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Somebody called out daddynobucks and others ... say he was a predator and a lot of women were hurt by him and it blew up into this huge mess. @trackabandoned can fill you in @pandemiclaughter

Lost

It’s always weird because I don’t regularly visit tumblr…. When out of the blue I do and as I scroll there’s obviously something that went down, but then i remember there isn’t always a straight flow to the timeline…so maybe it wasn’t too recent….and I know I’m lost and that’s understandable. It’s still good to see y'all, even if I don’t really even understand anything. Some days I miss y'all.

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please read this

If you are reading this I think I need to back off of this one for a while and just start new... really really new. there is just so much nastiness associated with this that I need to let everything go. If you find a new follower, it’s me. If not, send me a message so we can stay in contact

Thanks,

S

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Me too

ME TOO

Me, too.

If all the women who have been sexually harassed or assaulted wrote “Me, too” as a status, we might give people a sense of the magnitude of the problem.

Please copy/paste or reblog

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I was molested by my brother at 9 and it was hell for 20+ years. When he died it took me three years to sort out my feeling, truly grieve, and become whole and healed. I agree with everything @crazyisascrazydoes thank you for putting it in words

This idea that a misleading relationship and the resulting heartache being comparable to being a sexual assault or rape victim is absolutely outrageous. To call these men Bill Cosby and Harvey Weinstein is so fucking out of line. To insinuate getting over a broken heart and surviving sexual assault are one in the same is so repulsive I don’t even have the words. That’s the most demeaning thing I’ve ever heard and it’s things like that, that make it impossible for women to come together when it matters. You say something like that and I completely lose interest in your cause and just want to wait and see this all blow up in your fucking face. I have empathy for hearthache, I have empathy for the plight of the mistress, I even have empathy for the pain of being lied to by a man on the internet. I’ve been there and I get it. But I don’t have empathy for this attention seeking, over dramatized, distress call, rescue me from my pain bullshit. Grow up. I’ve been sexually assaulted and I’ve also been raped and there is no comparison. Not even close. This internet heartbreak is something you’re going to move past, it is not something that will infect your life forever, this isn’t something that will change the way you handle your dealings with the rest of the world and this isn’t something that will change the way you look at others and most importantly yourself. I am forever changed as a direct result of what happened, of what those men did to me. There is no recovery. There is not peace on the other side. There is no other fucking side. There is only slow and constant rebuilding. Was it brave to spill your guts on the internet about who hurt you? I guess. But don’t expect major credit from me. You are not a victim. You are a participant who was lied to by a liar and got hurt. That doesn’t make you a victim. Your open blogging doesn’t make you a survivor. This whole thing was taken so far I don’t even see the starting line anymore. If you’ve ever heard another woman say, “women are the worst.” This is what they’re talking about.

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This idea that a misleading relationship and the resulting heartache being comparable to being a sexual assault or rape victim is absolutely outrageous. To call these men Bill Cosby and Harvey Weinstein is so fucking out of line. To insinuate getting over a broken heart and surviving sexual assault are one in the same is so repulsive I don’t even have the words. That’s the most demeaning thing I’ve ever heard and it’s things like that, that make it impossible for women to come together when it matters. You say something like that and I completely lose interest in your cause and just want to wait and see this all blow up in your fucking face. I have empathy for hearthache, I have empathy for the plight of the mistress, I even have empathy for the pain of being lied to by a man on the internet. I’ve been there and I get it. But I don’t have empathy for this attention seeking, over dramatized, distress call, rescue me from my pain bullshit. Grow up. I’ve been sexually assaulted and I’ve also been raped and there is no comparison. Not even close. This internet heartbreak is something you’re going to move past, it is not something that will infect your life forever, this isn’t something that will change the way you handle your dealings with the rest of the world and this isn’t something that will change the way you look at others and most importantly yourself. I am forever changed as a direct result of what happened, of what those men did to me. There is no recovery. There is not peace on the other side. There is no other fucking side. There is only slow and constant rebuilding. Was it brave to spill your guts on the internet about who hurt you? I guess. But don’t expect major credit from me. You are not a victim. You are a participant who was lied to by a liar and got hurt. That doesn’t make you a victim. Your open blogging doesn’t make you a survivor. This whole thing was taken so far I don’t even see the starting line anymore. If you’ve ever heard another woman say, “women are the worst.” This is what they’re talking about.

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Is eddie gay when he fucked bev?

a true gay fashion icon

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“Maybe, he thought, there aren’t any such things as good friends or bad friends - maybe there are just friends, people who stand by you when you’re hurt and who help you feel not so lonely. Maybe they’re always worth being scared for, and hoping for, and living for. Maybe worth dying for too, if that’s what has to be. No good friends. No bad friends. Only people you want, need to be with; people who build their houses in your heart.”

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@italianguy617 anchor babies are fun

10/14/17

A childhood friend was deported Didn’t do a thing ‘cept be born in the wrong country Smuggled over before he could even speak The U.S. Is his home But the nation believes otherwise So he’s stuck outside the front door without a key Staring at a sign that says come back in seven years

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Pizzagate

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#forkem #asufootball #imarriedintothis (at Buffalo Wild Wings)

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If you can relate follow @introvertproblems

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60 lbs lost #vsg #vsgjourney #vsgcommunity #wls #wlscommunity #sleevers #junesleevers

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My moms cat died and hearing her cry on the phone officially broke me

God damn it

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This blog is Dedicated to anyone suffering from Anxiety! Please Follow Us if You Can Relate: ANXIETYPROBLEMS

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Art Framed in Reclaimed Wood by Faith Montgomery on Etsy