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You can forget that other people carry pieces of your own story around in their heads. I’ve always thought—put together all those random pieces form everyone who’s ever known you from your parents to the guy who once sat next to you on a bus, and you’d probably see a fuller version of your life than you even did while living it.
Deb Caletti, Stay (via observando)
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Spring is the time of plans and projects.
Leo Tolstoy (via sofinebyme)
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I have gotten one question repeatedly from young men. These are guys who liked the book, but they are honestly confused. They ask me why Melinda was so upset about being raped. The first dozen times I heard this, I was horrified. But I heard it over and over again. I realized that many young men are not being taught the impact that sexual assault has on a woman. They are inundated by sexual imagery in the media, and often come to the (incorrect) conclusion that having sex is not a big deal. This, no doubt, is why the number of sexual assaults is so high.
Laurie Halse Anderson, author of Speak, on the question “Have any readers ever asked questions that shocked you?”
Read that again. Read it again, and again, and again. Over and over guys have asked her why Melinda was so upset about being raped. This is a girl who went to a party with friends. She was thirteen. She had a drink, because everyone else was. And a senior held her down and raped her while she was too drunk to get away.
And guys don’t understand why she was upset.
Read that again and then come back and tell me again why I should just shut up and take a joke when a comedian blows off rape as a big deal, or women’s bodies are casually treated as commodities in media. Remind me why I shouldn’t care about the very real harm that society’s treatment of women and sexual assault does.
(via witchlingfumbles)
This honestly makes the befuddlement and dismissal of concerns about rape jokes make a lot more sense. No, really - men don’t see what the big deal is because they’ve never been made to understand what happens to someone when they’ve been raped, and they don’t care to listen to female survivors (in order to find out WHAT HAPPENS) because they’ve been taught that women are overemotional and hypersensitive.
This is why you start the conversation with your sons EARLY, and you repeat it OFTEN. Fail to do that, and you wind up…pretty much exactly where we are.
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No one is a slut. “Slut” is a made-up word to keep women from having as much fun as men. A person who enjoys sex is just a person and a person who is a virgin is also just a person and everyone should lay off each other’s sex lives. Retire the word “slut” please.
20 Things We Need To Stop Talking About In 2013 (via rorygilmoreintraining)
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