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You have options. I promise you, you have options. Even if you blow up your whole life, change your name and train hop half way across the country- you still have options. So long as you are alive you have choices and chances. If you can’t see them, ask someone else. Ask a stranger or someone who loves you. Anyone not in your situation will have different a perspective. Stay safe and stay alive.

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they don’t tell you this but you can take steps to improve your life all the time. even when you’re feeling absolutely miserable. even when it doesn’t pay off immediately. do you guys know about this

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airplane tickets should be free if you have internet friends you reaaaaaaally want to hang out with

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Save me warm toned lit windows of tenement blocks on a winters evening save me

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is it rude to read pornographic fanfiction at the dinner table?

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northern hemisphere babes we made it to the longest night of the year. we made it. for the next 6 months, every day will give us a little more daylight than the last. let's go. take my hand. climb out of the darkness with me

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my advice to women: scream more, wreak havoc, be ugly and gross, use the sword emojis

my advice to men: develop a sense of shame

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i’m not aromantic but i believe in their beliefs

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five recipes for an exciting life (in my opinion)

spending enough time creating things with your hands (baking, drawing, scrapbooking, doodling, crocheting, journaling and so on)

keeping track of things like pretty skies, milestones, happy memories, appointments you're looking forward to

listening to music that genuinely makes you feel happy and energetic

making a habit of reaching out to people in a way that's comfortable to you (i send my dad songs he might like, my friend sends me monthly life updates)

being kind to all your five senses → like investing in a scented candle or essential oil dispenser or body mist, having a soft blanket or socks (or a soft animal to pet), listening to birdsong or the rain, looking at the sky more often, and having your favorite foods enough times

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angling myself away from people so that they don’t look at my phone screen and see me writing 4 paragraphs about my feelings on my notes app

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you ever wake up from a dream amd immediately think "well that was a bit heavyhanded"

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how have you been?

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i feel like a sick dog that just needs to be put down out back and it’s so annoying and embarrassing

i think everyone should breakup and the desire for casual physical affection should end in my head and heart and the yearn for domesticity should go away

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i think everyone should breakup and the desire for casual physical affection should end in my head and heart and the yearn for domesticity should go away