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my pet mold spore

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The thing I’ve realized about self deprecation recently is that if someone is stuck in a hole and you want to help them get out it’s generally a bad idea to throw rocks at them and for years I was both the person stuck in the hole and one of the people throwing rocks

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Undoubtably one of the hardest pills to swallow in recovery is that just because you're traumatized and the way you cope and respond to things is valid or makes sense with what you've been through - really and truly doesn't mean you're "right" and also doesn't mean anyone has to put up with your behavior just because it makes sense to you or you "can't help it". Like I feel this has truly been the toughest thing I've had to face within myself the last 4 years but even though it's not my fault what happened to me growing up and no one can blame me for doing what I had to to survive those traumas DOES NOT mean they have to be forgiving of me or let shit slide.

I cannot even describe the freedom of realizing this because when you stop making excuses for your own bullshit, it gives you permission to stop making excuses for everyone else's too and I promise we all need that

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I deserve a gentle love after all the shit I’ve had to put up with

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hey don’t cry. spiro the bald eagle failing at catching a crab, okay?

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Source

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cats would be so fucking upset if they understood they were missing out on the ability to lie verbally

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you have to try again. okay ?

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does tumblr know about tim misny??? like has the level of tim misny awareness that exists in northeast ohio broken containment and become known online yet???

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You are not hard to love 🌷

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"Growing Around Grief"

Lois Tonkin, 1996

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wheres seasons greasons

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