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Quick note for anyone viewing my blog:

Read my dni before you reblog anything. It’s important to me that you respect my boundaries and I respect yours. Yes, this is aimed at a specific person, however this is also for anyone who’ll reblog my terms and such in the future. If I have you on my dni, it means dni, it doesn’t mean pretend it doesn’t exist + if you’re going to be using my terms I feel like it’s common decency to read it y’know? (Also a note: Mspec lesbians/gays and lesboys/turigirls and their supporters are allowed to interact with me and my blog as long as you are respectful. I do not support either of these terms, however I am willing to be friendly with you as long as you are with me. If you’re going to call names and attack me for my opinion, you can fuck off. If you’re gonna be nice you can stay.)

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Aquavincian

Aquavincian flag - a term for vincians who identify as aquatic otherkin!! 🫧 Maybe also be referred to as aquaticvincian!!  The flag for this term consists of various shades of blue and a white stripe in the middle containing a fish emoji. The fish represents all aquatic otherkin, not just fish - this ranges from sharks to starfish to squids etc. A term for anyone who identifies as a creature living under the sea, including fictional creatures!! 🌊 Please note that this term is not to be used by mspec gays or turigirls, as I as the coiner am against these labels, and would prefer it if people who used them did not use my terms. However, this term includes anyone else who identifies as vincian, including non-binary vincians and aroace vincians!! It is also open for all people who identify as nwlnw/mlm/nblm be it cintheans, gays, etc!! 🐟 (This term is open for flag variations, and variations for other identities!!)

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Shamooedgender

Shamooedgender - a xenogender relating to shampooed cows!! 🐮 (sham-mood-gender) The flag for this xenogender is made up of three brown stripes and three blue stripes variating in shade, and a white stripe. In the middle of the flag is a white shape that resembles a cow print. 🐄 Flag and term coined by me and free to use!! 💖

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Sea Lion Uranic

A sea lion uranic is a uranic person who prefers hugs, cuddles, kisses, and other affectionate and even sensual non-sexual acts over sexual acts. The other variations of this term that others have coined are bambi lesbian, bunny gay, fox pan, rat ace, squirrel bi, and poodle moth neptunic.

Coined by: @arcticflowerz

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I'm not sure how to ask this but can you coin a gender related to pink skulls, demonic horns and masculinity?

SKULLDEMASCIX

(skull-dee-mask-icks)

A gender relating to pink skulls, demonic horns, and masculinity.

[IMAGE ID START] A flag with 11 stripes. The first stripe is a dark maroon color, followed by a thinner stripe that is dark purple. Next, there is a light pink stripe, followed by a lighter purple stripe. Then, there is a blue grey stripe, followed by the thinnest, center stripe, which is light blue. The stripes then repeat in this order ; grey blue, light purple, light pink, dark purple, and finally dark maroon. In the center of the flag, there is a dark purple skull with horns. [END ID]

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Feel like this needs to be said:

mI normally wouldn’t engage with this but: If you are a transmedicialist, that is your opinion. Do I agree with your opinion? No, I think you are very wrong, and honestly pretty hateful. But it’s your viewpoint. That’s how YOU feel. Since it may harm others, you’d think that maybe you should keep that opinion to your side of the internet and not harass people who disagree, right? I don’t like Helluva Boss. I think it’s badly written and needs a lot of work. But I’m not going to go tell other people that they can’t like it. I’m not going to tell people it’s a bad show. That’s just my opinion, it’s not objectively right or wrong, so should not be treated as a fact. So why do you feel that your opinions on non-binary/neopronoun/xenogender individuals should be spread throughout the internet? Why do you walk into spaces made for these people of your own will and harass them? Why do you go and tell random people that their identity does not exist just because you don’t believe in it? If someone did that to you, you’d be screaming transphobia, but if you do it to us, it’s perfectly okay? Double standards and hypocrisy.  And I don’t want to hear any “but xenogenders make the trans community look bad!!”. What do you think makes a community look worse? Primarily neurodivergent people exploring their identities and finding terms that make them feel happy? Or people blindly attacking members of their own community just because of something they can’t be bothered to educate themselves on? Exactly. You are the problem, not us. Xenogenders and neopronouns are not the problem, the problem is that people cannot be bothered to put themselves in someone else’s shoes even for one second. The problem is that people are not willing to accept anyone who is different. The problem is that people are not willing to educate themselves. This is something transgender people suffer from on a daily basis, cis people being unwilling to understand them and their identities. Being unwilling to learn and deciding to blindly discriminate. Transmeds, surely you think cis people discriminating against you just because they can’t be bothered to put in the tiniest amount of effort to understand you is wrong, right? So why do you do the exact same thing to xenogender and neopronoun users? Mic drop.

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Ace’s DNI + IWC + BYI

DNI LIST: - Basic DNI criteria eg. racist, homophobic, ableist etc. - TERF/SWERF - Transcum/transmed - Gender critical - Discourse accounts - Autism speaks supporter - Anti educated self-diagnosis/pro uneducated self-diagnosis - Endogenic “system”, pro-endo or neutral - Anti-kin - People who gatekeep interests (eg “you can’t like the same music as me”) - Political or religious extremist - Proship/anti anti - Nsfw account - Anti xenogender/neopronouns - Refuse to use tone tags/indicators (unless unable) - Allo cishets - Under 13s And anyone who is only interacting with the intent to cause unnecessary drama. IWC LIST: - Dsmp enjoyers - JoJo’s Bizarre Adventure enjoyers - Little Nightmares enjoyers - Humans - Neurotypicals - Cisgender people - Straight people - Under 14s I am not going to be removing anything from my DNI or IWC. If you are offended by either of these lists, so be it, there are people who will be comfortable with you, and people who are not. I am one of those people who is not. Please respect that! BEFORE YOU INTERACT: - I am autistic and may require tone tags in order to understand your message - I am a minor (17 in january 2023) - I suffer from intense gender dysphoria - please be considerate - I have multiple special interests, including splatoon. This particular special interest is a big part of who I am, so if you are not comfortable with players of the series, I would recommend that you don’t interact - I kin from media such as Splatoon, Genshin Impact and CRK. Same point as above. - I am uninterested in engaging with LGBTQ+/MOGAI discourse. Please do not attempt to bring me into such topics. If I feel the need to speak on them, I will of my own accord. - I suffer from motivation and memory issues - if you have asked me to do something and I either don’t see, or haven’t done it yet, please wait at least 24 hours before giving me a gentle reminder. Thank you!

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Hello! I've made a google document template, which I believe will be helpful to gender hoarders.

Consider taking a look! I'm planning on making templates for lists such as pronoun hoards, so bare with me. I'll get around to it, lol!

https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vtA1ShwCTuhMWazq3q0vrdefWDuNGaKIcvAHT9nLY8w/edit?usp=drivesdk

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Who am I?

Hello! You can call me Ace, Arlo, Void or any other name that I use. I am a neurodivergent otherkin gendervoid xenoaltflux trans man who is pronounfluid. I am not massively active on tumblr at all, and mainly have an account to allow me to view xenogender-related posts without getting annoying “please log in” messages - however I may use this blog very rarely. Thank you.