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Merry Christmas, I’m still gay.

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merry christmas to my lgbt+ family who are having a good christmas, merry christmas to my lgbt+ family who may not be having a good holiday because their blood doesn’t accept them or maybe they’re not out yet, merry christmas to closeted lgbt+ and homeless lgbt+ and lgbt+ under going any persecution right now from any one because of who they are. you always have family within the community. everyone stay safe this holiday, sending good vibes and positivity to everyone in my lgbt+ family

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⛄˚*•̩̩͙✩•̩̩͙*˚MERRY CHRISTMAS EVERYONE!!˚*•̩̩͙✩•̩̩͙*˚⛄

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merry christmas to everyone who didn’t get presents today because their family couldn’t afford it and merry christmas to everyone who couldn’t make it home for the holidays and merry christmas to everyone spending it alone i want you all to know that i hope you all have a great great end of the year and i love you all and even if your holidays weren’t how you pictured them i hope you still have a good rest of the holidays and year

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merry christmas to everyone who didn’t get presents today because their family couldn’t afford it and merry christmas to everyone who couldn’t make it home for the holidays and merry christmas to everyone spending it alone i want you all to know that i hope you all have a great great end of the year and i love you all and even if your holidays weren’t how you pictured them i hope you still have a good rest of the holidays and year

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It’s about that time of year. For anyone in the closet stay strong

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it’s okay if the holidays aren’t your favorite time of year. it’s okay if the cold makes you depressed, the parties make you anxious, and the food scares you. it’s okay if this time is about surviving and not celebrating. you’re not alone. we’ll get through this together.

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As the holidays approach and people are celebrating with their loved ones I want you to remeber that even if you are alone you are worthy of love and happiness.

If you don't have an S.O, or family, or friends to be close with this time of year take time to be close with yourself. Treat yourself with love, kindness, and respect.

You are not worth less when you are alone

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sending love and warmth to everyone feeling uncomfortable, upset, fatigued, lonely, ignored, hurt or lost today. whatever it is, it has no choice but to pass. in the meantime, it’s okay to not be the strong one for once.

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Me pretending to be straight around family during the holidays

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This is a support post for those who are not excited about Christmas:

You are not alone. 

Soon it will be over, and then life can resume back to normal.

Until then hang in there for me okay?

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if youre trans and getting misgendered/deadnamed by your family during holiday gatherings im giving you a hug over the internet rn

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It's ok not to like christmas. It's ok if you don't like your family. It's ok if you have no money for gifts. It's ok if you feel sad at christmas. It's ok if you're alone at christmas. It's ok to just get it over with or tell yourself it's just like any regular day. It will pass. Please stay safe ♡ Your safety is more important than a holliday.

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I wish every autistic person good luck during the holiday season. You don’t owe a hug to anyone. You don’t need to talk to everyone. It’s alright to find quieter and darker spaces if needed and if anybody gives you a hard time for showing your traits, it’s their problem and they need to be responsible. 

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good luck to anyone who struggles around the holidays. sending some love.

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Shoutout to everyone who’s closeted over the holidays

It’s really tough, but you can get through this! Try to still enjoy the season when you can!

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friendly reminder that it’s okay if you aren’t close to your family and it’s okay if being at home is hard for you and it’s okay if the closest people in your life aren’t related to you and it’s okay if holidays mean self-preservation tactics and it’s okay if you’re exhausted by the end of this day