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I...tried to make a meme and got carried away and made A Thing that is like partially unfinished because i spent like 3 hours on it and then got tired.

I think this is mostly scientifically accurate but truth be told, there seems to be relatively little research on succession in regards to lawns specifically (as opposed to like, pastures). I am not exaggerating how bad they are for biodiversity though—recent research has referred to them as "ecological deserts."

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An awful photo because my phone camera is terrible, however I wanted to show off the fake hand my MIL got me for Christmas, and the nail polish colors from mooncat's Star Wars collection. I cannot wait for one week from now when I get to actually wear these colors! I think I'm going to go with 'Lord Vader' (bottom left) first 🩷

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good lord

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I've been doing my coworkers nails lately so here is her holiday nails that I did 🥰

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It tastes almost exactly how I remember it, but more flavor. Probably because to the sauce I added extra molasses and paprika (didn't feel like filling up the pepper grinder). 11/10 recommend especially if you like cabbage. Extremely easy to make. The cabbage needs to rest for longer than you think it does

Making sarma for the first time and I'm a little nervous 😬 I've only had it once

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I don't care what your perception of the female body has been warped into by the media and advertising prevalent in culture. eat some goddamn carbs

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Making sarma for the first time and I'm a little nervous 😬 I've only had it once

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chinese hanfu inspired by snow fox雪狐 by 清欢纪

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chinese hanfu in guzhuang style by 青丝寸寸

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People just straight up hate children and it’s so disturbing.

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The "keep your options open" mentality has ruined so many people's brains, and squandered countless opportunities for meaningful commitment. Hands down some of the worst relationship advice anyone has ever given me.

It's up there with the "nothing wrong with just looking" lie that people love to tell themselves, either to bring comfort to their own depravity or to cope with open and unrepentant betrayal.

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I got some new products, including rubber base and nail tips (my nails keep breaking so needed tips to even them out so I don't have to cut them). First image is my rubber base gel and then two pics of my attempt at some pink nail art for this upcoming Sunday. These should last me past Christmas, but I have some other idea for Christmas so I'll likely redo them before then 🥰

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Most men who are hyper worried about "gold diggers" ultimately don't need to be. They're usually not as flush with "gold" as they think they are, and are usually very egalitarian in their views on opposite sex relations, which is just divorced from reality, and this upsets them. A woman being interested in whether you can provide for her and potentially future children is not a gold digger. A woman who doesn't make as much money as you is not a gold digger. A woman who expects you to pay for dates, but doesn't demand luxury or high-end outings is not a gold digger. A woman who wants to be a stay at home mom is not a gold digger.

The men that actually should be more discerning are usually being led by their base passions and wouldn't be willing to sacrifice swimming in baddies for finding authentic love 🤷‍♀️

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Molasses Crinkle Cookies

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This is so real! If we want to be normal about sex then plainly asking questions about it is the way to go. If we don't want our teenagers to be ashamed to come to us with questions, we ought to speak in unambiguous terms and use biologically correct language when speaking of sexual acts.

Just as a general PSA for this blog:

If you are going to ask me a question, please be specific. I frequently gets asks (especially those relating to sex) that "beat around the bush", use euphemisms, or otherwise speak vaguely in an attempt to be "subtle". In effect, this only serves to confuse me on what you're asking about. "If you know what I mean" - no, I do not, please tell me outright.

I understand that people are unused to plainly speaking about sex. You are always welcome to use the anonymous option if it makes you uncomfortable. But please be unambiguous with your questions. What you might think is an obvious reference to a universal experience might (a) not be as universal as you think, or (b) be interpreted multiple ways.