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sau·da·de

/souˈdädə/

noun

desire to be near someone or something distant; a feeling of longing, melancholy, or nostalgia

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LEARN KOREAN

For all you international kpop fans out there who’d like to learn Korean (for multiple reason I guess?), I have collected a large collection of online textbooks, websites, resources, and blogs that can help you achieve your goal!

online textbooks: [ all the downloads are pdfs, no .rar files! ] 

My Korean – book one

My Korean – book two

Dirty Korean

Using Korean

Basic Korean

Korean from Zero! – book one

Korean Grammar for International Learners

Using Korean: a Contemporary Use

Intermediate College Korean

Living Language Korean Course

Continuing Korean

Handbook of Korean Vocabulary

Korean Grammar in Use

Korean for Dummies

Korean Made Simple (not a download)

websites:

how to study korean

Sogang Korean Program

learn korean

talk to me in korean

lets learn korean

free korean lessons

korean for dummies cheat sheet

korean class 101

korean class 101 (youtube)

talktomeinkorean (youtube)

sweetandtasty (youtube)

seemile (youtube)

common vocabulary

useful korean phrases

grammar + vocab reference

vocab games

quizlet

Apps: [ some may only be available for iphone or android and not both so bear with me ]

pop-popping korean (iOS + android)

tengugo hangul (iOS + android)

kdrama talk (iOS only) 

Neme Korean (iOS + android)

KORLINK by Talk to Me in Korean (iOS + android)

Learn Korean by Bravo Language (iOS + android)

Korean Flashcards (free on android only, $4.99 on iOS)

Learn Korean 6000 words (android only)

TOPIK One (iOS + android)

Dongsa (iOS + android)

POPYA animals & fruits + vegetables (iOS + android)

misc. resources:

korean keyboard

culture notes

text slang

crash course on honorifics

children’s books

the chosun (news in korean)

korean class 101 podcast

talk to me in korean podcast

blogs: [ most of these seem pretty active as far as i can tell ]

unyounglearnskorean

study-korean

translating korean

letstteok-korean

onestopkorean

learnkoreanwithmusic

hangeulit

learninghangukeo

way-to-fluency

snubiwriteskorean

easykorean

cassarilla

teachmykorean

HAPPY STUDYING EVERYONE!!!

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“If you can’t do anything about it, then let it go. Don’t be a prisoner to things you can’t change.”

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“We have all been through a lot of shit in our lives; the difference is some of us choose not to play the victim.”

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Morning thoughts

I don’t get why you decide to ignore me for so long. I don’t get why you only come to me when bad things happen. Am I your lifeline? Am I just someone you use when needed? Not someone cherished or loved, but used. I have learned to live with the lies and lack of consistency in our friendship. I can admit that you hurt me, but one thing I can never admit to is that I still love you..

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I fell in love with this guy, a broken soul. We've been together for almost a year, I put my everything into this relationship, shared so much love and care into his existence. There were things in our relationship he cheated he lied, somehow I always forgave him and moved on. But for the past months I've been crying so much, not sleeping, having panic attacks. I feel not enough, like my love isn't enough anymore. Even though I felt so enough before this relationship. I have no idea what to do

Do not enter a relationship with an intention to change that person. 

The idea that your love can heal another person’s trauma is a fantasy. Instead of them healing, more often than not you wind up internalizing their trauma and becoming a victim of their wounds. 

Relationships are not a replacement for therapy and self-work. 

In my experience, everyone has wounds. I have not been in a relationship with a woman who hasn’t in some way been hurt, confused, and traumatized. Everyone has baggage. 

The two important things, however, are whether 1) They are aware they have baggage and 2) They are doing something to heal from it. 

Just as you can bring a horse to water but can’t force it to drink, you cannot force someone to heal. Give them all the love you want, if they have not taken responsibility for their wounds then they will not heal. 

This individual is not in the right place to be in a relationship. And as you are now, you are in no place to help them. If you were a close friend of mine, I would advise you to end this abusive relationship and come back to yourself. 

Whatever you choose to do, I hope you both find peace and clarity. 

Namaste my friend. 

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travel. your money will return. your time won’t.

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