𝑨𝑻𝑻𝑺𝑳𝑶𝑳𝑰𝑻𝑨 '𝑺 𝑴𝑨𝑺𝑻𝑬𝑹𝑳𝑰𝑺𝑻 💌 .

"𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒌𝒏𝒐𝒘 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒄𝒂𝒏'𝒕 𝒄𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒓𝒐𝒍 𝒎𝒆 𝒃𝒂𝒃𝒚, 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒏𝒆𝒆𝒅 𝒂 𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒍 𝒐𝒏𝒆 𝒊𝒏 𝒚𝒂 𝒍𝒊𝒇𝒆,

CHRIS STURNIOLO MASTERLIST 💌

MATT STURNIOLO MASTERLIST 💌

NICK STURNIOLO MASTERLIST 💌

⋆౨ৎ˚⟡˖ ࣪⋆౨ৎ˚⟡˖ ࣪⋆౨ৎ˚⟡˖ ࣪⋆౨ৎ˚⟡˖ ࣪⋆౨ৎ˚⟡˖ ࣪⋆౨ৎ˚⟡˖ ࣪⋆౨ৎ˚⟡˖ ࣪⋆౨ৎ˚⟡˖ ࣪⋆౨ৎ˚⟡˖ ࣪

STURNIOLO EXTRAS MASTERLIST 💌

𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒎 𝒃𝒊𝒕𝒄𝒉𝒆𝒔 𝒂𝒊𝒏'𝒕 𝒈𝒐𝒏 𝒈𝒊𝒗𝒆 𝒊𝒕 𝒕𝒐 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒓𝒊𝒈𝒉𝒕."

— 𝑴𝑨𝑻𝑻𝑺𝑳𝑶𝑳𝑰𝑻𝑨 𝑺𝑰𝑮𝑵𝑰𝑵𝑮 𝑶𝑭𝑭 !💌

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HOW TO CHANNEL SOMEONE

{or channel memories from your dr/people/higher self}

Channeling is connecting with someone’s energy or consciousness, allowing you to receive memories, messages, or answers.

There's a lot of ways to channel someone but I'm going to go through couple of them;

Methods: meditation and visualization/automatic writing/channeling through dreams/using a necklace or a pendulum

{a little tip}

Relax and trust the process. Often, memories and answers will come to you naturally when you're not actively trying to force them. Pay attention to sudden thoughts, feelings, or deja vu moments—they might be glimpses from your DR. Be patient.

1. MEDITATION AND VISUALIZATION

Sit or lie down in a quiet space.

Close your eyes and visualize any place you want.

Picture the person from your DR you want to connect with. Imagine their presence vividly, including their voice, appearance, and energy. Or if you want to channel your higher self you can simple ask.

In your mind or outloud, ask them to share a memory or whatever you want.

2. AUTOMATIC WRITING

Grab a pen and notebook or you can use your phone/anything you can write on.

Quiet your mind and think of the person you want to channel.

Set the intention: “I invite [Name] to share their memories with me/answer my questions”

Begin writing whatever comes to mind, without overthinking.

3. CHANNELING THROUGH DREAMS

Before bed, set the intention to meet the person in your dreams and ask for whatever you want.

Visualize the person clearly as you fall asleep, focusing on their energy and presence. Or ask a question for specific person/higher self.

{tip; set the intention to remember the dream vividly or keep something you can write it in as soon as you wake up}

4. CHANNELING WITH NECKLACE OR PENDULUM

{remember: necklace must have some kind of pendant on it}

Cleanse the tool: Run it under water, pass it through incense smoke, or visualize white light surrounding it {OPTIONAL}

Sit in a quiet space and relax. Set your intention: Hold the necklace or pendulum and say, “I call [Name] to connect with me”

Determined the movements example: back and fourth=yes. Side to side=no. Circle= maybe.

{you can write it on a paper and put it under it as your channel}

Begin channeling, and if you want to make sure it your person ask questions they will know to answer to.

You can even put a keyboard under it and have it move towards the letters as it makes a sentence.

At the end you can say goodbye.

LITTLE ADD: HOW I PERSONALLY CHANNEL AND CONNECT TO PEOPLE FROM MY DR EVERYDAY

{tips; you can make sure the pendant on your necklace is heavy enough/be in a room with no wind/ put your elbows on a hard surface as you do this to keep your hand steady/trust that connection will guide your hand.}

SOME AFFIRMATIONS YOU CAN SAY:

SAFETY

1. My boundaries are strong, and only safe connections are allowed in my space.

2. The universe (God or whoever you believe in) supports and protects me at all times.

3. Only energies that align with my highest good can reach me.

4. I am grounded, centered, and completely safe.

CHANNELLING

1. I easily connect with [Name] from and receive.

2. I am open to communication with [Name], and it flows effortlessly.

3. I am fully aligned with [Name] and those within it.

4. Memories from my DR flow to me naturally and effortlessly.

Focus on the people you want; their energy, your relationship, scenarios... and basically relax and set the intention or ask them to be present in your cr by sending your messages/signs or whatever you want. I keep this connection open and they are welcomed every day to send me messages.

A little warning:

Don't let this take over your shifting journey; remember shifting and experiencing it first hand is much better then just having memories or talking to people from your dr. Yes this can be great motivation but don't let it take over.

This is not to scare you but to warn you and remind you of what can you really have:)

<3

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lady aphrodite areia the warlike , goddess of love and beauty .

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✧ the elle woods study method: mindset makeover & foundation building ✧

hey lovelies! 💗

omg, i'm literally bursting with excitement to start this transformative series with you all! we're going to dive deep into actually studying like elle woods, and all her study methods. it's going to change your academic life. (while keeping you fabulous, obviously!)

let's start with the most crucial element - the elle woods mindset. you know how elle went from being underestimated at harvard to graduating with honors? that transformation began in her mind, and that's exactly where we're starting too!

the core principles of the elle woods mindset (get ready to take notes!):

unwavering self-belief: elle's iconic "what, like it's hard?" attitude wasn't just cute - it was crucial

authenticity as your superpower: your unique perspective is your strength

resilience through positivity: turning every "you can't" into "watch me"

strategic determination: working smarter, not just harder

maintaining your essence: success shouldn't mean losing yourself

let me break down how to actually build this mindset (because theory without practice is like a perfect outfit without accessories - incomplete!):

mindset foundation building: • start a daily confidence journal (pink, obviously!) • write three daily affirmations • document your wins, no matter how small • reflect on challenges and how you overcame them

goal setting the elle way: • dream big (harvard law big!) • break down major goals into mini-milestones • create realistic timelines • identify potential obstacles and plan solutions • celebrate every achievement (even the tiny ones!)

your personal success toolkit: • a dedicated study planner (color-coded, elle would approve) • positive affirmation cards • vision board (mix academic and personal goals) • progress tracking system • reward system for reaching milestones

practical assignments for this week:

yes, i'm giving you all homework, because what's a lesson without doing homework? <3

mindset makeover tasks: • create your confidence corner (a designated study space that makes you feel powerful) • write your personal academic manifesto • identify and challenge three limiting beliefs • create a morning power routine

organization prep: • get your study essentials (cute but functional!) • set up your planning system • create a semester overview • design your ideal weekly schedule

community building: • find your study buddies (your personal warner hunting club, but for academics!) • join study groups • set up accountability partnerships • create a support system

elle's journey wasn't about memorizing legal terms - it was about believing she belonged in those hallowed halls while wearing her signature pink. you deserve to feel that same confidence in your academic journey. <3

advanced tips for the overachievers (because why not be extra?):

record yourself giving pep talks for tough days

create a study aesthetic that energizes you

develop personal success rituals

build a playlist that makes you feel powerful

photograph your progress for motivation

coming up in this series:

time management secrets

memory techniques that actually work

note-taking methods that slay

exam preparation strategies

self-care routines for academic success

group study dynamics

presentation skills

stress management

celebration strategies

and more of course <3

remember: elle woods didn't just survive harvard - she thrived while being unapologetically herself. that's our goal too! you're not just going to study better; you're going to build an academic approach that celebrates who you are.

homework time (but make it fun):

create your academic vision board

write your semester goals

design your ideal study schedule

set up your success tracking system

prepare your study space

xoxo, mindy

p.s. don't forget to reblog and follow for the complete series! we're building our own little academic sorority here! <3