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men want what butches have

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shout out to hairy dykes. dykes with a bush, dykes with hairy armpits, dykes with a happy trail. shout out to dykes with a happy trail and uhhh yeah dykes with happy trails. shout out to butches with happy trails and

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there's no shame in continuing to live with your parents as an adult, but it does have an undeniable poisoning effect on your brain that you can't start healing until you live somewhere else

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how do you be butch while living with your parents holy shit!!! i tried posting this on the butchlesbians sub reddit but it kept getting removed </3

anyways, i'm currently still living at home. i came out to my parents as a lesbian three years ago (which they were supportive of), but i realized earlier this year that I felt a strong attachment to the 'butch' label.

I cut my hair to about chin length in march this year but i'm wanting to go shorter (wanted to have a slightly grown out buzz) but my mom told me that she "doesn't understand why I'd ever want to do that to myself" (meaning buzz my hair) and that she "wouldn't know how she'd look at me" if I did it. she's visibly uncomfortable when I wear/buy suit jackets (ever since I bought my first suit maybe 5 or 6 years ago), and she's uncomfortable when i buy men's clothes instead of women's clothes.

i'd love to hear other people's experiences and how they deal with family judgement.

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all lunch breaks should be paid im serious. im not even enjoying this im literally just making sure i dont pass out or something. this is part of The Job as far as im concerned

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wife lover, jeans, doc martens, belt, chain. outfit complete. never felt hotter

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Lesbians should start using the battle axe, or “Labrys” as a symbol of empowerment again

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watching my femme get ready is such a privilege. waiting on her is such a privilege. i love asking her about what she likes, what makes her feel good. i’m mesmerized. i love pulling up fun questions on my phone and we chat while she’s getting ready. or maybe i just stare at her in silence, or secretly take photos/record her because i just want to capture this moment forever

femmes, please always take your time. it doesn’t matter if we’re late. hell, we don’t even have to go. i just want to be present with you

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whenever I see a man with a carabiner my brain kind of goes off with “whys that man tryna look like a butch for?” like that’s not for you??

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noooo dont tug on my carabiner that's an erogenous zone

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“[k.d. lang] is a woman who was clearly born to perform.”

“Not that you’d necessarily know she’s a woman at first sight. Tall and broad-shouldered, wearing a black cutaway coat flecked with gold, black pants, and her favorite steel-toed black rubber shitkicker work boots, she looks more like a cowboy. Her glossy dark hair is full but short, and when she tosses her head and strides across the stage on those long, strong legs, you suddenly realize she’s moving with a kind of physical freedom you’ve never seen a female singer display onstage before.” (Leslie Bennetts, 1993)

[VANITY FAIR, AUGUST 1ST 1993]

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nothings more butch than a pair of boots ☆

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Gay men's dyke appreciation. 2006

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"lesbians for a free Palestine"

downtown Ottawa, Ontario, Canada