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Personal life vent.

I'm sort of friends with this guy who went 2 school with my older brother (they're 26), he's anti-porn and doesn't have Snapchat which is very important 2 me lol, and seems nice, but tbh I think he wants a relationship with me, he got me a perfume for Xmas which I turned down, but he insisted so I accepted. He's okay-looking and pleasant (from what I'm seeing you can never be 100% sure when it comes to men) And my parents and brother think he's a rly good guy and I should give him a chance, but I can't I feel like I'm not ready especially that at some point I would have 2 sleep with him which I find frightening. It has a lot to do with the fact that I don't trust men and I hate being vulnerable with Them also I have to be in love and I've never loved any man. for instance, I dated my ex in HS for a year and never let him have sex with me, we did everything but never had sex like we’d do dry humping a lot lmao 💀which I enjoyed I think? Idk I thought it was just okay. My reasoning was that I was too immature which evidently I was only 17, but even after I turned 18 and finished HS my second ex I wouldn't sleep with him we'd do other things, but he wanted to have sex and would get upset because I said no, I felt like I didn't know him very well, we had only been together for 5 months so I just broke the whole thing off, ofc he got upset that I was leading him on lmao. Even if I see an attractive guy, I would feel attracted 2 him sure, but irl wouldn't have sex with them. Because the feeling of them using me is so present therefore I wouldn't be able to enjoy it. Being in love is fundamental in order for me 2 share my body with a man, but will I ever find a man to fall in love with, if no then I wouldn't be able to have sex. I’ll talk to this guy as a friend, but at some point ik I’ll just cut him off I always do lol.

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Karen Mulder is a supermodel from the 1990s who publicly came out in 2001 and revealed the darker aspects of the modeling industry, describing it as a cesspool of exploitation. And modeling agencies as akin to pimps and spoke about the abuse she faced from powerful figures, including politicians, royals, and notably, the prince of Monaco. Her story got, unsurprisingly buried, and many used the fact that she suffers from a mental disorder (she has chronic depression and tried to commit suicide) as a way to discredit her and nothing came out of it unfortunately. Modeling is nothing but a high-class prostitution ring.

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Just learned that there’s a term in these degenerate bdsm relationships called CNC which means Consensual Non-Consent and I have no words. these men are so evil and demented, imagine being with a man who thinks you “pretending” to say no to a certain most likely painful sex act is sexy!!!!!! These male demons are rapists who hate women and the women obviously suffer from mental illness. I hate this world.

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BETTE DAVIS in That Certain Woman (1937) — dir. Edmund Goulding

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Some men expecting women/feminists to be the ones to advocate for "men's mental health" is so crazy to me because THEY'RE the reason mens' mental health is so awful😭 men are literally each others worst enemies yet for some reason we have to be the ones to advocate for them

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I'm gonna be honest a lot of people took the Karen trend or the idea of intersectional feminism and just used it as an excuse to recreate highschool level bullying/cattiness but aimed at random white girls

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In an exclusive statement shared with NBC News, Heard, who now lives in Spain, said: “Social media is the absolute personification of the classic saying ‘A lie travels halfway around the world before truth can get its boots on.’ I saw this firsthand and up close. It’s as horrifying as it is destructive.”

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++if u ever see a male talk abt how horrible these OF women and how half naked ig models are menaces 2 society its all lies all of it. These males every single one of them subscribe 2 these women's OF and follow them on their other accounts srsly never believe these males no matter how "conservative" actually the more a male is vocal abt hating only fans women the more likely he is 2 be subscribing 2 them that's why it's utter stupidity 2 see these insane women calling literal prostitution "a feminist act" bc males "don't like it" lmao bsfr not only the like it they luv it

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The popularization of only fans is the worst thing that happened 2 women since the wide spread of pornography because now every 18yo unknown (noncelebrity or influencer) woman thinks she can make bank out of doing OF which couldn't be further from the truth. I read abt this girl who was just a normal girl, not an influencer with a small following like 10k maybe, she started doing OF then freaked out and deleted her account great right? Well a weird man became obsessed with her and started stalking her and wouldn't leave her. This is the real raw truth about only fans, not the “I bought a house with OF” which is the literal 1% of actual women who do OF. It's literally prostitution and should be treated as such.

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Men love Only Fans, men love strip clubs, men love prostitution and men love promiscuous women no matter what BS they preach. 20-year-old Sophia Rain is an Only Fans influencer who made $43 million a year from the platform. Can you imagine earning $43 million in a year from only fans. And btw the men paying for it are your dads, boyfriends, husbands, brothers, teachers, professors. Men on Twitter and TikTok are complaining about those who buy OnlyFans subscriptions, calling them "simps," while the numbers suggest they might secretly be paying for it as well, lmao.

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You don't see many homeless women on the street because they're getting trafficked and raped. Hope that helps because u ppl are so dump with your “society cares more about women that's why the majority of the homeless are men” no it's because they're getting assaulted and pimped in motels that's why u don't see them.