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Its frustrating when non-horror people come into horror spaces and ask why we like violence and watching people suffer and sexism and all other manner of moral hand-wringing, but i also find it frustrating when horror fans (myself included) attempt to sincerely engage with these questions. Like 9 times out of 10 the question is either being asked in bad faith, or the asker is genuinely confused, and neither of those types of people are prepared for a proper answer about how horror reflects the cultural landscape or the complex relationships between the genre and gender and race etc and they definitely aren't ready to hear about the real facet of sexuality and eroticism in basically all horror media

horror is an easy target for pearl clutching but you can subject pretty much any genre to the same criticism if you frame it poorly enough. Oh you like romance movies? So you enjoy watching men stalk women and violate their boundaries? You think cheating is okay? You think its cool when women give up their careers to get married? I dont like or watch romance movies but based off my limited understanding thats what they're all like, etc

i think we need to just start responding to bad faith questions about horror with "yeah i thought it was awesome when The Killer fed all those teenagers into a wood chipper"

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Welcome to Kinktober 2025!

As there wasn’t an official Kinktober prompt list last year, we’ve put together an unofficial one for 2025, along with an AO3 collection. The graphics were all made by @latte-cucumber, and she's also made a banner that you’re welcome to use for your Tumblr Kinktober posts:

More information

Kinktober is an October prompt challenge that’s been running in one form or another since 2016. There are three prompts for each day in October, and the challenge is to use one (or more!) of the prompts to create something for that day. If you don’t want to use any of the three daily prompts, you can swap them out for the bonus prompts at the bottom of the prompt list.

Our askbox is open for questions about how the challenge works or what the prompts mean.

Prompts

Masturbation – Orgasm Control – Incest

Coming Untouched – Ageplay – Kidnapping

Threesome – Nipple Clamps – Alien Abduction

Voyeurism – Sounding – Hypnosis

Finger Sucking – Wax Play – Dacryphilia

Outdoor Sex – Humiliation – Intoxication

Blindfolds – Chastity – Bloodplay

Webcam – Figging – Cages

Exhibitionism – Shibari – Tentacles

Oral Sex – Punishment – Consensual Non-Consent

Come Licking – Handcuffs – Somnophilia

Sex Work – Kneeling – Sissification

Dildos – Dom Bottom/Sub Top – Medical Play

Omegaverse – Possessive Sex – Choking/Gagging

Semi-Public – Object Insertion – Sex Pollen

Remote Control – High Protocol – Fire Play

Messy Sex – Service Kink – Anal Hooks

Size Queen – Dom/Sub – Genital Torture

Creampie – Sensory Deprivation – Electricity

Mirror Sex – Golden Shower – Dubcon

Rimming – Forced Orgasm – Monsterfucking

Quiet Sex – Crawling – Gunplay

Biting – Praise Kink – Enemas

Anal Sex – Gags – Noncon

Double Penetration – Impact Play – Pillory/Stocks

Lingerie – Cuckolding – Sex Robot

Hair Pulling – Animal Play – Gangbang

Multiple Orgasms – S&M – Needle Play

Body Worship – Omorashi – Full-Body Bondage

Breeding – Fucking Machine – Degradation

Hot Tub Sex – Foot Fetish – Writer’s Choice

Bonus prompts:

Aftercare

Fisting

Wall Sex

Sugar Baby

Uniform Kink

Free Use

Temporary/Permanent Marks

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Ffff Ive finished grimshire so now I'm on that awful vibe of having lost something I liked a lot and occupied all my time. Media orphaned 🫠😶

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We’ve all seen whumpees terrified of their trauma but what about the ones who are obsessed? Who would do anything to beat the shit out of their captors, to understand what happened, to make sense of how they got so fucked over? Every waking second of their day they go over that fateful day, the mistakes they made (or didn’t), searching for the people who hurt them, searching for understanding.

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dunno how apt I'd be to writing it but I've been thinking about the bandit on ollie's story and it would be interesting if meeting ollie made him start to gender question and realize that 'yk what i'm a she' as they run off into the night with a royal chasing them

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People fail to understand that this yaoi shit is life or death

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"I love you but you're doing wrong in a way I cannot condone" and "I hate you but you're being wronged in a way I cannot stomach" are top tier and I need more of them.

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DNI if you support: the enemy

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lot of people dont realize this but when theres a battle you can get all kinds of free shit from all the #deadbodies

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I think we need more power reversal in whump

Whumper in prison begging Whumpee to come see them so they can apologise. They’re genuinely sorry and disgusted with themselves for what they did. Does Whumpee just ignore their pleas? Taking joy in the fact Whumper is suffering? Does Whumpee decide to visit only to listen to Whumper beg and cry before mockingly saying ‘oh, you thought I was actually here to forgive you?’ before laughing the entire way out of the prison

Or does the kidnapper become the kidnapped? Does Whumpee lose faith in the justice system or did they never have any to begin with? Did Whumpee never press charges because they knew prison was too good for Whumper? Prison wouldnt be justice, it would be clemency compared to what they deserve. So Whumpee decides to take it into their hands, to make their own justice. Whumpee refuses to let Whumper destroy them

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Whumpee is able to provide a little too much information about Whumper during team meetings. Details that seem too personal to be dug out of research alone... the kind one would only know if they knew Whumper closely.

Team begin to suspect Whumpee is a traitor, a double agent. They stop listening to Whumpee's advice and suggestions during meetings because they think Whumpee is trying to trick them into one of Whumper's traps.

Now imagine the look on the Team's faces when they're captured because they didn't take the precautions Whumpee told them to.

Imagine the look on their faces when Whumper walks past all of them and goes straight to Whumpee because "It's so good to have you back, darling. I've missed you."

And Whumpee flinches.

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Yup returning to necromancy, I’m so back. And you’re so back, and you’re so back, and you’re so back, and you’re

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well consider me slapped by haru, good for him! anyone else feeling more feisty nowadays?

Luckily is probably a weak slap-

But yes it's been like two years (in real life) so I suppose they all aged a bit and had more time to do healing and moving on with their lives

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Tumblr 2021: he is SO soppinf wet, my scrimpy little fiction boy

Tumblr 2025: sodomizing and spanking that man #TheCharacter

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not the og anon but i agree haru could use a good slap

Get off anon farlan

He also thinks you could use one. Slap contest :)

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Ok perfect, then yes I’d punch him

I see so you wouldn't punch a little guy on his birthday. Very well, that's fair!

Haru now: